Why would horny desperate men reject a super hot female sexually?

Anonymous

so sex is a problem now for me- im beautiful and sexy, a guy the other day told me i was a sex object and so gorgeous. my ex used to call me a sex goddess- but he too rejected me. Many males i have encounters with- and this isn't 'sex' in itself but just fooling around literally will reject me abuse me or run away. why would these men do this-- are they 1. scared of sexually powerful women who are not shy or scared? 2. shocked that a really hot woman would want to do anything iwth them 3. just crazy? its really weird... you'd think these men and many are DESPERATE i swear horny wanting sex males.. who can't even get laid, will meet me.. and sometimes if i feel comfortable i'll try to initiate something sexual- mostly b/c THEY want it--theyre turned on, breathing heavy, making sexual comments. however if i ask them to 'touch my breast' they get weird or crazy or even go psycho on me. last guy--he went psychotic.. he touched my breasts, then yelled at me told me to take my shirt off, then began harassing me for taking my shirt off putting me down then took off--ok yeah he was crazy on another level but why the hell would men do this to not just any woman but a super smoking sexy woman? this guy acted desperate--hes the one who tried hitting on me! he said only fat women went for him.. weird so now a thin hot female is interested and he goes psycho on her and runs away? seriously so crazy.. other guys have done similar, not all but many do crazy things. one guy yelled "YOU HAVE POWER OVER MEN" and tried to run away.. i was like wtf? and made him stay.. i was young even hotter and a model.. i dont get what is going on... maybe theyre insecure but why are they harassing abusing and yelling at a gorgeous female who's interested or even in touching and other things? what is wrong with these weirdos? most people tell me.. you're so hot i bet men chase you, i bet u get hit on all the time, you can have any guy you want... no i can

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is it that many of these men are psychopaths so if a girl WANTS the sex they run away b/c they can't con her into it? is it a power thing? or do i just have bad luck in meeting real psychos.. or do men turn into bigger psycohpaths around a really beautiful female.. it makes no sense.. its crazy abnormal and weird.. most of these men are super horny and desperate too!! and im willing and they go psycho and run off..

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most of these guys--will gawk at women on our date--im hotter than most of those women. its like they do anything to not get with me or be with me.. and treat me as in this crazy way.. but theyre turned on by me but don't show it then go crazy on me. a date yesterday began getting mad at me for no reason and being rude.. trying to pick a fight with me.. then he apologized.. i dont get this anger and crazy behavior.. there has to be an underlying reason why they hate pretty women like me

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ManThatKnewTooMuch Yoda
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1. Are you American? Where is this happening? Maybe it's a cultural thing.

2. Maybe you're not as hot as you think, or as hot as the guys say you are. Lots of times they'll just say that to get in your pants or to hype themselves up. I've had to hype up a girl to get myself into her before.

3. Maybe they're afraid of catching something. If you're as aggressive as you say you are then you must have had many sexual partners, at least that's what many guys would conclude, right? Maybe that's what scares them off.
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- Asker
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  yes i am as 'hot' and thats the point... and many will rave about how hot i am and still reject me... im a virgin and most of THESE men have sexual partners many of them.. again this is about why men who are horny are rejecting a gorgeous woman adn this is mostly about not intercourse foreplay... again stupid answrs
- Asker
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  no im not 'aggressive' ugh please no stupid answrs... the men are the aggressive ones im just playing into it...
- Asker
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  for any intelligent guys reading this... Again-- the guys want me... theyre horny and desperate.. i finalyl give into them and make a move b/c theyre so horny but too scared to do something... but the minute i do something they reject me or go nuts or act psycho... also guys who've done things iwth me before, if we meet up again they act WEIRD and will not touch me and act scared of me... most of these males will make sexual comments indicating they want sex and that's all theyre interested in--one guy even got a hotel room and when i showed interest he went psycho on me... another old man kept talking about how pretty i am and he's shocked im single... and then when i let him massage me same thing--he went nuts and acted weird... he's the one who kept asking if we could go to his room and he could massage me... most of these men will rave on how hot i am and say im so gorgeous.. then act nuts the minute i give into their sexual advances wtf is wrong with most of these psychopaths...
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- ManThatKnewTooMuch
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  Don't be insulting. You're not as smart as you think you are. I have answered your question. Allow me to rephrase: There is something wrong with you or the situation that causes these guys to run away. THAT is the answer. Nobody here can tell you because you haven't posted any photos so we don't know how you look. Nobody here was sitting in the corner of the room watching all this go down, so we can't say anything about the situation. There are a lot of variables in play here that you don't seem to comprehend. Contrary to popular belief, horny guys CAN and WILL avoid sex. Just because I'm horny doesn't mean I'm going to fuck that fat chick down the street. Don't be condescending. Reel in your ego a little bit and analyze this like the 30 year old adult you're supposed to be.
- Asker
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  another date spent ten mins telling me how gorgeous i am over n over again... all he said was he was honored to be taking me out... im so beautiful.. and tried recruiting me in his crappy band... all fake... when his credit card declined and i was willing to pay whatever he didn't have he took off.. like a psychopath... another date.."you're so beautiful" then began messing with me later being a jerk for no reason... another date the minute he saw me: "how is it that you're so beautiful and still single.. im surprised the guys here aren't interested." what is wrong with these weirdos jerks psychopaths
- Asker
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  man you're a psycho... get lost... and ur a jerk... and no there is nothing wrong iwth me or the situation u low life looney tune... I've had celebrity models try to hit on me.. MANY male models and many men... its just that men i CHOOSE to get with who i feel comfortable with act psychotic... and its never the fault of the person.. saying im not as smart as i think i am u lunatic... when did i say i was smart? you're a nutcase... get lost sociopath... shoooooooo scram... ur a sack of worthless sh*t... you're an awful bad sh*t loser.. i can't put into words the kind of worthless scum you are...*spits on you*
- Asker
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  there are victoria's secret models who go through the EXACT same crap... and its YOU YOU AND YOU YOU CRAZIES OUT THERE... i wish i could kick your ugly ass upside the head u arrogant cocky rotten sack of used scum... go shit on yourself.. you're useless
FierceBrosnan Xper 7
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I don't know exactly what the hell is wrong with the guys you have been dating but I have read that some guys inner jealousy and insecurities go into full overdrive when they are with a woman they find extremely attractive. They internalize anything good about what is happening and then the "too good to be true" kicks in and before you know it they think you're out to get them in some way.
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- Asker
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  oh yeah that makes sense... that's true.. you're right like the 'too good to be true." i mean if most ugly women reject them.. why would a hot woman want them? one guy did tell me once that most men that meet me will say "why would she meet me?" she can have whoever she wants... another man told me that.. most guys will think she can have whoever she wants and they get scared b/c they can't live up to that... or act the way they need to... one guy told me when he saw my pic he thought "she can do mcuh better than me." so maybe it is insecurities.. or issues... but what are they jealous of... and i mean just touching a breast? i dont get why that's a big deal... are they too turned on? thanks b/c honestly im freaking out about this.. its all too crazy.. and I've heard it from other women but it still is just crazy
- Asker
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  years ago.. i went on a date with a guy.. and at one point i said.. you can touch my breast if u want.. then he asked me to touch his dick--he didn't touch my breast. then he got up and said "im sorry i didn't do waht u wanted me to." huh? i was like wtf... then he left.. got back on a chatline and was DESPERATE trying to meet a woman.. right after he rejected one of the hottest women.. ok wtf was that about? its like an ego trip for them to reject me.. its crazy
- FierceBrosnan
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  Had to walk away for a bit and now I'm MHO! Wow thank you! And I think it's less of an ego trip for them and more of a confidence implosion mentally. They can't figure out why a woman like you is with a guy like them and the fact you are open seems to be brain breaking. I've been there in the past myself and couldn't figure out why I'd blow a good thing when it is right in front of me. So I thought it over and realized I was being super insecure and would not let myself be okay with the situation. You didn't do anything wrong nor is there anything wrong with you. It is just really bad luck in the dating pool right now.
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- Asker
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  you're so right.. and that's totally true--and thanks for the info ;) I know what u mean and I can get why some guys would get scared- im a girl but heck, there are women who i think are intimidating- usually they're taller or abrasive so I get that. I can get guys getting scared... even though it seems weird but the way u described it, it makes sense. I don't get the crazy ones who go psycho adn abuse and harass me or try to hurt me but maybe its a feeling of sense of insecurity, loss of control... and the confidence explosion... lol... that's funny but maybe people just aren't that confident bc/ they've been rejected so much? then some hot girl wants to get with them- they're out strugglign to meet women and she's just open and it confuses the heck out of them... wait a second--fat women reject me, most women reject me but she wants me? something has to be wrong here... but thanks so much it just explains a lot about what's going on..;)

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thatkaruguy Explorer
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Probably because you are crazy and delusional
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- Asker
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  no you're crazy and delusional... and normal people dont go around calling people names that make no sense.. get lots u psychopath...
- Asker
  +1 y
  judging from ur ugly ass monkey picture.. ur hideously ugly and u look crazy whackjob fuk off freak
- thatkaruguy
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  Are you upset that you hit the wall and have a bad personality so no one really wants you?
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- Asker
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  every guy wants me--and i have an amazing personality... only a loser with no personality would go around telling others they have bad personalities.. only trash would do that--normal people wouldn't do that... you're crazy and a psycho... shoo
- thatkaruguy
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  hahaha wait are you that same chick that was asking this question two weeks ago? if you were so attractive you wouldn't be anon and personality werent shitty which it is you wouldn't have a problem getting guys. however you completely leave out major details on why a guy might not like you and just blame it all on them.
- Asker
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  oh wow... this monkey here is now a stalker.. get lost u fuking pitiful reject... something is wrong with crap like you constantly bothering insulting and harassing women online... shooo pitiful lowlife
- thatkaruguy
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  I honestly hope you're trolling. I think that you have npd narcissistic personality disorder. It really is a real thing you should do some surveys to see if you have it and if you do go to a psychiatrist
- Asker
  +1 y
  you've been shat on u fuking stalker--NO ONE CARES FOR YOUR PATHETIC WORTHLESS OPINION... you're WORTHLESS U DEMON... SHOO DEMON!!!
- Asker
  +1 y
  worthless ugly n*gger troll sitting here stalking women and still TALKING? SHOOO DEMON
- thatkaruguy
  +1 y
  With each word that comes out your mouth it should become increasingly clear why no men want to date you.
- Asker
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  get the hell away u mentally sick stalking demon... ur talking about yourself and u need to get lost.. you ugly gay low class cock sucker.. psychopath gross
- thatkaruguy
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  have a nice day
- diegoD
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  NO offense to you supposedly "hot girl" but you acted all phsyco in response to the comment of that guy said. Anyhow where are you meeting these guys? it could be they are intimidated. why don't you try to get laid with a very hot guy? Right now I would not be intimidated by a hot girl.
James0 Yoda
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Reasons 1,2, and 3 for sure. I seen my friends freeze up all the time or don't act themselves when they see a hot girl around. It also sounds like you might be dating online
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- Asker
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  that's true.. men do freeze up... but if theyre on a date with the girl and she wanted them to touch her.. they would be scared too?
- James0
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  I assume you meant he? Yes, been told by my friends saying they wanted to kiss her froze, was to scared, and plenty of last seconds exuses. From my female friends, they tell me about the same things you have above, some don't have friends :c people don't approach you
- Asker
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  oh wow... that's true... totally right. I had some guy friends tell me the same thing- about other women. one guy told me his ex girlfriend couldn't get sex either from men... that they were weird and wouldn't do things with her. he said she went to him for sex. I almost didn't believe it tho it did happen to me too (i thought he was saying it to get me to go to him sexually and he was interested so its not every guy), but he said she couldnt get sex either. a neighbor told me the same thing- a woman came to him for sex b/c she couldnt get it anywhere else... maybe its an epidemic or a problem out there and its happening more than u think it is :)
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- James0
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  I feel like it always been a problem and it's getting worst :/ you see a lot of questions about how to approach a girl, then there the belief a pretty girl will not have problems. Almost forgot about getting boyfriends or even there first kiss
- Asker
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  thanks :)
- James0
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  Np, just know you aren't the only girl with this problem
- Asker
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  oh awesome... its good to know that... and I've heard that but it doesn't seem true, though i know it is--thanks for the insight for sure... its nice to hear from normal and cool people on here ;)
TJM27 Xper 6
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Tbh, if you're as hot as you say you are and guys keep rejecting you I think it's because you have a shitty personality
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- Asker
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  no i don't... and thats a DUMB thing to say.. these men want sex and will fuk a horse if they could... this has nothing to do with personality im talking about wanting sex... don't throw bullshit in there b/c you're an idiot
- Asker
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  the guys aren't rejecting ME... theyre rejecting a dd gorgeous sexually hot female for any form of sex... many of these men will fuk a horse again and do ugly women... again no more shlt answres from retards here
Likes2drive Master
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I wish I knew you, I guarantee you I would be perfectly normal to you not act like that , what's up with those guys? That sounds so strange, you must be putting out some kind of weirdo vibe, lol
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- Asker
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  well... who knows.. my actual vibe is 'sexual energy' and a guy even told me taht the other day he said "ur a sex object.. you're just beautiful, and have a sexual aura around you"... you have the features and many men will see you as a sex object--kind of like beyonce or marilyn monroe etc... but again dont men want to get with beyonce? im not black but im se Asian... i don't get it...
- Asker
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  just bad luck but there has to be a psychological reason.. such as theyre scared intimidated.
- Likes2drive
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  Then I guess they are intimidated by your beauty and act all strange by it, To bad I can't see a pic of you
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- Asker
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  well i'd let u see one.. i'd post one but im sure i'l get harassed and called names.. and ugly even though the pics are pretty
- Likes2drive
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  I think you can send one directly to me in my message box but not sure, but now you have curious 😊 and your probably right about some haters commenting on it if you posted it publicly
ZoravarSingh1391 Xper 2
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I won't , trust me!! M ready
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hornyguy23333 Xper 2
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1and 2 are the best
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Anonymous
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Maybe it's your personality. You are the one that seems desperate for people to see you in a certain way.
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Anonymous
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Well cause the super hot female might be Caitlyn Jenner's LOL
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- Asker
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  well she's kind of pretty but...
- Opinion Owner
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  :D :) :P
- Asker
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  she is attractive but.. she's a publicity stunt... the whole media is a joke.. i wouldn't get with her though, male or female...
Anonymous
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Don't feed the troll
Don't feed the troll
DO NOT FEED THE TROLL
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- ManThatKnewTooMuch
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  I guess you're right. Thanks anon.
Anonymous
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Don't feed the troll
Don't feed the troll
DO NOT FEED THE TROLL
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- Asker
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  get lost u fuking worthless troll... you're the troll not people posting questions... where do u monkeys come from
- Opinion Owner
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  www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1520934-why-are-men-so-mean-to-pretty-women
  
  Maybe because you keep posting your bullshit. See above.
- Asker
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  if you know i keep posting sh*t.. it means you have no life and live online.. what a fuking loser YOU are... get lost... crazies
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- Opinion Owner
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  How about you find a new hobby. Or here's a thought, post something different for a change.
- Asker
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  dont tell people what to post you deranged sack of dog shit... gte off people's postings you ugly hideous weirdo and troll loser... you need mental help u sack of shit
- Slayee95
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  The asker here is having an acceptance problem. She can't seem to comprehend that telling name and demeaning the person can't get her anywhere. Even if she have deadly bomb body with double dd assests and model as cherry on top.