I'm trying anal for the first time with my boyfriend. Has a guy ever cum in your butt? Do you leave the cum in or push it out?

Should I leave the cum in my butt or run to the bathroom and push it out immediately? Why?
Leaving the cum in and go to bed
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Run to the restroom and push it out immediately
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Someone said it makes you poop. Is that just the cum or is it actually poop coming out? That sounds gross. And we don't use condoms we are both tested ans I'm on the pill
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  • This is a no brainier. Why would you try to push it out? It's not my preferred way of letting my boyfriend to come, I personally more of a giving head kind of girl lol But let's go to the facts, if you are trying anal is because somehow you wanted your boyfriend to enjoy himself a little. If you trying for the first time the best tip I have for you is to relax, take it slowly, put some spit or lub on it and let him do his thing on you, just lead him to go slower or harder as things can escalate quite quickly sometimes depending on his appetite lol Often I let my boyfriend cum inside my ass. The main reason I do it is because he loves it. Think about it, wouldn't you want it to tease and please your man like that? Pretty much all men likes it to finish somewhere in or on you ;) So to finish answering your question, once you let him cum inside you, just enjoy the shaky legs and butterflies in your stomach, knowing you have a very happy man beside you.

  • I've done both lots of time.
    from my experience, I'd say go to the bathroom. you don't have to run immediately after it but don't wait too long either. it's cleaner and makes less problems. when I sleep after it then I don't care too much if I keep it in but if we had sex earlier in the day then it sometimes gives me the feeling that I have to poop which isn't very nice.

    but the easiest thing is... just try it out yourself. but if you have anal for the first time then that should be your least concern lol

    • How old were you when you first tried it? Was it good at all or just painful your first time? My friends all tell me it hurts like hell at first then it gets better the more you do it.

    • there is a lot you can do wrong and that's why it hurts the first couple of times for a lot of girls. that's especially the case if you do it with a guy who has no experience either. wrong position, not enough lube, too big too fast, not relaxed enough etc. I highly recommend doing you first experiences by yourself. it needs time until you find out what position works best for you, how to work your way up to bigger toys/penises, to lose the fear that it might hurt or be dirty so you can fully relax... it might be possible that you don't like the feeling of it, but if you like the idea of it and don't just do it for him then don't give up after the first time. like your friends said, it will get better. but if you like the feeling of it is something completely different. but after you got some experience with it you can try combine vaginal/anal stimulation, it can be very intense and can make it easier to orgasm.

  • Yes my boyfriend cummed in my butt. I left it in there and went to bed. I love his cum

    • You are so hot

    • Lol thanks

    • Can you feel the cum in your butt after anal? Does it feel weird?

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  • Leave the cum dammit XD

  • You should wear condoms anyway.

  • Regardless of whether you both have been tested for STD's is irrelevant. You can still get a sexually transmitted infection. Just not a good idea.

  • F*cking disguisting

  • Whatever's more comfortable for you.
    Guys like depositing their semen in women and then leaving it there
    (hence the popularity of "creampie" & "swallow" porn vs "all on her back" and "spit it in the sink" porn).

    So we love the idea of leaving a huge load inside her ass.

    That being said, you can leave it in for awhile, or get rid of it immediately.
    I wouldn't advise trying to keep it overnight though.
    You might end up with kind of a gross mess.

  • Okay here is some advice don't let him cum in your ass. If you do you will shit cum for a few hours afterwards depending on how much he cummed.

    • Is that poop or is it cum when you have to go to the bathroom if you leave it up there? And are you speaking of experience or just assuming?

    • you will feel like you have to poop but all that will come out is cum... My lover and I never use condoms but we do with anal. So I would suggest you use a condom, with it being your first time things could get messy.

    • "shit cum" = boner

  • yes every time but he has a condom on