I think my boyfriend would like a blowjob but Im 2 shy?

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K... First of all, Just don't judge me.. Pleassee... :)
Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and we luv eachother so fuckn much..
 We do have sex- but when we do, we dont go hardcore or anything like that-Its just plain, casual sex/making love most of the time and we aren't big on oral.. 
So.. My bf's like a really sweet.. really deccent guy, so anytime we have sex-he lets me have my own way.. He doesn't even force anything and even in our first time-he didn't ask me out, he waited tilll I was ready..
Sometimes tho.. "occasionally" he would lick me through my panties (dont get me wrong-I luv it..)
 but even if he does that to me- I never had the guts 2 really do anything 2 him n (he never asks me 2).. as in- I'v never given him a blowjob or anything.. I just find it reaaalllyyyy embarrassing... 
But all guys like lowjobs.. Handjobs or just anything which feels good right?
Do u think I should give him one next time?
 What if I messs up?
 I need help... :(
And does it make me a terrible girlfriend 2 never have given my boyfriend any oral sex even if he does?

slatyb · Accepted Answer

You can't mess up. If you have seen porn blow jobs, forget them. Just relax, take your time, and have fun. Don't think there's some magic thing you need to do to get him to climax. There isn't, and anyway a lot of guys can't climax from a girl giving head. It feels great but it won't get them off. If you want to be really good at it, learn to suppress your gag reflex so you can take it all in. He will love that. If you can relax enough to allow him to take control then he will come and he will never ever leave you.

Bur7han · Accepted Answer

Most boys like Blow Jobs i know it's the best but not all boys like BJ some like FJ some like HJ.

But my suggestion for you is don't be shy about that he is liking you and you are not or anything. You have to do it some day so why not now huh... But only do this if you two truly love each other because that moment is the best moment of your whole life to have sex with the one you are in love with.

AustinMan · Answer

First, take a step back and BREATHE!!! Here's a link to giving great head. If you have any questions, post them here or message me.

hellionthesage · Answer

Go for it, he will enjoy and appreciate it. You should google tips on how to give oral before you do, its good to be knowledgeable.

Kingd353 · Answer

so many questions... ok list time
but first... JUDGE JUDGE JUDGE JUDGE JUDGE!
ok now that that's out of hte way...
no you're not a bad girlfriend for not blowing him
you shouldnt' ask people if you should blow him or not that decisions is yours and yours alone if you dont' feel comfortable with it dont' if you can get past your shyness then do it dont' decide based off of us
and as for if you mess up as long as you don't bite him you'll be fine

BigPick · Answer

Start with you hands and watch his reactions. Then do the same things with your mouth. Lips only at first, though. Kisses are always a good way to start oral sex. Wander around over his body and tell him how you enjoy tasting him. No need to be in a hurry.

JuicyBrain · Answer

I think you should try to get out of your comfort zone a little. Not too much, just a little bit more each time or else, you will both eventually start finding it a bit boring. There is really no reason to be shy since you know he obviously care about you. He will help you get out of your shell. Take his hand and follow him.

stevie123 · Answer

Oral sex is generally considered"less naughty "than regular sex, so yes, you should be doing oral to each other.
You should be letting him lick you without panties, it is more intense.
Kissing your BFs penis is no big deal, you have sex with him, so you are no stranger to his stuff.
It is pretty hard to mess up a BJ unless you bite him.
Practice sucking your thumb, and licking it.
It is a natural action.
You don't have to do him all at once, do as much as you are comfortable with.
You might actually get into it.
You are not a terrible girlfriend, but just one that is too reserved.
After all, you two are lovers, and should be sharing each other completely.

Heavyhitter · Answer

It dosn't make u bad just next time when u r in bed together slowly go down dont say anything or think just do it don't worrie about messing up he won't care he will thank u and be soooo happy just remember its for him and fight past the shyness u can do it

countrydude · Answer

You should give it a try at least. Nothing to be embarrased about. Just remember keep your mouth and his penis moist. Have watter nearby take a drink. And if you really want him to enjoy it play with his balls a lot as your bobbing up and down on his cock.
Also next time he goes down on you take your panies off. Its more enjoyable for both of you.

oldsoul82 · Answer

If you've given a blowjob before and accepted it and you 18+ like you say you are, you should have no problem giving the man fellatio.

Georgi2008 · Answer

Go down on him, slap it around and have fun with his dick. Don't worry about making him cum right away.

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