Boyfriend stopped satisfying me. No orgasam for over two months 😳 Why?

[Tmimms4702]

We started as friends and he chased for two years till I was available and ready. It's been a an adventure ever since we officially started dating (2ish yrs) . He wanted sex all the time like I do at the beginning and still does. He loved watching me squirm , moan and get soaking wet before he really touched me. I give Hime Bj's all the time because I really enjoy. I love rubbing his balls at night falling asleep with him. I'm a bit hard to get off because I get so sensitive so at fist really soft touch is needed but intercorse is fine. After the first in in less sensitive and that continues. He did always get of I did more because he always wanted to I never asked. We both were very satisfied sexually. Now he wants Bj's all the time ( I enjoy) and to rub his balls but rearly try's or wants to touch me other the fucky hard as possible or 90% of the time fuck my face (sick twice during😳). Iv asked and even took over and he told me to be quite and just do him nicely as he says. I was pissed. I went out of town and this has been us since. He orgasams every two three day this way and Iv found him rubbing himself. Iv mentioned often I'm horny and in over two months he's wanted to and has tried two times. It was hard to orgasam fully because I felt he wasn't into it shortly after starting so he asked for his normal and I did as asked. I said something again and asked why this was happening and he said I have been I touch your boobs and hold you all the time. I then said yes on my way down to blow you. He then went off saying I can't believe your arguing this I and sexual with you. I then asked how he would feel if it was reverted. Him pleasing me but me not returning or trying at least a few times. He got more made. I told him I didn't understand why he stopped wanting to satisfy me when I know he's horny and wants sex and lots of blowjobs. His response I feel your not connected to me because you haven't cum. I replied I'm not as much because you've onl

[Vtachy]

Stop giving into him so easily. And tell him that until he makes an effort to put your pleasure as a priority like you have for him, that he is going to find out what it has felt like to be on the receiving end of what he is doing. If he isn't willing to work on it, then consider the situation for what it is. A relationship shouldn't be just always one person giving.

[JuicyBrain]

He got comfortable. He takes you for granted. Stop giving him anything until he changes his ways. You could even thing about taking a break and see if you miss each other. If he gets violent, leave him immediately.

[Tmimms4702]

I agree. I said two weeks no sex. His response will be my deciding factor. The only problem is I want to give it all the time. I'm a Scorpio and sex and love are one to me. It's like food. I don't need the orgasam all the time but sex is good anytime just for how sensitive I get to feel every curve, hump, texture and changes along the adventure the body has two being one. I think it's going to be harder for me. ugh it's really upsetting because he doesn't think he's done anything. I also don't like the shut up slut and do as your told thing rough all the time now. He gets hard in my mouth but doesn't stay up enough for penetration to last long so it's back to his fav. It became a pattern executed specifically to orgasam. I play👌🏼to always be a slut, whore, hooker punished hard no speaking unless told what to say and orrected and silenced again. I'm a extremely intelligent honest balanced woman. Seems he loved my intellect handyness in and out bed now I'm offensive. i obey please both

[JuicyBrain]

Have you tried integrating toys? If he has problems keeping it up, he may have unrelated problems he needs to work out. If you don't like being dominated, don't play the game. Or at least, try switching. If he won't, stop playing. Don't give him anything until you've had what you wanted. Looks like you are good at being dominated though lol

[AustinMan]

I didn't read the whole article. Maybe you should try this:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a10152-how-to-talk-to-your-so-about-sex