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I still can't ride him ontop very well... I dont know why? I feel so disappointed with myself because I really want to satisfy him so much?

Regarding my other question I'm good at everything else but this! I don't literally think in my head that I suck at it while I'm on top of him.. I know id lose concentration and make it worse. No bad thoughts in my head while I'm "trying" to ride him on top. Yesterday we had the sexiest time together, its always amazing with him. But when I get on top.. it seems like I'm not able to bounce or go back & forth very well. I'm only 5'3 tall, could it be that my legs aren't long enough. because when I sit on him legs apart, its like just enough.. my legs/thighs and pussy are touching his body.. no gaps. As u would have with a taller long legged girl. Could this be the problem? His body is quite big, he muscular.. waist is not skinny. I don't want to squat while sexing him on top, I think I look weird. I've seen porn with girls riding on top and it looks easy.. but I just can't seem to do like they do. Maybe someone can link me to a porn example to help me? I'm really sad.. I know it shouldn't be a big deal, but it is to me... I just wanna sex him real good and have him excited when I get ontop. I know a lot if guys have said they haven't really had a girl ride them "good" Someone teach me because Im getting stressed out with this problem of mine. *serious replies only. Thank u*
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My other question was: " i wanna know exactly which position feels best for guys. because mine has a big long penis, so its not exactly easy to just ride him like average sized guys. Should I lean forward with my lower body up towards his stomach more and thrust? Would reverse cowgirl, with the girl leaning forward towards his legs and her thrusting be good? or sitting straight up and go up and down be better?"
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  • Cowgirl tips
    Here’s the way I have found, with the help of a very cooperative girlfriend, that a woman can ride her man all the way up the mountain to multiple, increasing powerful orgasms and ultimately, squirting.
    • He needs to understand that he can help with this position by grabbing her hips and helping her move. At first, leave to her own devices but as she gets more and more aroused, he should become stronger and more and more forceful in moving her back and forth.
    • Put him on his back and mount up with you on your knees.
    • Slide him in and settle in so you’re comfortable.
    • Rock like you’re riding a horse, slowly at first and faster as you get more aroused.
    • When you’re ready for him to help, reach down and put his hands on your hips. For effect, you can beg him in your sexy slut voice to help you.
    • When you start to get close to cumming, move like you’re trying your best to break that thing off. Of course, you won’t but the point is to not hold back. Just go crazy.
    • When you’re right on the edge, tell him to do you. He thrusts up as powerfully as he can and holds it with you impaled as deeply on his cock as possible, perched on his erection. He also forcefully tilts his hips and slams his shaft into your G-spot.
    • As you cum, don’t even slow down. Keep going and you will cum over and over, each time increasingly intense.
    • If you have The Big One, as I call it, you may very likely squirt so if there’s a gush, it’s not urine. It’s female ejaculate. Keep going until you’re completely done.
    Here are a few ancillary suggestions:
    • Pee first so that if you should squirt, you can be confident it’s not pee.
    • If you’re into S&M, have him forcefully pinch your nipples as you’re starting to cum.
    • He can slap your tits around if you’re into that. One girlfriend of mine liked to be slapped while she was up there with me telling her what a trashy slut she was for being up there in the first place.
    • Some ladies like their men to reach around and smack their ass while they ride.

    • Thank u for all that! Its nice of u to take the time and tell me all that. I helps a lot! And I will definitely take his hands to my hips next time. I like being smacked... it an extra turn on :)

    • It's my pleasure. Just saw someone 32 follow me. Was that you?

    • How'd it go?

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  • have you talked with him?
    I HATE when the woman is on top. It never works out very well. It is awkward. i never know if I should move or just lay there. The only bonus is I get to see her body and face so that is good. But I only do it for the woman. Some women that is the only way they cum through intercourse. since I always take care of her orally, it usually isn't an issue.

    • Thanks for your honest opinion.. From my pov, I think u should move after a while she's been on top.. hold her hips & thrust up into her.. it feels really good.

  • There's nothing wrong with you. Maybe your boyfriend just can't get off that way. I never have been able to. I'm happy to do whatever for my partner, but I've never been able to climax passively.

    • Oic.. is it because the pace is not fast enough? Compared to a guy thrusting its like 4 times faster than a girl can bounce or grind..

    • No, it just doesn't work for me. Sort of like some women can't climax from intercourse alone, but need help with their fingers or a vibrator or a tongue.

  • girl on top sucks anyways.

    • Really? Is it because they can't ride u? Or u just don't like the position?

    • it's more for them than the guy. like most mammals I prefer to do the fucking.

  • Keep trying. Ask him for ideas/help.. you'll get it.

  • You're 32 and you're asking this question?

    How is anyone else going to tell you what you can do with your body?

    • Yes, asking is better than not asking I think. There's so many things to learn about sex, and if im not doing something right.. I will try to get it right.

    • It's pretty simple... You're overcomplicating it...

  • Just keep trying. I'm sure you can do it! At least it's fun to practice! :)

    • Thank you, yes I will practice more & hopefully get better at it

  • Most girls can't, it makes me mad, I'm sure its good but I've only had one chick get me off like that. Then she started making fun of me to other people about the sex, saying we did more bouncing that anything... stupid

    • That's not nice of her to make fun of u.. I guess we girls have to try harder to ride

    • I knew something was up when she didn't say one word to me from the time it was over until I took her back home

  • I'm so glad to hear from so many guys that it does not work because it does not work for me either.

    • Even if it doesn't work for you, does it at least make u feel good in a way,? Even if it doesn't make u cum

    • Our's is a complicated case. We have a horrible sex life. She is not intonsex at all. I have a high drive. But with years, I have given in to the idea that this is what it is. It cannot change. In 20 years, probably only 5-6 times inhave managed to get her on top. I thought it doesn't work because her thighs are think so the position just doesn't form.

    • Of course it hurts. I hurts me from inside. What can I do?

  • Well you might want to listen to the guys who love the position.

    For me it's more when I do if she likes. And in that case what she should be doing is getting herself off with my dick. Move in the way that feels best to YOU. Be less under control. Go nuts. That's what's hot.

    • Thanks for the reply, will try to

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