Why wouldn't you date/marry a girl if she has slept with a black guy?

@coolsky01 recently asked a question titled "Would you Date and be seriously involved (marriage) with a girl who slept with black men?". A lot of guys voted "no". I am curious why is that? I didn't even know this is a thing.

Is it because of their race or is it because you think that your penis is smaller?

Do you think that men who wouldn't want to get involved with a girl who has slept with a black guy are insecure or racist?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I said no, this is why.
    www.cdph.ca.gov/.../Fact_Sheet_AfrAm_STD.pdf
    "insecure or racist?" I hate to break it to you bro, I'm a black man that lost the genetic tan. Get over it. Negro is Spanish for black, if you're hurt by it you should be. Go after your Spanish salesmen. Why are you so ashamed of your own race? Why don't you want to sleep with black girls? Why do you see the white race as better? Ethnic dilution is genocide, and you're hitler.

    • Heil Hydra

  • Lol, it's only guys on gag. People in real life don't really give a shit in terms of people you sleep with. They are most likely insecure because girls aren't attracted to them and they think of black people as something less of them so them being with a girl would be wrong in their eyes which is wrong.

Most Helpful Girls

  • This is so shallow lol
    I think guys who are specifically bothered because their girl was with a black guy ( and wouldn't be bothered if he was not black instead) are either racist or insecure (size wise).

  • i think it's because those guys are probably insecure and buy into the black guys have bigger penises stereotype.

  • Well I would, and I think it's shallow of a guy to say "no" to that question.

  • I wouldn't marry or even consider dating a guy who thinks like that.

    • Thanks for MHO

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  • I love how insecure some white guys are. This question makes me want to pursue more white women.

    Such insecurity is what makes her call a chocolate brother up when you're out of town.

  • Didn't know dudes wouldn't like that.

    • Same. Or maybe its just guys on here.

    • Could be only dudes on gag.

  • Many guys don't want used goods in any case, and girl who's pussy what destroy by black dick who use and dump her is going to have a hard time to find a date.

    • What's the colour got to do though?

    • @MsElizabeth96 well blacks are consider to have monstrous dicks, did you not know?

    • Is it actually true though? and even if it was it's not going to make a difference to her is it

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  • I don't understand why some men wouldn't. I wouldn't give a shit.

  • And I answered and got involved of both of their arguments. I'm black so I have no problem with that. I've really never heard of white guys wanting to shun a white girl for that, however I do know many black WOMEN who hate white women for dating us.

    • Indeed. And many white women hate Asian woman / white man relationships.

    • @evenlift To some degree, yeah. It's mostly white women who label any guy as having a "fetish" just cuz he likes women of another race. It's so ridiculous.

  • It would make no difference to me.

  • he and others who agree with him have insecurities.

  • I'm not closed off to it but it does turn me off a bit. I wouldn't say I "lose respect" for her like the other question phrased it. Id only lose respect if a girl hooks up with guys who fit the druggue or thug stereotype but that regardless of race.

    For me its more of an emotional turn off.

    I'll admit part of it is because of porn/dick size. Like if I were to hear about it my mind would just visualize a black guy with a huge dick having agressive degrading porn style sex with her.

    That and part of it is the visualization of someone who looks drastically different from me having sex with her. Like the greater contrast of skin tines makes the image stand out more.

    I would never admit to this in real life tho. I know there are "right answers" and "wrong answers" to these sort of questions. So if I was asked this in real life I would probably say: "who cares" because I know its less drama that way.

  • I just loll!! whomever person she slept with shouldn't affect her current relationship. Those dudes were probs worried if their perormance would outshine those dudes or nah.

  • Whether or not she got wrecked by a black dude wouldn't matter to me

    I'm surprised at that too

  • lol only on gag man
    only on gag...

    • Actually, this is quite a common opinion among white men. But, as I have said so many times on here (but girls often refuse to believe), the men on GAG are not different from men in real life. It's just that almost all men in real life are terrified of offending women and thereby losing possible access to pussy, and so they hide their controversial views.

    • @evenlift what s the issue with black dudes though in my eyes it s or complete stereotyping and porn influence or racism both unacceptable behavior

    • My guess is sexual insecurity.

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  • Obviously lots of guys won't but since i asked the question everyone is attacking me, i dont mind really but plenty of guys think like that.

    • I am just trying to find out why they think that.

    • different guys have different reasons me personally i have nothing against black people but teh women that go after them "regardless for how good the guy might be" are usually with issues. Also as you know guys are pretty visual and black going in white is prettty hard to... not visualise, it just makes my emotions much weaker for that girl, i can't give you a scientific reason or something concrete, its just how i feel and have always felt, call it natural instinct if you may I don't know its just a feeling i was born with.

  • What difference does it make if she slept with white or Indian guys?

  • I didn't see that question. No it wouldn't matter what race her ex was.

  • You would have to ask the people who said no, as only they know why.

    I would imagine that the most common reasons were racist or insecure.

    I also imagine that those are 2 things that women don't look for in a man. So I guess most women would say no to dating those guys anyway.

  • I wouldn't think that's bad. Why would that make her undateable.

  • I would date or marry a girl if she had slept with a black guy in the past

  • Cause once she goes black, She never goes back.

  • I dont think that her pussy will turn black because of that

  • Yes I would marry that girl. I don't see an issue with that.

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