Would you Date and be seriously involved (marriage) with a girl who slept with black men?

[CoolSky01]

I feel obligated to ask this question now, after more than two days of arguing with @Boredandconfused and trying to explain to her that white men find white women much less desirable and won't commit to them if they slept with a black man before she and lots of other women still think its somekind of a consirapcy and that iam lying to her even though i have nothing to gain out of this, not to mention calling every guy who agrees insecure with a small package...

So here's my question, you are a confident guy with a good job and a home/flat... etc you are young and looking for something serious, are you ready to date, and eventully marry a woman you know for a fact dated and slept with black men in the past? will you marry such a woman and make her the mother of you children?

No

Yes - but just for sex nothing serious

Yes - i will marry her

Updates

+1 y

keep in mind only the guys votes count, and right now its 12 no and 6 yes

Updates

+1 y

you know what facsinates me? the fact that every girl denies dating black dudes for their penises, but almost every comment made by a girl ends with " your insecure cause they have a bigger penis "

it just shows one thing, you only think of penises when you think of black guys, says a lot about you...

[Rocket_Queen]

This whole idea is ridiculous. I've dated and slept with a black man, and if any other man out there had a problem with that... well bye. Thanks for not wasting my time, because I know my worth and it isn't measured by the color of the shell of the men I have slept with. Are these men out there who feel like white women are then somehow less? Definitely, but so are idiots, racists, morons, the list goes on. Everyone has things they will tolerate on a partner or not. If the color of shell of someone I've been with gets anybody bent? Well please, get it off your chest, and let me keep rollin with a smile on my face. That is my thoughts on the situation.

[Maik567]

Color of the shell? Why are you so afraid of calling it race?

[Rocket_Queen]

@Maik567 I'm not afraid of anything, but thats seriously how trivial it is. That's my point by calling it "shell"... its so trivial.

[Maik567]

Except there literally are more differences between races than just color of their skin. But if you think that ignoring that is going to make your point stronger then go ahead.

[Rocket_Queen]

@Maik567 you have clearly missed the point here. I'm not denying there are differences, but as for this question insinuating that a woman has less value ONLY because she has had sex with a man of a different color than her? Then yes, it is literally that simple and trivial. It isn't because "races are different" as you said, it's ONLY because she is now devalued because the color of someone elses skin, which is... ding ding ding: Ridiculous. So please continue to tell me how I'm ignoring the facts. I'll wait.

[Maik567]

The question doesn't insinuate that tho. I don't think a woman has less value because she slept with a black man, that's the askers thoughts. Just found it weird how you tried to trivialize the differences between races by calling it "color of the shell".

I mean let's say you didn't want to marry a smoker, that doesn't mean that you think he is worth less. Just that you don't want that.

[Rocket_Queen]

@Maik567 well I think that's a matter of perception, and how I perceived no only this question, but the one he is referring to, and the one she was referring to that he originally asked. So we will have to agree to disagree. I know therw are differences between races, I wasn't taking away from that except for the sake of this question where I felt he was insinuating how other men feel that way in which case it is just the color of someones skin. I also don't mind that men feel that way, whatever makes them happy, in my opinion thought it's ridiculous, just as their opinion of me would be that I'm less. It's cool, the world still goes round.

[Maik567]

Yeah I guess.

I agree with you tho, I don't understand why someone would get upset about this question unless they had self esteem issues and wanted everyone to like them.

[Rocket_Queen]

@Maik567 yes! That we can agree on. I've definitely always been more of the take me or leave me type. Not about impressing anyone. You just can't please em all.

[alor1an]

CoolSky01 is probably jealous because he found out a black guys dick was bigger than his.

[Maik567]

@alor1an Kinda funny that you would get upset about the question after what we just talked about with Rocket_Queen.

[alor1an]

@Maik567 no. i'm not upset dude. i was just having my own conversation with that @sshat on a different question. and the things he was saying were rude, racist, and obnoxious. i only said that to get back at him.

[Maik567]

@alor1an That literally means that you're upset. And you came to the conversation where we just agreed that anyone who would get upset about the asker holding this opinion has self esteem issues themselves.

Also just as advice I don't think you're gonna change anyones mind about this subject when you can only talk about dick size and even imply that black guys have bigger dicks than white guys.

[alor1an]

@Maik567 ok. i take it back, but that does not mean i have self esteem issues. i was just being a brat. i apologize for interrupting your conversation.

[Gabriella171]

Why do people have to make everything about race god. I'm sick of it wtf does her dating a black guy have to do with anything, if she fucked him so what. What's so degrading about being attracted to black men. You sound like an insecure asshole who doesn't want to come of as an racist but is a big one behind closed doors.

I'm black and I've dated black guys , mixed guys, and a white guy. Slept with only one guy and yes he was black. You want to know why my ex didn't have a problem with it , because he wasn't racist.

Ps. Sounds like your an small dick racist douche bag. Not suggercoattin anything for you buddy

[Gabriella171]

No your just really insecure lol:-) :-)

[CoolSky01]

are you answering yourself?

[Gabriella171]

No that's was for your little update. Bye

[CoolSky01]

you're black it doesn't apply to you, you can fk whoever you want.

[Gabriella171]

I know I can. But why do you think white girls cant? I just don't understand what's so bad about them liking black guys.

[CoolSky01]

I will try to explain it :
White girls have lots of white options they can get white guys and white guys are the majority, now when she decides that she wants someone from another race she has broken the rules, her races rules, unspoken rules.
Not to mention the quality of girls that usually date black men is low, they are usually after sex, theat cheat, gold diggeres, or have emotional issues, lets just say they are damaged somehow, its not the black guys fault but girls like that are drawn to black guys so when they see a white girl dating a black guy they assume all those stuff about her which is a pretty good sign of "stay the fk away", sure a lot will think its racism against black guys but the reality its in fact not liking the women that date black guys because they usually have issues, black guys seen to attract them so they are collateral damage if it makes sense.

[Gabriella171]

That made no sense at all. You make it sound like dating a black person period is disgraceful. Like we're not worthy enough. Let me tell you something buddy you being white doesn't make you some God given prize, your a human like the rest of us so do yourself a favor and stop thinking that your better because your not. There are so many more attractive races then just white. Get over yourself

[CoolSky01]

actually i have light tannish skin, anyways if you read anything of what i wrote you would have seen that i never desprescted black people i mentioned how damaged girls are drawn to black guys, no idea why but it happens, its like how iron is drawn to magnet, put 10 metals and iron will stick to the magnet does that makes it the magnets fault? not iron is just drawn to it.

[Gabriella171]

But you sound so dumb. Why does she have to be damaged to want a black man. I have a white friend and she has only ever dated black guys. She isn't damaged , that's just what she prefers and there's nothing wrong with that

[CoolSky01]

of course you can't say all are but a big number of them is and most guys aren't interested in filtering girls one by one, also if she eventually marries a black guy and not just dates them for fun then switches to whites for something stable and marriage i see no problem with it.

[Gabriella171]

Why wouldn't the relationship be stable? Is it because he's black. Your a fucking racist I'm sorry, no I'm not sorry because people like you make me sick. Your a hater. You don't want to see a interracial couple because you don't think a black man is good enough for a white women just say it. You know that's what you think so stop suger coating it. Your a dam fool. You have no facts your just projecting your feelings on a whole race of people.

It's sad when people still can't see past the color of someone's skin...

[Anonymous]

this whole question " just shows one thing, you only think of penises when you think of black guys, says a lot about you..."

im a virgin and im not white but if a guy said that to me or if he has that kinda mindset.. idc if he wants to break up or not, because id gladly do it for him

and the fact that there is only 2 votes difference between yes and no is scary... like seriously?

but i mean on the flip side, i guess its not so bad because most GAG males are nowhere near marriage material lol

[CoolSky01]

actually 34 said yes but 43 voted that they would never date or just bang her and leave so... yeah get your facts right

[Opinion Owner]

when i replied it wasn't like that

GET your facts right

[dudegrt09]

hahahaha so funny that women are voting "Yes I will marry her", well guess what girls your vote doesn't count.
Now to your question, I am Indian/tanned so I don't think it will be a big deal for me if she slept with a black guy. I will be willing to marry her I suppose though I've never been in such a situation. For some reason I felt repulsed by a girl in my college who used to hit on me, but she had dated a muslim guy before so I think that did sometimes repulsed me.

[CoolSky01]

My orginal statement that i never posted but talked about with that woman was that its different in every country sometimes its blalc and white, muslim and christian, jewish and arab... etc theu think iam a hypocrite but I've faced somiliar situation before (well a friend actually) and the girl said if she dates him the guys of her race will not date her, my friend was pissed but i was not it is what it is i dont mind it

[Cosytoasty]

Yeah i would marry her, it would be quite stupid to imply that a woman is devalued because she had a relationship with a black man. Just like it's stupid to imply that all black men are bad people which is what brings about the former.

[CoolSky01]

you're not white you're islander if anythign you're probably more black than some black people

[Cosytoasty]

Oh, i thought the question was open to all confident guys with a good job and house. And yeah, i have polynesian blood in me (points for spotting that) but what exactly is "more black than black people" lol?

[CoolSky01]

you're not white and only whites are allowed to annswer, you're from a different race so the question could very well be aimed at you therfore you will answer with yes it doesn't take a genius to realise that.

[Cosytoasty]

You could flip it around and say would Asian guys date Asian girls who had slept with white men - or pick any combination of gender+race you want and my answer would still be the same. Judging a woman on the *character* of her previous partners - sure, i'll do that. But I still wouldn't marry a woman who slept with hillbillies any quicker than one who slept with thugs straight from the ghetto.

[Oram52]

In America maybe, in UK here is no problem. What would somebody's colour even be a problem, that's the point baffling me. So if she dated some black men in the past, but how is it different from White, Asian, Hispanic?

I don't see it being a problem in America either. It probably depends on where they are in America. Many parts of America racism still persists. So I'm guessing in Bible Belt people will be more against it, in liberal states like NY or California no problem.

Again why just a problem with Black guys though, why not Asian or Hispanic for example. I would have absolutely no problem with any girl having Black partners. Why should it? President of the US is Black?

[Oram52]

@CoolSky01
Why are you against white girls dating black guys. Why do you think white guys wouln't be involved with a girl who dated black guys.

[0112358]

"why just a problem with Black guys though, why not Asian or Hispanic for example"

If it's not dick size comparison fear, it's unclear why it would only be a problem with black guys.

This leads me to think its primarily dick size comparison fear.

[Oram52]

@0112358 Its not dick size comparison sadly. You can call it prejadice or subtle racism whatever, if not outright racism. I'n guessing for some reason in the mind of these guys these girls devalue if they date black guys. If it was just dick size I doubt they would've had such a problem.

[0112358]

But as you note... they don't seem to care if she's dated Asian or Hispanic or native guys. They aren't saying no if she's dated poor guys. IT's 'black guys'. I seriously think they're afraid she's sexually into black guys with big dicks (in their minds) and then she'll settle with them, and they don't want that. Otherwise, it makes no sense to me why they care.

[Oram52]

@0112358 You need to look into it from America's historic past and race relations. Its selective racism, with other ethnicites its still ok. But not black. Its prejadice. Other ethnicties like Asian for example are successful. Status wise blacks are not equal in certain parts of America. So if she chooses somebody black she obviously dated lower. Even then its blatant racism, if it was just dick size at least it wouldn't be so appalling. Sadly its not just dick size.

[0112358]

I think you're probably half right. At the same time, you'll see more than one guy admitting it's related to their dicks just in answers here, and I suspect some that's the reason that aren't admitting it to.

[BuchitaBuchys]

This is the epitome of absurdity in one question.

Everything that's wrong with GaG population right here lol:
A generous blend of:
-Insecurity
-Penis size obsession
-Racism
-Sexism

[BuchitaBuchys]

https://i.imgur.com/u3lWw.gif

[xxxddd]

You are amazing at projection.
I mean, projection is the fundamental human psyche mechanism, but like in everything, there are normies and champions who stand out.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@xxxddd sure

[xxxddd]

I still had some doubts. Thanks for clearing them away.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@xxxddd ok

[xxxddd]

k :)

[Bigclit]

Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂

[CoolSky01]

So much hate from the girl, i understand it tbough it means you're screwed if this is actually a thing, and your dating pool is getting smaller as we speak so its fine i get you.

But the poll doesn't lie 29 vs 14 with the majority of those 14 probably being girls with guys accounts... it is what it is

[BuchitaBuchys]

I've never slept nor dated a black man. But only because the opportunity didn't present itself.

It's so disgusting how insecure men can be. There are white men with bigger dicks than black dudes too you know? So avoiding one who's been with a black guy doesn't mean you'll find your perfect tight little pussy to stroke your ego and quell your fears.

[CoolSky01]

no one said its about dicks but you assumed that, your mind is way too corrupted to be fixed

[BuchitaBuchys]

It doesn't matter what it's about. Because it's mostly about stereotypes. Black people aren't lesser than non black people. You want to cast women away as if they were dating animals or something.

[CoolSky01]

didn't all of you agree to avoid guys like that? why are you mad that some guys avoid such girls? unless of course its the good guys who you're missing on.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I'd avoid them of course. And no, it's not because it's "good guys", it's because you claim to be a "good guy" yet are prejudiced against people merely because of their race. How is that good at all? This site has the absolute lowest standards when determining what a "good guy" is.

[Yumix]

this

[Smmyskittles]

@Yumix - I like how my comment got removed for being "nonsense"

[jacquesvol]

@Smmyskittles
I didn't read your comment but I suppose you dared to call a racist , 'racist'. Many comments on Gag were already removed for it.
Haters just don't like that.

[Smmyskittles]

@jacquesvol I said it was "UTTER BS" to quote. Then tagged about 15 male GaG users for their vote.

The SPECIFIED that they were tagged because to quote "the asker is only counting Male votes".

So, I'm pretty outraged with GaG atm.

[Bigclit]

how do i remove myself from this thread lol :'(

[jacquesvol]

@Bigclit Try clicking on the 3 points at the top right, and choose 'mute'.

[Yumix]

@Smmyskittles yeah from time to time they like to remove comments with tags only to pull people in. Got an update removed because of that too. Don't know if it is a general rule or just one picky mod

[Bigclit]

@jacquesvol it only says report :'(

[jacquesvol]

@Bigclit
When I click on the three points near the question title , (at the right) I get the choice report OR mute.
I didn't try if it works.

[Bigclit]

@jacquesvol got it thank you

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Smmyskittles they remove mine all the time

[Smmyskittles]

That's ridiculous. You always seem to have valid and non-explicit posts. What reason did they give?

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Smmyskittles but they do put them back up. Some of them. I swear one of the mods had something against me one day lol every comment was hidden and I even contacted the admins. They put them back up.

One of the comments was "you're in your 40s, stop being perverted with the teen girls" or something along those lines. So they removed it for antagonistic I believe but left the pervert comments/questions.

[Red_Arrow]

@Smmyskittles @jacquesvol I suspect the real reason is that it fits the definition of "Member Post" even though they said "Nonsense".

[Red_Arrow]

@Bigclit @jacquesvol it will say "mute" if you actually posted an opinion, not just a comment.

[JRICHARDS1996]

No.

The reason however is not because of color or an inherent hatred of Black people, but because of the fact that a lot of Black people are ghetto and/or low class in the United States. Therefore a girl who pursues such people loses a lot of value in my eyes, as would a girl who sleeps with ghetto trailer White men and the like. I'm a Mexican by the way so I have the right to generalize so screw off PC liberals.

[Smmyskittles]

I would like you to know my ex is black. Dated for 4 years. He's graduating this next year and going to be a dentist.

Farthest from "ghetto" you can imagine.

#ivemademypoint

[JRICHARDS1996]

@Smmyskittles Good for him. I know successful Blacks too. I never said all Blacks are ghetto. I only said "a lot." Similarly a lot of my fellow Mexican Americans are the same, but obviously not all of us.

[Smmyskittles]

The fact is you chose no. Despite the fact that there are *some* that aren't.

Knowing this about me, you could never date and be seriously involved with me.

[JRICHARDS1996]

@Smmyskittles I am sorry. I recant what I said then.

[Anonymous]

I think it is very unfair for the girl to be judged just because she dated/slept with black guys, aren't black people humans aswell? Why would men treat women that was with one of them as she was infected with something? You do not choose whom you love, and there's nothing wrong with interracial relationships, i think we should be way over this racism already, and I know you're probably referring to the size of the package here, you know a guy that rejects a girl just because she had a larger dick before is stupid, honestly size doesn't matter, I've had from huge to tiny, and some of the smaller ones were much better simply because they knew how to use it better, oh and if they worry because they think the pussy is gonna be stretched, well, doesn't matter how stretched it gets (even while giving birth), it ends up going back to its original state, so I'd just say, people get over your insecurities once and for all

[dudeman]

if a women has sex with any of those men she is a worthless women.

[jacquesvol]

@dudeman She's NOT.

[ManOnFire]

And I answered @Boredandconfused question already. I'm a black man and I think it's wrong to shun a white girl just cuz she likes black men. However, what I will say is that you do have plenty of white girls who just want black men for the sex, but there are still many others who genuinely care about us and want a good relationship. Stop being angry about it.

[Boredandconfused]

Agreed^^ but those same girls probably want a lot of white men and Asain men and every other race on the planet for sex. If a girl is only interested in sex, chances are she'll take it from anyone, doesn't matter about race. In that case then of course she would be de-valued, but at the end of the day race has absolutely nothing to do with it, girls who sleep around sleep with everyone regardless of race. This guy needs a lesson in life.

[CoolSky01]

Honestly my friend had a problem similiar to this one, he was talking to this girl for a while and tried to date her but she kept refusing to go out with him them when he asked is it because of i am? he is kinda fair skinned with dark brown hair and average height and christian, she is not christian and from a different background, and she said "yes because of that, i can't be seen with you or people will say bad things about me and i will get a reputation which will embarass me and hurt my chances of dating " he was really mad and told that it pissed him off do you know what i said? " well why are you surprised? she's right, we feel the same about girls we know going with guys of different race or sometimes religon " and he looked at me and calmed down and realised what iam saying is true.

no one is an angel and i have people saying the same about me, it is what it is iam not angry about it go for girls i know suit me.

[CoolSky01]

of what i am

[CoolSky01]

we know go out with guys of different races or relgions

[Boredandconfused]

Religion I can understand. Race I cannot understand. We're gonna have to agree to disagree on this.

[ManOnFire]

@Boredandconfused Well, not entirely. You do have many white girls who want sex with black men just because they hear our triggers are bigger. They may not want white or Asian men for sex because of that factor. I mean, part of me is flattered that white girls are curious, and I myself find busty white girls fascinating - I guess since bustiness is so common among our women in the black community - but that shouldn't be the sole attraction in either of us.

[Bandit74]

Well I would never admit to this in person but it does kinda diminish my romantic attraction a bit. I just know there are certain things you are better off keeping to yourself and this is one of them...

Personally I just get this visual of a black guy with a huge dick having agressive porn style sex with her and after that image is in my mind, I start to become turned off at least emotionally. I visualize things too vividly >.<

However, I'm not going to say it's an outright no.

[Jbgurl20]

Racist much? You don't marry a girl because of what she dd with her life, you marry her for her and because you love her. If you think u can't marry a girl because she slept with a person whom you think is much lesser than you just because of his skin color, it is totally rubbish and idiotical. I totally think your thinking about white girls being less desirable for sleeping with a guy who has a different skin color than you makes you look like you're shallow. Sorry for my mean comment.

[SnatchFinderGeneral]

Lol, men marry according to what ever reasons they want to marry. It's up to them. LOL. Don't be sad now, child.

[CoolSky01]

its not just about black and white its happens everyone its about getting with a different kind of men, and usually white girls do it the most much less than other ethinic groups, as for marriage men can marry whoever they want for whatever reason they want love is just one thing iam not gonna marry a girl who is the worst at everything just because i love her no guy is that dumb.

[NotTheFBI]

LOL I... I can't breathe dying of laughter here... wheres mah popcorn.
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[mutedaisy]

Sometimes, all you can do is laugh. This is so ridiculous 😂

[Phoenix98]

You know this gif seems appropriate for this gif.

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[NotTheFBI]

@Phoenix98 Lol touché Good Sir... touché

[Phoenix98]

Hehe thank you.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

If you have a legitimate issue with this you're racist. Where exactly is the issue here? What if she's had a black Gynecologist... Is she disqualified then to?

This smacks' of old Jim Crow laws. Where whites' didn't want to swim in black' swimming pools or drink out of the same water fountains out of fear of being tainted with "cooties" or however they justified it.

It also makes the guy look super insecure. You'd surprised how many guys have this mindset. Pretty disgusting.

[CoolSky01]

dating a black dude and having a black doctor are worlds apart in difference, its not even the same and to answer your question no that wouldn't bother me.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

well you're right it's completely different. Im just trying to wrap my head around the logic here. If it's not because a black guy was inside you for any reason then why would it bother some men? Because the found them attractive?
No worries, i figured you were asking a general question to discuss and not about yourself.

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I am not white but this is true, there are some white men I have met that will not date a white girl who has slept with a black men before. It's not a conspiracy. I have never had to deal with this issue obviously because I'm not a white women but it's very real

[ikissedtheskyonce]

I have even seen white girls who dated black men discussing this

[cheapshotbob]

a girls past should not matter unless she is the one keeping the issue going. because being married has to be something you want out of love not out of the color of the kin.

[madhatters4]

how disgustingly racist is it that a person won't sleep with another person because of the race of a person they slept with in the past... freakin pathetic

[mutedaisy]

There are so many better men in this world. White girls that don't believe some guys are stupid enough to do this, it's true. They call you mudsharks. All you can do is laugh and find someone else. You really aren't missing much.

[Anonymous]

Is this question literally based on penis envy? That's what it seems like. Either way, your way of thinking is completely ridiculous and honestly kind of disturbing in its level of racism.😐

[Maik567]

Well for me personally it has nothing to do with that. I'm a white guy who likes white girls, so I date white girls who like white guys. And I'm gonna marry a white girl who likes white guys.

It literally is as simple as that. Maybe it is racist but I don't see how I'm harming anyone.

[CoolSky01]

@Maik567 you're harming her chances cause she wants to go black and have fun then find a decent white guy to marry, so when you say you dont want to marry her her dating pool i severly limited and she starts getting mad, have you noticed how the only arguemnt they have is dick size?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm saying that it seems like your only argument is that seeing as you mentioned it and so did another guy. If it's not about that, then it's literally based entirely on you being racist and thinking that being with a black guy diminishes a female's value in some way, which is disturbing as I already mentioned. Just because a woman has slept with one race in the past doesn't mean that's the only race that she's attracted to @Maik567 so I don't understand your argument either. Also, I'm mixed so your bullshit way of thinking doesn't really affect me, especially since I'd never date a guy who shared your ideals.😂

[Maik567]

When did I mention it? And I just explained to you what it is about. I don't think it makes anyone worth less if they date another race. But I'm a white guy who likes white women, so I want a white girl who likes white guys.

And I never said it affected you, I just explained to you my perspective since you seem to think that its penis envy, which is already based on the false assumption that black guys are bigger than white guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Most of what I said was directed at the asker, not you. Sorry that I didn't make that more clear. Also, I dont believe that black guys are bigger, but it seems that a lot of white guys seem to.

[RedThread]

This is completely absurd. I'm embarrassed by guys like you. We are all human beings. What does the color of their skin matter?

[CoolSky01]

how many girls have u dated so far?

[RedThread]

A few.

[CoolSky01]

you have no options

[RedThread]

I have plenty of options. What does that even have to do with your question anyway?

[Boredandconfused]

@CoolSky01 this is why you look like an idiot to everyone on the internet right now. Soooo tell me, since you think you're a genius about men and women all over he world, what exactly makes you think this guy has no options? The only information he gave you was that he has had a few girlfriends. So come on genius, share your incredible insights with the rest of us on how you came about the fact this guy has no options... I'm dieing to hear.

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused he's a liar , i have seen him ask few times and comment on qeustions and he stated that he had only one girlfriend a long time ago because he doesn't get along with lots of women, they dont value what he likes, therefore he is just trying to look cool.

[Boredandconfused]

I think you spend too much time on the Internet bud. Maybe you should take all your knowledge into the real world and put it toward finding yourself a girlfriend who can stand you.

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused says a 28 eyars old woman stalking all of my posts

[Boredandconfused]

Stalking? Lol that would involve me searching for you and your posts. Trust me, I'd love to never see or read a single one of your posts again. Unfortunately I keep getting notifications. Which trigger the anger and disgust I have for you. Come on smartie pants you know what the definition for stalker is, don't play dumb.

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused you tagged me in three questions, you follow every comment i make and comment on it, you are actively trying to change my mind but that won't happen, please find a man and occupy yourself.

[Boredandconfused]

Lol! I couldn't possibly have commented on every comment you've made, id be here forever. Unlike you, I don't spend 24/7 on here. I'm on here while I'm bored at work. And don't worry about me finding a man, I have a fantastic one waiting for me at home thank you. Clearly you're the one having issues finding a Woman, and I can understand why. Plus, I tagged you in those posts so everyone can see what a complete racist moron you are. And it worked. Don't be hating because you were put on blast.

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused this is a new level of stupid, you do realise its the internet right? i mean who gives a single shit what anyone on here says lol, teh closest of anyone on here lives a t least a thousand miles away from why would i care? your words have no effect on me or my life i can date who i want, in fact i went on a date a couple days ago.

[Boredandconfused]

Oh little boy, good for you. Do yourself a favour now and stop responding to me, if I get one more notification with your name in it I might go insane.

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused you're 28 iam just hope you're mature enough for your age...

[Bigclit]

You know what that tell me? That he's so insecure about himself, what does have sex with a black guy or any other race matter. So I'm guessing after you marry your wife and you have a human being come out of her vagina you think she's worthless and don't want to have sex with her after your baby is born... because the problem seems to be about the vagina stretching out. Unreal I swear

[Maik567]

I already answered this to another question but let me give the answer to you too then:

I'm a white guy who likes white girls, so I date white girls who like white guys. And I'm gonna marry a white girl who likes white guys.

It literally is as simple as that. Maybe it is racist but I don't see how I'm harming anyone.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 don't have a problem you or anyone dating someone of the same or different race my point is it's stupid for you deny someone simply because they didn't a black guy or whatever race. So you meet this girl you went on a date she's perfect then you ask her if she dated someone outside her race and yes then you walk out. That sounds very insecure to me.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 dated* not didn't

[Maik567]

That's not how I date and I wouldn't do that, but the reason it sounds insecure to you is because you want it to be insecure.

Why can't you just accept that I'm a white guy who likes white girls, so I'm gonna date white girls who like white guys. What's insecure about that?

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 nothing but the fact that someone you were considering dating but then find out she dated or had sex with a black guy or any other race sounds very insecure to me. I hope everything girl you are interested has dated other races and had sex with other races

[Maik567]

I don't consider dating them that soon lol, I get to know a girl well before I consider dating them. You're the one who's insecure if you jump into relationships like that. And again that's not the reason, you just want it to sound insecure because you can't handle me having this opinion. It's pretty sad.

And all of my girlfriends have only been with white guys. It really is weird how mad this is making you when it literally has nothing to do with you.

[Maik567]

Also you're the one who's anonymous not me. So which one of us is insecure with their opinions?

[CoolSky01]

it has nothing to do with being insecure its frowened upon and guys hate it , dick size has nothing to do with it, if you watch porn you will see plenty of white dudes with huge schlongs, but i guess the only thing that you can attempt to insult us with is duck size, which says a lot about you since hte only thing that comes to your mind when thinking bout black dudes i their dick, needless to say i will never date a girl like you.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 I'm anonymous cause I don't want people who I am I'm not insecure about myself I love myself. If you want I can take myself off anonymous not a big deal for me if it proves my point

[Maik567]

You are insecure tho since you care about my opinion so much even though it has nothing to do with you. You even wished that every girl I will have dated other races just because you're angry at me.

And if you were so secure in your opinion then why didn't you want people to find out who you are in the first place?

Also more than half of the guys voted yes so does that mean that every single one of them is insecure? I think your arguments are ridiculous.

[Bigclit]

That's fine I don't want to date any who has that mind set trust me I'll be alright. so people tell me why it's frowned upon set you aren't racist and it's not a size thing? If you like this girl until she reveals that why does that matter? Sound idiotic to me. Never said white men didn't have big penises I know they do. And their are black men with small penises too. I didn't insult you about your dick size but you must feel some why if you bring it up.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 I'm not insecure you comment on my opinion and I gave you back my opinion how idiotic that sounds I have a boyfriend and he loves me I don't care who you date I just think that's very closed minded of a person to say... we can agree to disagree never said we had to like each other's opinions. I wish that because I would like to see if you'd pass them up simply because they dated other races or has sex with other race if so then that's very sad on your part.

Because some people don't take me serious with my name so some questions I have to go anonymous. You can think my argument is ridiculous but it's my opinion and again you don't have to agree like I said. And did everyone in the world vote no only a few people and yes I do. And please tell why you won't date them if it's not penis size or them dating someone out their race.

[Maik567]

No you actually never responded to my actual argument, I'm a white guy who likes white girls, so I want a white girl who is similar to me in that. That is simply what I want. You're obsessed with this idea that I'm just gonna storm off and think that someone is worthless just because they've dated a black guy. That's not true, but yes you really fucking are insecure when you get so mad about me holding this opinion. And then you even manage to call me insecure when I'm the one who's defending my opinion without being anonymous. You can only talk when you're anonymous so that just shows how insecure you really are.

And I pass on girls because I don't want to date them that's the only reason. If I want to date a girl I will. That's why I date white girls who like white guys. I don't know how many times I have to say that lol.

"And did everyone in the world vote no only a few people"

And even fewer voted yes.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 I'm not anonymous anymore... i'm not insecure about myself so that's false. I don't have an obsession with any of this and I was asking so if she dates a black guy or other races she's worthless only the guys can answer that question I can't. I'm not angry at all I just think it's idiotic for you okay think that way. If she interested in white guy all day other races it's already all day no for you even if she has everything else you're looking for... you're the only that misses out. I don't care if have a boyfriend and i love him and he loves me. And you yet to answer why it's frowned upon if it's not size related or because she dated outside he race. And I have guys friends who says in their it's frowned upon to date a white girl who dates outside her race or that because the myth of black guys being big they won't date them so please inform me why since those aren't the reasons and you can date anyone who's interested in white guys.

[Maik567]

I have a hard time understanding your English sorry, but I don't frown upon it. I don't think it makes a girl worth any less at all. I'm just not interested because I want a white girl who likes white guys.

You think its idiotic for me to know what I want. Ok.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 one of you... you or the asker said it was frowned upon and because I was on Anonymous I couldn't tag you or him so one of you said it.. if it wasn't you then obviously it was him and I I thought you said if a girl was white and she dated a black guy or other races you wouldn't like her even if she dated white guys

[Maik567]

That was him.

And when I say I'm a white guy who likes white girls I mean exclusively white girls. And I just want the same thing from the girl. I guess in your mind wanting similar things from your partner is insecurity now.

If it makes more sense to you I live in a predominantly white area and most girls here have only dated white guys. And the ones that date other races usually do it intentionally, and in general I haven't had great experiences talking to girls like that. I'd rather not get involved.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 does it make you feel better calling me insecure because I already said my peace about that... and the question had to do with a white girl sleeping with a black guy and her becoming less desirable not your dating preference you commented on my comment and like I've stated it's stupid If a guy rejects a woman just she dated outside her race. You can agree or disagree leave it at that

[babylips14]

Wtf? What does being anonymous have to do with being insecure? Some people want to be anonymous so that others won't have biases when answering their questions especially if they are well-known in the gag community.

[Bigclit]

@babylips14 good point that too.

[Maik567]

The question WAS about my dating preference, what the asker wrote in the description does not reflect on how I feel. And it is stupid that you think you get to dictate what a person should want. I've made my perspective more than clear.

I could just as well say that it's stupid If a girl rejects a guy just because he smokes/fights/drinks/was married before/is older/is younger/etc. But the thing you need to understand is that people have preferences and people want different things, just because you don't understand or agree with something doesn't make it stupid. But it seems you're incapable of understanding that.

[Maik567]

@babylips14 Because a lot of people hide their opinions behind anonymity so that their opinions can't be connected to them.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 something i said must of struck a nerve with you because I didn't single you out. Again I just expressed how idiotic it is for someone to have that mind set and I've made that clear. Never said you could not date within your race I said it's idiotic for someone regardless of gender to reject someone because they dated outside their race. what are you not getting? and I said that several times I said I didn't have a problem with you dating white girls I could care less. And it is you who is incapable of understanding that cause I've been saying that from the beginning.

[Maik567]

And I said that it is idiotic for you to think that you can call other peoples preferences idiotic.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 okay and guess what it's my opinion like I said you don't have to agree.

[Maik567]

Yes, I just think your hypocrisy is ridiculous.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 that's fine that's your opinion... glad you finally understand that 👏👏👏👏

[Maik567]

You can think your hypocrisy is sensible. It still is hypocrisy.

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 okay.. and? Lol. Why are you still commenting?

[Maik567]

To tell you that just because it's your opinion doesn't excuse the hypocrisy. Why are you still commenting?

[Bigclit]

@Maik567 and that's your opinion and i disagree. Because you keep commenting back... i already know you disagree with me I don't understand why you keep writing back. Just leave it alone

[AleDeEurope]

Yes, unless she whored around with them, but it wouldn't matter if those men were black, white, yellow...

[Anonymous]

Lol at these bitches calling u names :D You have to accept their stinky ass no matter how ugly, fat or cheap they are. Welcome to 2016. I find it funny how these girls unite under the name of ''feminism'' but when it comes to real sisterhood these hoes will tear each other down for a dick.

[CoolSky01]

you mean they calling me names? or a comment to someone else?

[BlondeBlueEyes84]

See, for me it's all about class, not race. And most black guys in the US are the bottom of the barrel, for whatever reason. Most are not intelligent, not educated (and don't care about education) nor do they have any goals in life.
I wouldn't date a girl who only slept with white trash dudes either, even if she looks like a supermodel.

So no, I wouldn't date such a girl.

[Maik567]

I don't think I would marry a girl like that, although I don't think I'd ever get far enough in a relationship with her to even consider that.

[LaVilaine]

I always suspected that white American men were mostly pissbabies. This confirms it.

[LaVilaine]

Also, QA: white people are not the majority. 70% of the world is non-white.

[zagor]

Yeah, I'm sure typical American men spend a lot of time on GaG...

Enjoy your overcrowded shithole...

[LaVilaine]

@zagor Canada is not overcrowded.

[zagor]

Oops, mistook you for someone else.

Anywhere, enjoy your frozen nanny state where the government always knows best...

[LaVilaine]

@zagor I don't see how what that has to do with the majority of white American men being racist pissbabies but I will. At least I won't be shot with a military grade weapon while I'm going about my day to day life. Good luck with that.

[Anonymous]

Yeah this is a real thing, they will call the white girls mudsharks. The type of guys that do this type of stuff though aren't the type you'd want to be stuck with long term though. Run! He isn't worth your time or energy & is actually doing you a huge favor in the long run... marrying that guy would have most likely been the biggest mistake of your life.

[ModernDayCrusader]

Girls want BBC filling all their holes
Its because girls watch Porn now and want Lex Steele and Mandingo to creep into their rooms at night and give them DP
its the 21st century bro, get used to dating girls who have taken cocks of colors and creed lmao

[Anonymous]

Well, I don't go with women so I flipped it. If my guy dated or slept with any other race before me that's his business. What matters is us, not what's in the past. As long as he's clean and healthy (ie no STDs).

I'm glad there are some men that have a similar view point. My brother married his wife years ago, after she dated black men. That was in the past, and they've been happy together for so long. That's what matters.

[WhaChaChaKing]

I don't even understand how this is even a question. I get if she's a woman that treats black people terrible and just wants to sleep with them but that's not even the case. You're just a flat out racist. Stop pretending you're not. People like you make me so fucking sick.

[dudeman]

doesn't mater if he was a black man or no. i dont want women after they been with a loser. if she's been with any man that i wouldn't be friends with then we are done.

[Boredandconfused]

THIS

Not exactly how I would word it but this is exactly how decent people think! No one wants to be with a girl OR guy who has a past history of sleeping around, sleeping with losers (drug addicts, alcoholics. Etc). It has NOTHING to do with race, period. Not all black guys are losers just like not all white guys are great guys. Not all girls who sleep with black guys are to be considers less of a woman just like not all females who sleep with white Guy's are considered to be wife material. How has is it to understand @CoolSky01?

[CoolSky01]

@Boredandconfused why are you so pissed about my dating standards? how does it affect you?

[Boredandconfused]

You brought your dating standards into this, not me. Pretty sure you're the one who tagged me in this post.

[zagor]

So you expect to know every man a girl has dated? You must live in a small town.

[thisGUYknows]

why not? theyre not damaged goods

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[alor1an]

if you would condemn someone for sleeping with a black person than you are a racist. it doesn't matter how many so called "friends" you've made. you are still a racist.

[chintita]

this is normal around these parts so all the people who voted no would b single forever lmfao

[Pac-Man]

Why does it matter if she slept with a black guy? Afraid of black guy cooties?

[Yumix]

bullshit
and if I were a woman, a guy thinking like that would be a huge turn off so nothing lost

[CoolSky01]

hello white knight

[Yumix]

Oh not agreeing with something which is based on insecurities in the best case and racism in the worst case makes me a white knight? Yeah sure.

[Yumix]

And calling me a white knight makes no fucking sense, look up what a white knight is

[Anonymous]

I know several men that won't be with a girl if she has been with black men. On the flip side... I have heard several black women say they didn't want to be with a black man after he has been with a white woman.

[LaFemmeFatale]

Guys who don't date girl just because she slept with man of other race, are not worthy to have relationships at all.

[Skadouchebag]

You really need to rephrase and explain your question more carefully. It sounds like you're a huge racist.

[CoolSky01]

how? iam not saying anything bad i am asking if they want to date such a girl or not

[Skadouchebag]

It sounds like you simply hate black people so much you won't even date a white woman who had sex with one; took me a while to realize that you were simply worried about her having too high standards.

by the way, watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mtMTumLHV78

[CoolSky01]

hate , i never mentioned anything about that, its just the way it is, if you want to date such women you can do it iam not stopping you.

[Skadouchebag]

I understand that now, but still. It's just not clear in the question why you don't want a wmoan who had sex with black men.

[Anonymous]

She would never marry ME, because my penis is too small for her, so no.

[CoolSky01]

lol brahh

[Opinion Owner]

Just keeping it real. Heidi Klum married Seal for one reason: when they met the first time, he was wearing bike shorts and she could see how huge he was down there. She admitted this on Oprah.

I assume that any white woman who dates a black guy is doing it because he's hung like a horse. I don't see any white women dating black guys with micropenises.

[Opinion Owner]

Now, I would be just as reluctant to date a woman who had been with a guy of ANY RACE who was hung. It's just blatantly obvious when a black guy is involved.

[CoolSky01]

lol i get you, its not about the size as it about the fact that she got with him for the size, basically you want emotions, love, a life with her and sex, she is looking for sex, so yeah it won't work.

[Phoenix98]

I could give a rats ass if the last man she slept with was black, white, purple or green, wouldn't matter to me.

[BeerFarts]

Of course I would. A woman's past sexual partners have no bearing on how I feel about her. What's in the past is in the past.

[Anonymous]

The question ended up proving itself useful.

It showed us how few of GaG users are willing to, or capable of, reading a question before answering it.

:)

[CoolSky01]

What do u mean?

[Opinion Owner]

That you were mostly attacked, and your attackers changed the meaning of what you said before attacking it.

Or maybe it's I who didn't get it :))

[CoolSky01]

yeah you're right they did change it, they are saying i hate black guys and they have a bigger dick even tthough no where did i state any of that, its what goes in every girls mind thinking of black guys "their big dick" and thats the reason most of them get with black guys and as some user mentioned they are usually damaged upstairs and not quality at all so thats a pretty good reason to avoid them.

Its the internet iam not really mad or anything people can say whatever they want and the majority agrees with me, buy of course all of those who answered are girls who want to fuck around and taste every falvour before committing to a rich guy or guys who stay home and never even talked to a girl before.

[Jaded214]

You gotta be shittin me. Is this really a thing? Like really? I guess my stock is about to drop then because guess what? My ex is black. Oops. 😉

[dudeman]

yeah but you look mexican so its not a big deal

[Jaded214]

@dudeman too bad I'm not.

[confusedapplepie]

what kind of racist mindset is that

[Anonymous]

absolutly not, thats not even a question once she goes black iam out of here.

[Anonymous]

Just lol at girls saying guys they dated would never think this way or that these guys are foreveraloners. I knew plenty of white dudes in the suburbs and urban areas that would tell me that if a white women has went black, that they would not want them back or consider them gf/wife material. These guys were def social and had girlfriends, even girls that were not white. So stop trying to cope and realize some of the facts.

[WhiteSteve]

Of course, why wouldn't I?

[00Lelouchxx]

So black people are less than white people? Is what I'm getting from this

[Smmyskittles]

*hides in the bushes* You tell him! lol

[00Lelouchxx]

@Smmyskittles you Lucky she holding me back haha

[Smmyskittles]

I would never "hold you back" ... from your dreams! ;D

[00Lelouchxx]

@Smmyskittles lmao ur funny

[Anonymous]

Marriage? Serious relationship? Hell no. Damaged goods.

[Smmyskittles]

Hi. :] Not damaged.

Please, re-think your life and try again!

[sicosico]

It is not that you fear her pussy will turn black, what on hell is the difference if she dated white or black guys?

[frozenhorizon]

Who the fuck cares lmao

[frozenhorizon]

It's absolutely absurd to me that this would affect anyone's opinion of a woman

[akadatank44]

I woukd date and if we got serious marry her. I am no racist like you.

[zagor]

So, do you survey women you plan on dating on their entire sexual history?

[deed123456789]

Sorry i ll say NO but not for woman get sex with black... I'll not marry a woman had sex before... because i didn't have sex to be for HER only...

[Jeeevan]

These results are actually stupid, why would that effect whether you like a girl? I swear white guys are so insecure.

[idiotmanchild]

Why not? I have heard sentiments of this from some of my white friends though.

[April10]

Is this a serious question? Come on...

[Panay]

Wtf what are all these nos?

[CoolSky01]

this is nothing the other question got 25 guys who wouldn't be with such a girl, its still early more guys will vote.

[Panay]

I don't understand why the fact that they were black would make a difference

[CoolSky01]

a girls past makes a difference for lots of guys and ones who said no are the ones with options who have no need to sugar coat their opinions, they can get another girl and they know it so they are not gonna lie... meanwhile you have those who said yes and most of them haven't gotten out of their homes in a while.

[carinerose]

Who are the idiots that said no? Wtf.

[Red_Arrow]

That's easy. The racists.

[sixnineanon]

Yes I would. What's the issue?

[MsElizabeth96]

No offence but you're stupid XD

[Red_Arrow]

Aw come on. Admit that there was offense intended. (There should have been. lol)

[LittleSally]

What does that have anything to do with anything?

[Dog19]

This poll is awful, is it that awful to be black?

[chc0009]

Fuck yeah, there's nothing wrong with that.