Questions

I realy Like arm wrestling/ do A strengt test. Who would beat me in one. (I’m 182 cm 78 kg and I work out 2 times A week) I beated all the Girls i challenges.

So an old friend contacted me today. Facebook friend request etc. A casual friend who I vaguely remember, a tall red head who's current photo's don't jog my memory. But for the life of me I can't remember if we were intimate. So do I just ask her? Let it go? I just don't know.

Im talking to this guy who i think is very handsome but some of my friends think he's not..

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Men must ensure the survival of the human race through sex. Men are consumed by sex and have no choice. A man's need to pass on his genetic material is a natural compulsion that is deep-seated. Sex is the shine-qua-non condition of all things living. It is as natural as eating and relieving oneself. Sometimes men just have sex and that's it. No love no feelings. Nothing, but the act. Men do not equate love with sex. In fact men are comfortable loving one woman and having sex with others. Men are in the deepest recesses of their minds accomplishing the innate task imposed on them by Nature.

It’s usually those “single by choice” people who have been through relationships or have options that tries telling us this. Yeah right. If you were single for the rest of your life and still a virgin, you probably won’t be trying to convince people how being alone is the greatest thing in the world. Let’s face it, it’s easy for you to say this because you know you have options and will always have people frolicking to you. This holds most true if you’re a very attractive woman or a very attractive man with a good income. Just look at social media today if you don’t believe me. There’s always men and women complimenting them and sending them messages. Being TRULY alone sucks and it’s worse when you find so many people around you in a relationship or has had their first kiss or lost their virginity. You feel like you’re the odd one out and think there is something wrong with you and that you’re a failure. So why do they keep telling us how being alone is all blissful when they have never truly experienced it?

I have always been a back round character type. The invisible lone wolf who only had a few friends on different social circles.

When I'm not being outgoing I'm as good as invisible. Till some one needs something or wants something.

In my church we all know each other pretty well. 40 people in a young adult group. So I decided to test and see if thet would notice or come over to me if I just sat around and relaxed maybe drew some.
surprise no one came over. So now I'm worried that Ill probably never meet a girl who will like me for me. Just the new extrovert part. Who I'm almost used to enough for it not to be forced

Given no one already comes to me why would a girl fall for me and come my way when I'm the invisible type?