How I Saved My Marriage and What I Learned.
Hollywood doesn't tell you this but - relationships are hard. They take work. Even the most loving, simple, easy, beautiful couple has...
Cohabitation is still marriage
If you have reasons to not marry then you should not cohabitate either. They're the same thing just without the legal paperwork and the...
Letting go of women and relationships forever; they're a false dream
MyTake #49 I asked women on here a poll about height at the request of a friend on here, as she wanted me to see how accepting women are...
We all Need to Get Along
I have been noticing there is a fair bit of hostility on the site. I have had a few run-ins myself recently. "You're a dumbass", "You're...
My thoughts and experience with LDR
A few days ago I published a previous MyTake about how I contributed to the fall of the one and only serious LDR I ever had. Before that...
Relationship Pitfalls 101: There's no 'Score' in Love
I'm going to try to make a series of short(ish) takes on why relationships fail, based on what I've learned from my own failures in my...
How on earth do golddiggers still land a man?
On both relationship videos and real life events I've seen this happening. It's lesser nowadays but it hasn't disappeared. It still...
Is it normal I am a woman who prefers to almost always communicate professionally as if I was at work with everyone everywhere even men?
I can't handle the way most people communicate and prefer to be around the few who remain professional always. It is good for me...
How do you control clingy and codependent tendencies from getting out of control?
It’s not that I can’t be away. It’s that when it’s mentioned that he’s doing something like hanging out with friends or something with...
We are in a long distance relationship.. does he really care about me?
Like I mentioned, we are in a long distance relationship.. every time I am without him it seems like I am the only one who care about...
I requested to follow someone I know on social media and the person still hasn’t accepted and it’s been a whole day, is this a bad thing?
I have spoken to this person a few times so I decided to send them a follow request, she accepted someone else’s request as her...
Is being with a long term girlfriend a distraction? A friend of mine broke up with girlfriend because of it and do girlfriends prevent your goals?
I never had a girlfriend before I know that having one is not a distraction. Also, that if they feel they're you communicate like every...
Is it ok to still want to be friends with my guy friend I had a situationship with?
So I’ve known this guy for like 4 years and we have a mutual friend group but we only got closer as friends like 2 years ago. Shortly...
My boyfriend said my jeans come up too high. I don't see a problem with them and they are comfortable to me, but how should I handle him?
Jeans in question. I bought them as high waisted jeans, but my boyfriend apparently hates all of them and has been begging me for months...
What Are Big Turn-Offs For Guys In A Relationship?
What are the majors? How do u cope with it?
A year ago I asked my friend out but she said she wasn’t over ex. She seems to be over her ex now so should I ask her out again?
Here’s the details. I’ve known this girl (I’ll call her Mindy) since grade 7 and now we’re in our 4th year of college. Anyways, 2 years...
Anyone who suffered narcissistic abuse from parents, were you desperate to find love everywhere?
Narcissistic abuse is emotional neglect, constant criticism, gaslighting, isolating you, blaming you and controlling you when you were a...
Do you think people are trustworthy for the most part?
I’ve spoken about this with my mother and she says that most people are good. She doesn’t want to spend her life staying closed off and...
Do you think this relationship sounds as if they are only together because they have a child?
If a couple has been together for 12 years since they were 15 and they also have a child who is 7 and they also live together and they...
Today is my birthday, and my wish is to get my first real girlfriend. Is that too much to ask for?
I am officially 27 as of today, and I never had a real girlfriend. Meanwhile, most of my peers are getting married and/or having kids. I...
How important is money in a relationship or potential marriage for you?
I'm talking about making at least a standard adult range salary.
Girls, do you like it when your partner treats you like his mother?
I mean do you like men who want you to take care of them like their mother.
How often do you buy your partner gifts?
Do you buy random gifts for them just because you're thinking of them or do you usually stick with special occasions... Christmas,...
Should men who want something serious just seek to live overseas?
It seems to me the more opportunities women have in the job market the less likely they are to find a mate that can please them and meet...
If you lost attraction to your partner, would you still stay in the relationship?
My guy at the beginning of the relationship tried to stop smoking and brush his teeth. Now he isn't trying. Very unattractive.