Polls: Relationships

We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.

0 is not at all and 6 is as much as infidelity itself.

We can all be anonymous, even those who wants to reply (which is optional) For the first time, you can get things off your chest and truly be honest. It will lift the weight of your shoulders and could give many people, guys and girls an insight of why... Instead of putting all the blame on your partner (not saying there isn't blame there) but why have you cheated on your partner? Also do you regret cheating?

Hobbies tell you a lot about people. Depending on your experiences, someone's hobby may make them more attractive to you than they were before.

Would you prefer a partner with similar hobbies to your own, or a partner whose hobbies are different from yours? Would you rather improve the connection between you and your partner while investing time in your passions, or reduce that time to experience something new that your partner enjoys?

There's no polar answer for this question; you're able to continue your hobbies and have new experiences regardless of your partner, but I'd like to know in what direction do people sway.

The phrase seems to be thrown around a lot and it's fair. Some people are just Doomed Eternally. The ones who have the right people around them to build them up. They better fuckin appreciate where they're at.

Feelings are are to find. I think to fight for happiness you'd have had to have it. Because I've honestly forgotten what that is really. I can smile for thank yous and laugh on other cues. But what is it, that they have. I wish we all knew what we were looking at. Otherwise it's not as important to you as it looks to be for others. It only hurts, that's all. Any happy there hurts. It isn't a big deal to hurt. I don't know why others freak if they're wounding up single. To know you'll never see that smile because it was you. You're buried because you let yourself die a thousand times. Every moment now feels like a lie, I don't want to see me either, because it's not me, I know it's not me here. I'm with them, we're laughing and smiling the fk out of one another. Everything in my head comes out with no apologies. "But the other guy seems so good for her, I'm just stuck in my head". She's there, she's open, she knows. "But she'll regret it". The voices are much more convincing as you get older.