Cheating! How long does it take a woman to start cheating when times get hard?

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Reem12345reem · Accepted Answer

I guess when the man stops loving her , it doen't matter if he's going through times , as long as he keeps loving her , she'll be patient , plus women should be aware that there are hard times in buisnesses and making money , u might win and be rich and then u would lose , so yeah i think it's also the intention from the beginning of the reltionship , if her intentions weren't pure , she would drop u out easily when that your situation isn't useful for her anymore , same for men ,

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

If she has intentions on cheating, she’s gonna cheat. There’s no magical time limit. Looks to me like she was looking for a reason and her husband losing a job was the perfect chance for her.
She could have just supported him in finding new employment, or simply said “I got us for the time being”

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I don't think this is an example of what all women would do. This is just what a handful of women would consider to be acceptable behavior.

That being said, the guy must be a tit, if he didn't see she married him just for his pay cheque in the first place.

IceCreamSandwich · Accepted Answer

A little less time than it would have taken her to cheat anyway. If she's a woman who would cheat in a couple of months, then she'll cheat in about a month. If she's a woman who will never cheat, then she will not cheat.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

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Skinhead-1979 · Answer

I don't think there is any time attached to if/ when a woman decides to cheat when times get hard.

Looking at the age? I suspect the grooming of my successor started in 2017.

Changes in the British benefits system occurred that year, and both parents in a family had to work from that moment onward or they would lose their benefits.

In that same year I had lost my job and the British Benefits Department decided to take my 'Right-to-Reside' away (I am still Dutch) and therefor I lost all the British rights I was entitled to including the right to work. I had been the sole breadwinner for 8 years (though I have been times that I was unemployed).

I felt this wasn't too bad, because despite losing some money in benefits at least 1 parent could stay home, look after the kids and do the housekeeping. The only difference was that it was me, and not the ex. The ex was not... pleased.

She has never, and would have never confronted me. She doesn't dare to and tried to keep the peace that way... but of course I could notice that wasn't happy. Just generally being dismissive and I could hear her 'mumbling' would she be in a different room.

Kids were well looked after, flat was tidy and clean, dinner was on the table the moment she stepped through the door after her 2nd job, tea/ blanket/ hot water bottle ready after she came home after he 3rd job... but nothing was good enough.

2 years later the relationship was over (I had regained my permanent residency by then; but I had been mentally annihilated and still couldn't work). When I enquired why she didn't help me with a loan which also included her arrears/ overdraft, she replied "Well, I think I have paid enough to you in the past 2 years looking after you... I am not helping you".

2 months after she had pushed me to suicide, made me homeless while I was recovering... she moved my successor in.

My ex should of course not be taken as an 'Average Woman', her behaviour is far from 'Average'... but from the moment her cushy life got turned upside down, she turned against me (even more so than the years prior to that; I think she lost interest in me the day she got me), roomed my successor and when she felt comfortable and secure enough to leave me the cheating started. Of course I can't prove anything, but I knew her work hours of course and how long it would take her to travel... She came home later and later from her 3rd job; the same company her successors worked, possibly still does, too. I question her, and all of a sudden the coming home late stopped... soon after the relationship was over.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Women always have the next guy lined up in their social media. This is why it's so easy for women jump from man to man. Most women aren't fully invested in their relationships for this very reason.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Times doesn't have to be hard.  A cheater will just cheat on you when the opportunity presents itself with the person they like.

sage2021 · Answer

You're going to cheat on your husband because he lost his job? It's time for you to go and get a job and provide for yourself.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Way outta line. Rethink this relationship with hubby asap

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Only when is not satisfied with his partner

LaurenM1997 · Answer

I wouldn’t cheat even if it gets though

Anonymous · Answer

A person has to give themselves permission first. I never have. A lot of people never would.

HappyWoman34 · Answer

Well, I don’t.

LiamJHayden · Answer

She would have cheated either way.

Badgirlnatalia · Answer

Really depends on the woman

elizamichale1 · Answer

Maybe about 6 months max

Anonymous · Answer

::::looks at watch:::::😆

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