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I legitimately dont know

Some may say this sounds sad, pathetic, it's a trick, blah blah blah, but this is how it is.
I have always been quite shy when it comes to women and don't have great social skills with ones that aren't friends. I never had a female friend that I hung out with until my second year in college. I'm not awkward, just shy. Since then, any close female friend that I have, I have the strong urge to ask to see them naked. I talked to a counselor about it, and she said that since I have little experience in the dating department, I see nudity in a friend as a feeling of trust and intimacy that I don't have in my life.
I won't lie, part of it is sexually-based: they are attractive friends. But it is really about how good of friends they are, and if they did this for me, it would satisfy many needs of closeness that I don't have.
I have asked two close friends about this- one said yes, and did let me see her for a few minutes. She and I are still good friends, and a weight on our friendship has been lifted.
Another friend said yes, then changed her mind back and forth many times, ultimately settling on no. I understood, but afterwards, I did feel hurt, and she felt awkward around me. Now, we aren't friends.
There are others I wish I could ask, but am way too afraid. I could just shut up about it and deal, but then I find myself withdrawing from the friendship anyways, which also hurts.
I know how this must sound to many of you reading this, but it has been something I've been carrying around for years. Should I risk bringing it up with other friends, or just stay quiet and hope we stay friends? I'm also worried they'd think I'm lying about it JUST to see them naked.

So girls, would you ALLOW a good guy friend that you trust see you naked?

Please, only constructive comments.

We recently had "that conversation", you know, the one about our past sexual adventures and what not. For a guy, mine is pretty normal. When she opened up to me though, I couldn't help but feel grossed out. She's had over 20 partners, most being one night stands with guys she didn't know too well or barely knew at all. I think of this as a red flag, should I?

I'm a traditional guy though, and I feel that my future wife has to be "pure" and feel special to me. Giving herself to 20 plus guys before me sacrifices that. I'm not into slut-shaming but I just wouldn't wanna marry or get committed to a girl that's slept around - it's seen as a red flag at least by most men.

Is over 20 guys normal for girls though? I always assumed girls didn't sleep around much and were quite picky/conservative with who they slept with - I guess I was wrong? Like if it's normal that's a bit weird for me as I didn't think over 10 partners was common for girls.

Anyways what should I do? Most guys don't wanna date "sluts" or promiscuous girls, ] so that must be for a good reason right?

*Also we've been together for 8 months, so not much will be lost*

a cuckold is a boyfriend or husband of his adulterous girlfriend or wife.

i am afraid that cuckoldry is becoming slowly a accepted thing and then it will be much more difficult to find a good woman, who doesn't want to bang anyone but her lover. kind of like the hookup culture. not that i mind the hookup culture but cuckoldry is taking it too far for me personally.

so if a woman loves her man, would she still want to cuckold him?

Long story made short was my girlfriend left us alone after all three of us had been drinking. Her dad picked her up pissed off because someone told on her for drinking. She posted on her Snapchat stories and someone saw it and told her parents. we were at my house so when she left, we were really drunk by ourselves. When my girlfriend left, her friend fell and I grabbed her then fell with her. We landed on top of each other, made eye contact and started making out. I would rather leave out details but we did A LOT. We gave each other oral and had sex without protection.