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What does it mean when a man that you have feelings for and has feelings for lets you sit on his lap and he holds your arm around his neck?
Why do men say they prefer modest women with light makeup when I get more attention in revealing clothes and heavy makeup?
I used to dress up a lot more and do my makeup heavier. I go out to more places now than I did before but I dress more modest not conservatively just less exposed. I think I dress well still just more covered and I wear...
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Is it ok for a man call a another woman babe...
Most guys’ just say babe , because it comes natural to them , it’s a word that most guys’ use when talking to a girl , so you shouldn’t let it bother you to much unless you feel something shady is going on with him and that other woman that he isn’t telling you about? Only you can figure that...
I'm all for freedom of expression having...
As I recall, you are from France. You don't have the same history of civil liberties that we enjoy in the US, so there is no surprise that you would hold that belief.
Do you ever see certain women and you’re like...
It’s a waste of time to think like that. If you’re interested in a woman, talk to her. You never know.
Why do men treat me like i'm another man once...
Because you are off their market of dating? Other than that I can’t say because I view all people as the same whether straight, lesbian, queer, bisexual, asexual, intersexual, etc.
Why isn't wasabi used more in western cooking?
In the west we associate wasabi with sushi, it's what raises it from being boring fish and rice to something nice. Anyone who's bought some to make sushi has probably tried the left overs with other foods. I find it goes...
My girlfriend has a male friend that texts her a lot. Should I take an action?
Last week we were out having dinner, and her phone kept buzzing. Every time she’d check her messages, I’d notice it was him. At first, I tried to brush it off, but as the evening went on, I found myself getting more and...
How much are community college fees in the USA?
Can anyone with detailed information about annual fees answer?
I'm lonely but I also don't want to be in a relationship. What should I do?
To add to it, I get stares but no apporoaches. If I do get to striking up something, they act so weird and freeze. Only stalkers, narcissistic types and men with boundary issues and obsessive behaviours want to progress...
Does being in love mean you are ready for a committed, exclusive relationship?
Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship without already being in love? Is...
How do you let go when you know this person is the one?
My ex called me up and told me he had a dream about us. In the dream, I showed up at his parents place and we ended up having sex in his old room and he said it was wild and crazy. And then proceeded to tell me that he...
How do I not feel broken?
So i have this friend who i started liking out of nowhere more than a friend i couldn't keep it inside anymore so i told him. His response was that he knew, but before i told him a few weeks before he wasn't treating me...
Can I be in love with someone I’m not fully attracted to?
I've dated someone who made me feel deeply understood, cared for, and supported, even though I wasn't initially drawn to his appearance. Over time, his personality, kindness, and shared moments made me feel a stronger...
Why are people “so “ concerned about my relationship status?
You need to get out more, you need a boyfriend let’s find you a boyfriend etc omg
I fell in love with a guy who love bombed me then dropped me like a hot pocket? How can I get over it?
he love bombed me by giving me so much love and attention. I was always insecure and thought he looked better than me and why would he like me. We dated and saw eachother almost everyday for over a month. The thing is I...
I cannot stand my boyfriend’s dog and I don’t know what to do about it?
This dog is mean. MEAN! She has her moments but she is so unpredictable and you never know if she is going to bite you or not. My boyfriend does nothing to discipline her and her training sucks. I want to mention that I...
Should I send my boyfriend a birthday text?
I am on one-month break with my boyfriend. I posted some Facebook stories staying at hospital as my dad is being sick. He saw my stories but didn’t bother even to ask. Even some random friends on Facebook would ask about...
Why would a guy block me for no reason?
He came and talk to me making me feel special he said he add me on but he canceled it cause I saw he add me and when I check there was no… request 😕 why lie to me then I found his account under a page that he likes I add...
My boyfriend keeps making “jokes” about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. Is he trying to tell me something?
I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while, and recently, he's started making these offhand "jokes" about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. It's starting to bother me because I don't know...
What should I wear for the first date?
Comfy or Fancy? What shout I wear for the first date in a cozy coffee shop? What abıut hair and makeup?
My drunk husband admitted he only settled for me because his first choice was unavailable. Any advice?
I’m feeling really hurt and confused right now. Last night, my husband got drunk and admitted something that’s been weighing heavily on me. He said that he only "settled" for me because the person he originally wanted to...
I forgave my boyfriend for cheating but It’s still irritates me. What should I do?
My boyfriend cheated a year ago, I forgave him. Since then, he’s been amazing, and I’m happy with him now. I don’t regret staying, and I trust him, but I’m struggling to fully let go of the past. How can I move on and...
Boyfriend falls asleep everytime when we hang out. What should I do?
My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and living together for about a year. Recently, he's developed a habit of falling asleep whenever we spend time together in the evenings, which is starting to...
Is it weird that my boyfriend doesn’t tell me where he is or who he’s with? Am I being irrational?
My boyfriend and I used to have better communication but lately he doesn’t really tell me where he’s going. I always let him know where I will be. I’m just feeling like our communication styles don’t match. For example,...
Why would a guy view my instagram story immediately after posting and then go back and like it hours later?
basically I’ve kinda been crushing on this guy from afar for a few years now. recently he viewed a photo on my instagram story minutes after I posted it then liked the story the next day right before the story expired....
How to learn a new language by yourself?
I would like to learn French without taking language classes. What is the best way to learn a new language at home? How long does it take to learn?
Why would a girl wave and say hello to me from the elevator?
I was standing on one of floors talking to someone in the lift lobby. The lift stopped and doors open and there was a few people in the lift. She was in the elevator and I wasn't getting in, she was looking at me and...
When you take interest in someone new, how much does your fam/friends opinion of the person matter?
I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its too late lol. But Other than that, no...
My boyfriend has slept with hundreds and it's bothering me. How can I get over it?
I've known my boyfriend for years and was aware of his past, but I'm struggling with finding out about all the people he's slept with, especially those I know personally. I recently moved to be with him, sacrificing a...
When and how should I confess my feelings for her?
Hello! My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. They had been together for three years. I met her about two years ago and in the difficult last months of their relationship, I have realised I actually have...
Boyfriend said he’s “not feeling it” but he also said he still loves me?
He’s barely trying. I asked and he said he’s “not feeling us”, which was totally sudden, we were fine a month ago. He said he still loved me
I feel like a mother to my boyfriend. What should I do?
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years, and while things were great at first, the past nine months have been difficult. I've started to feel more like his mother than his girlfriend, constantly cleaning up...
What are the best places to travel?
What is the best place in the world that you have travelled so far? Tell me your experiences😎
When I go offline then he goes offline. why?
i have noticed this a couple of times on FB.. he would go offline after i go offline because when i login again i cannot see him online.. there is also this time (last seen) facility to view. It is like we both play hide...
A girl unfollowed on ig me but liked my old post?
A while ago I (M26) was talking to a girl (F23) on a dating app I thought she was cute but I wasn't interested in anything serious at the time and she was looking for a relationship. It was clear we were not aligned in...
Who owns America? Is it the government? The politicians? The corporations? The American people?
“The politicians are put there to give you the idea that you have freedom of choice. You don’t. You have no choice. You have owners [The oligarchy]. They own you. They own everything. They own all the important land. They...
My girlfriend is always stressed and making my life miserable. What should I do?
I’m living with my girlfriend, and we’ve been together for two years. Lately, I feel lost and unloved because she’s constantly stressed, and I can’t handle her attitude anymore. I can’t ask a simple question, make a joke,...
My wife just bought a dog while I was away, despite me repeatedly telling her not to. How should I react?
Erica, my daughter, has been begging for a Labrador for two years, calling it her "dream." However, we can't afford it, with 90% of our income going to bills, food, and the mortgage. My wife, a teacher, insists Erica...
Just texted my crush happy birthday and he replied, how do I continue the convo?
So I like this guy at uni and we’re basically friends and I have him on socials. It’s his birthday today and I wished him happy birthday saying: ”Omg happy birthdayy!! Hope you have the best day💕💕” and he replied:...
What to write in birthday card for boyfriend's mom?
I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and tomorrow we're going out to dinner with his mom for her birthday. I'm not sure what to write in the card—should I thank her for welcoming me into the family or mention...
Glutes not growing?
I train my glutes every Monday and Friday and my reta days are wensday and Sunday. I eat about 190 g of protein each day and I would say about 2000 calories. I mange to eat a lot of carbs also and fruit. I lift heavy I do...
What are some enjoyable activities couples can do at home?
We love quality time together. But we're getting really tired of "quality time" involving a screen. What are some ideas you guys have for activities we can do in the evenings together without video games or movies?
My girlfriend hasn’t talked to me in 4 days. Should I be concerned?
My girlfriend suddenly stopped talking to me, saying she needs space despite me not doing anything wrong. It's been 4 days with no communication. Should I be concerned about our relationship? How long should I wait before...
What could be his intentions?
I dated an ex for about 3 years & we broke up 3 years ago, this was due to my lack of self awareness and personal issues that I would project onto him, & I also wasn’t very affectionate towards him as he wanted me to be....
My boyfriend says I am not his type, should I leave him?
I've been dating my boyfriend for seven months. He's sweet, caring, and funny, but he often mentions that my looks aren't his type, even calling me "cute" seemingly out of pressure. He prefers fair-skinned, oriental...
Wife never give me compliments. How bad is this in a relationship?
My wife rarely says anything good about me. If we argue and I push her, she'll reluctantly say I'm a good husband, but generally, she makes jokes at my expense and never compliments me. We've had a dead bedroom for years,...
I regret buying a house with my boyfriend. What should I do now?
I'm on the fence about my boyfriend after we bought a house together. I did most of the work to secure the mortgage, paid 90% of the down payment and closing costs, and handle the renovations, including dealing with mold,...
My boyfriend started wearing makeup. Why is he doing this?
he started wearing some foundation, and then began wearing lip gloss, mascara, and painting his nails too... why is he doing this?
I love my boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else. Any advice?
I can't sleep because I have too much on my mind. It pains me to write this, but I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, and he's been my best friend since we met. We talk about getting married and being...
Do you have any original date ideas for someone on crutches?
I recently started dating a girl and things are going great. We had planned to go hiking this weekend, but I injured my knee playing basketball and will probably be on crutches for a while. While we can still go for...
When it’s come to age gap, how much is too much?
What is your opinions about age gap relationships? What is the acceptable age gap for you?
I love my boyfriend like family. Is that good or bad?
Last night my boyfriend said a harmless joke about my family (who adore him) and it kind of made me pause because my family is his family at this point. We became close and recently moved in together and he just seemed so...
How much should a man who is 186 cm tall weigh in kg?
How many kg should be on average?
Why does my boyfriend do this?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months; on the sixth month we both decided to take it a step further, and became a couple. We go to the Movies, The Winery, salsa dancing, The Museum etc. We share our dreams,...
I want to talk or make a move on my crush but I don't know how to?
Ok so I was scrolling through Instagram randomly stalking someone's following and I saw this very attractive guy. I followed him the very day and we became mutuals. I tried to dig in some information about him and I got...
My friend thinks I like him how do I tell him I don't?
I said I liked his haircut and that it looked cute. he said "aww do you have a little crush on me"... then I said sarcastically "no I have a huge crush on you"... then he had a smile on his face and told me he thinks I'm...
What's the reason that arguments in relationships or marriages turn into insults and yelling matches?
I can understand there will be some differences in opinions but why would it then lead to insults and yelling matches? That has to be totally disrespectful by then. Whats the reason for arguments to get that bad?...
Is mole sauce just indian curry with added chocolate?
Yes, I know there's umpteen variations of both. But if you look at the ingredients, they're basically the same, aren't they? All you do is chuck in a bit of chocolate into a curry and call it a mole. Now I admit I'm not a...
My wife doesn’t respect me. How can I communicate that her behavior is exhausting me?
We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 5. I love my wife deeply but her lack of respect for me is leading to my depression. I work hard to provide for our family, yet she doesn't appreciate my job's demands and...
If you had to compare relationship status to a company/job position, what would it be like?
I'm comparing relationship status to a company or job positions. What do you think would be the equivalent in a company or job? This is how I think it would be like: For instance an acquaintance or platonic friend might...
How do you get out of a situationship?
Have you ever been in a situationship? If yes, what did you do for get out of it?
Would my boyfriend message a guy he suspects i’m talking to?
Last night I rolled over to see my boyfriend on my phone. I’m not sure what he was doing, when I confronted him he denied going through my phone claiming he doesn’t know my passcode. He constantly accuses me of still...
My boyfriend goes to bars alone frequently. Isn’t it strange?
We've been together for 3 months now. I feel disrespected by his frequent solo bar visits and drinking habits. He said he knows it looks weird but sometimes he is hanging out with the bartender, I said yes it is weird,...
I’m not attracted to bald man and my husband is balding. How can I stopped it?
I don’t like bald men, I always find them unattractive. My husband has receding hairline for a while but now he is seriously balding. Is hair transplant the only way? Any advice to talk about him and convince him to hair...
How do I tell my boyfriend about his hygiene without hurting his feelings or causing him to feel pushed away from me?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 2 months now. We do not live together yet, however we see each other like twice a week but text literally everyday. He’s such a loyal, devoted, and funny man. He’s...
Do some people just not WANT to be happy?
The world is so jaded today that it's hard for some people to accept the chance at happiness when it's offered. It's perhaps easier for some folks to understand misery... to get satisfaction out of whining and complaining...
Does taking a break in a relationship really work?
If you’ve ever taken a break in your relationship, what was the outcome? I’m currently struggling in my relationship and unsure if I suggest a break to give us time to think or considering we should just break up. Any...
Should I ask my long distance friends with benefits to pay half of the ticket price?
I’m in a long-distance friends-with-benefits situation. My friends with benefits is in another state, and I’ve been spending a lot on travel to visit them. It’s getting frustrating because they haven’t offered to help...
Has your perspective on the "tradwife" trend changed after Ballerina Farm?
Recently, an article about Ballerina Farm, a famous tradwife influencer, became a hot topic. In the article, Ballerina Farm talks about how she wanted to become a ballerina, but now feels exhausted all the time because of...
Is it possible to develop a physical attraction to someone over time, even if that attraction wasn't initially present?
Can emotional connection, shared experiences, and personal interactions have an impact on this process?
Is it normal to not have your period for over 2 months after stop taking your birth control pills?
I had been taken y birth control pills for 2 weeks. After I had noticed I was gaining a lot of weight I had stopped. I am going on my second month and I still do not see any signs of my period. Is this normal?
Is virtue signalling universally common in all cultures?
I was watching Jewish YouTube videos and Islamic videos too, and both groups do virtue signalling. There was one series I saw, where 100% of the people interviewed would tell white lies to upgrade their reputation...
Does she like me or she is just too nice/friendly?
A girl in my city which I have never seen, saw me one day in a cafe, and we had some eye contact there, like 5 times. After that I realized she wasn’t too far from my cotyvso we met in person on the road sometimes and we...
Is my boyfriend no longer in love with me?
We have been together for almost a year. We overcame a tough start, but lately, I feel a lack of love from him. He rarely says "I love you" unless I do first, doesn’t compliment me, and avoids spending quality time...
Do men actually regret loosing a good girl?
Seriously, if a man has a great girlfriend and she was the best why would he leave her in the first place if he will regret losing her, like if she is good and nth wrong what makes him wants to leave her, why would he...
Am I a bad partner to my girlfriend?
I can't help but feel like I've let my girlfriend down. I had some bad days lately I can’t handle this. I've been distant and unappreciative lately, and I know I've missed opportunities to show her love and affection. I...
My wife is hiding secret messages from me. What should I do?
We've been married for almost a year, dated for a year before that. Last summer, I found out my wife was still getting messages from a guy she dated when we first met. She promised to block him, but recently, I saw his...
How to recover after a breakup?
What is the best, healthiest way to get over a tough breakup? Any suggesstions?
My husband is letting himself go. How can I help him without making him offended?
My husband and I have been married for 6 years, together for 9. While I care about physical and mental health due to my family history, he is not very bothered. Over time, my husband has become more lazy and inactive,...
I feel more like a caretaker than a partner. Am I a bad partner?
We've been dating for 2 years, living together for 1.5 years due to unexpected circumstances. In the past year, her mental and physical health has declined, affecting her ability to work and function. I feel like our...
My boyfriend says I stress him out and that's why he doesn't like to spend time with me. What should I say to this?
So I barely talk to my boyfriend anymore and when i talked to him about spending more time together and talking more, he told me i add more stress to his already stressed life, mind you i give him space, i barley talk to...
Should I leave my husband who emotionally cheats on me?
I found out my husband is emotionally cheating on me, and it's been really painful. He's sharing deep, personal things with someone else, and I feel so betrayed. I've talked to my friends, and they're supportive, but I'm...
Is going to the strip club considered cheating?
My girlfriend is really interested in such clubs, but does it mean cheating to be interested in such environments? Would you let your girlfriend/boyfriend go such clubs?
Is it worth re starting a friendship, in hopes to reconnect and start again or should I fully move on?
I used to work at a pub and me and a manager had been flirting on and off for 7 months and when it had gotten to the point where I thought something was going to happen he then got back with his ex. During the time he was...
Do I ruin my chances to get my ex back by screwing his friend?
Couple days ago I hanged out with my ex-boyfriend’s friend and I got drunk and he sorta raped me. I told him not to tell anybody and did a pinky promise. the next day. He blocked me and told everybody in town that he...
I accidently friend zoned a very good friend and now he says he made a mistake. What do I do?
I recently became friends with this guy and our friendship has been great. Our friendship is exactly the kind I've been looking for. When we first met I was taking a break from relationships and he knew that. Fortunately...
What does it mean if a guy smiles at you from a distance?
If a guy who you don’t know/aren’t friends with stares at you from a distance while walking towards you, but then says hi when you are close enough, does it mean he finds you attractive?