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Like the title said. Can I wear this dress for a first date? I always like to wear dress, i'm very girly. Our first date would be casual, this is a flowy dress. I could be wearing Sandal Heels (types of sandal that still have small heels). What do you guys and girls think? Should i choose another dress option? Please choose in the Poll options, thankyou ;)

The potatoes are one of the tastiest ingredients in the soup but they are not necessary for the flavour. The flavour is determined by the carrots.

He made eye contact, smiled at me softly… then started to look like he was daydreaming whilst still smiling at me… then he snapped out of it when I started talking to him… I’ve noticed that our conversations seem to flow more naturally and we talk more… has he developed feelings? Is he falling in love possibly? Or is it just lust?

So I’ve had an online friend for a few years and he started wishing me a happy birthday every year after we got to know each other a little better. There were times where he would & I wouldn’t, when that were the case, he’d follow up a few days or maybe a week after saying I forgot it was his birthday (more subtly). Last year, he wished me a happy belated & this year I decided to also be more laid back. I just asked him if he had a good birthday maybe a day or two after it actually happened, I sent him that message after he followed up with me about something else. He leaves me on read yet continues to view my IG stories. This has always been the case, he’s always one of the first to see my stories but may go weeks without msging me. A few years back, he’d literally go weeks without replying but will be the first person to see my stories or comment. But when I’d take long to get back to him, he’d *jokingly* say that I’m ignoring him or ask if I’m busy. Honestly I don’t feel like I did anything wrong so I don’t see the need to reach out, it just seems hypocritical. You can be busy but I can’t? He hasn’t made a comment like that in years & his response time has gotten better but it’s been almost 3 months & I haven’t heard from him. I have a tendency to delete people when my frustration has built up, I don’t know if it’s an avoidant personality style trait. But he’s the only “friend” I have so I want to think this through. It’s not looking too good & I’m feeling tempted to ignore him if he ever reaches out again

Aside from just sex, things like handholding, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc.

Are they more wanted and needed by the woman or the man? Or perhaps both? Your thoughts, or feedback?

I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its too late lol. But Other than that, no one can tell me much. I’m stubborn and a risk taker plus I tend to walk a path that could lead to learning the hard way. #FeelFreeToList