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Why does he notice when I notice another guy when he is just a friend?
It’s clear we’re just friends.. but when I glance at this other man in our circle he notices and looks at him too. Sometimes I would notice him looking at me but we’re definitely just friends although we hang out alone...
What race do you prefer to date?
Now lets keep it real, everyone has their own preferences, whether it has to do with looks, status, personality, etc. Whatever the case may be. Maybe you're open-minded and you don't care, but I know some men and women...
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How come I can read posts by someone that...
You can see questions, but you can't see opinions or replies. I don't know how or why that's the case though.
Which way do you lean in politics?
Voted "Conservative."However, I always, when I see this kind of question, have to put an asterisk over it. My conservatism is not what Americans typically call conservative. Because what Americans call conservative is, historically speaking, not conservatism but is, rather, classical...
Will a woman who lost her virginity to someone...
I don't think there's any such connection. In fact, the opposite is probably more likely. The woman may want to experience something different.
How can you tell if someone likes you or not?
I think men are a lot more simple than we make them out to be. A guy that is interested is not going to do things just because he’s a “nice guy” , he going to do things because he generally likes your company. You will be able to tell if a guy isn’t interested in you. Main sign of a guy not...
How cracked is your phone?
I have a couple cracks on my screen protector but I think the actual screen itself is okay. I always crack my screens 💀
Why is this guy suddenly taking interest?
I know him through a mutual friend and we chat on the same platform together with a few other people. He suddenly started commenting on things I said within the group chat, then he suddenly started chatting to me, which...
Is it a good idea to take things slowly with a crush?
I have a crush on a coworker and have had other crushes in the past that I've taken things slowly with. As in trying to talk to them and building rapport well before asking them out. I've actually only asked 1 out. Is...
Is it normal behaviour that my boyfriend is constantly sexualising me and bring up sexual comments in conversation?
I’m getting so sick and tired of being objectified on a daily basis by my long distance relationship boyfriend. Every single phone call we have he whips his penis out and shows me and sometimes starts stroking it. He will...
My boyfriend has been stressed recently. How can I make him feel better?
Hi. My (18) boyfriend (19) has been distant lately. Not only with me but with his friends too. I talked with him, it's basically his college. He has been lacking behind and his deciding to drop out and get a job....
Does my crush know I like him?
When my crush was talking to me, he was pacing and looking down. He seemed to have trouble making eye contact with me. He's usually not an introverted person and enjoys being with his friends. I was wondering if this is...
Is it normal to say "I don't like you, I could've gotten someone better " to your partner during arguments?
He's the one who's constantly worried I don't love him or thinks I'm looking for better. Always taunts me saying. I go to work and come back immediately. he can take my phone anytime to check. I don't look for better. i...
Is it normal that most of the time I feel like we do not have fun with my boyfriend?
We've been dating for a couple of months but most of the time I feel like we do not enjoy what we have been doing together. Is it normal to feel like this?
Boyfriend of 2 years might not be over his ex?
My boyfriend of 2 years had an ex girlfriend that he had run a business with before me. When they broke up she put him in so much debt that he is still paying off now. He still talks negatively of her to this day for...
I moved to a new state and within a week I met this guy. We hit it off very well but within a month it didn’t really work out. ?
A couple months go by and contact me and let me know he was in a different place. & would like for us to connect or just apologizes I don’t really remember. We follow each other on social media and he never really makes...
My guy friends girlfriend wants him to cut all contact with me. Both of us are strictly platonic. What should I do?
the 3 of us actually met around the same time and are good friends. but the girl doesn't want him and I to be friends anymore. if we keep contact then she fights with the boy and he gets upset because he is crazily in...
Why does he hide his story from me?
Me and this guy have been on and off with each other until he gradually faded away. I drunk texted him during Christmas and it seems we felt the same way about each other. He has been viewing my stories massively for the...
Does this type of hug mean anything?
I mean, he’s significantly taller than me but when he hugged me, he nuzzled his face into my hair/head. Does this sort of hug mean anything?
Does he want to see me again?
After almost a year my friend and I realised we are in the same town, after texting for a while, where we used to live. Him and I moved abroad, I moved for a master and he was almost full-time travelling the whole year....
Thinking of breaking up with my partner and need help?
I guess I’ve had doubts for about a year now mostly because of our age difference (just under 8 years). I am older. I was super happy in the beginning. He was perfect and I was excited for our future… we got engaged and I...
She thinks I’m not talkative enough?
The girl that I’ve been seeing is always saying that I’m not talkative enough and that I “don’t know how to have a conversation”. This is strange to me because I’ve never heard this before from any friends or girls from...
Should I ask him if he meant it when he said I love you?
A guy I'm in a kind of situationship with whispered "I love you *my name*" in my ear. I was too surprised to respond, though I do love him. Should I ask him if he meant it? Should I just randomly say it to him? How should...
Why is my ex blaming me for everything? and why is he the victim?
I dated my boyfriend for a year. He was my first love etc. Things began to change a few months ago. He had less and less time, and I was less and less important. I spoke with him about this, but things didn't change. I...
My ex and I got into a physical dispute last month and he moved on quickly into a new relationship. Was this his intention to date this person?
Last month my ex and I got into a huge fight, and he physically assaulted me. This fight was our biggest fight we ever had. I ended up with bruises on my arms and legs with scratch marks on my arms and a bloody...
I feel like I am no good at my job and that I'll get fired... What should I do?
So I got hired as a remote business analyst 3 weeks ago. On paper, I should be really good for the job, and honestly I am. or was. I don't know. I know all the technical things I need to know and have the people skills I...
Why do they act like that? Do they know something I don't? Do guys share secrets with each other?
I've been talking to this guy for a while now. Not too long ago his friends saw that we were talking and started smiling from ear to ear (this never happened before and they're very rude guys in general). A few days later...
Girls, In a complicated relationship I need some kind of guidance?
Ok, so I've recently just got back with my ex girlfriend and we really want things to work out between us seeing that we do love each other just that the issue that broke us was trust issues but she is an overthinker and...
This is so awkward - I keep on accidentally running into the same guy (someone I liked who does not like me back) - does he think I’m following him😰?
There is this guy from work that I used to like but have tried to forget about because I just knew from all his facial expressions that he “figured out” my feelings and they were obviously not returned (he basically just...
Should I wait, move on or distance myself for awhile?
Hello, He literally forced me to admit that I liked him. I was going to do it anyway. Then we kissed. From that moment on we behaved like a couple, only without saying anything about it. He pressured me for sex, but...
Why is he doing it? what can I do to make him stop touching me?
There is one colleague at work, we have a good relationship, we are more or less kind to each other, but I have no other interest in him. He was still a new employee when he started touching, touching is mainly manifested...
What is a fling in love?
Do you know the exact meaning of a fling in a relationship? Is it something like one night stand or a short-term relationship?
If a girl says you make her weak, is this a good thing?
So this girl and I like each other and a few days ago she called me to come hang out with her. Then when she heard my voice she said "ugh why do you have to make me so weak" in a playful voice and began to neevously...
Is it ok to be friends with someone entirely different from myself?
I am humble now that I’m older. I come from a middle class family and grew up in a middle class environment. I feel that I am no more or less important than anyone else and I’m up front. My new friend takes pride in her...
Why is he suddenly acting like this after such a tiny exchange?
I first met this guy back in early November of last year at my new job. I followed him on Instagram before that, he had accepted, and then followed me back. On my very first day of training for the job— I kid you not, he...
I feel like my boyfriend is a huge baby. How to deal with this?
Girls, does any of you feel that your boyfriend acts like a baby? In most of our discussions he gets offended and pissing me of like a child...
My legs have been itching everyday and I get small little bumps, what can it be?
The itching is happening in both legs, from foot to upper thigh. However; I’m noticing bumps in my left leg that resembles an insect bite (small hard circle with red dot in tmr middle) and it’s not hives. I’m also not...
How can I cope with my dad having left us?
My dad recently left me and my mother. I feel betrayed by him and all my trust i had in him. I am still shocked and cry a lot. Now everything will be different and i am am scared of the future. si its hard for you when...
Should I stay with this guy?
This guy had been loving me since 6 years and we are in a situationship from 6 years yet he never asked me to marry him during these 6 years. I was expecting him to initiate the topic of marriage but he haven't initiated...
I don’t trust my boyfriend and I don’t know why? His phone is off at night?
My boyfriend tells me he loves me everyday but I DONT trust him and I just don’t know why. I’ve gotten no proof of anything apart from his promiscuous past ( But I had one a bit too so I don’t judge ) everytime I wake up...
I really dont know what to do, I have very strong feelings for her and can't only be friends, what should I do?
hey, me and this woman both early 30's met around 3 month ago through a dating app, i wasn't looking for anything special but than we met. im so confused about what to do because i was never in such situation. this woman...
We broke up with my girlfriend a couple of months ago. But everything reminds me of her. How to handle this?
Have you ever experienced this? We have so many memories and so much in common and everything reminds me of her. Please help me!
Girls, What would you say to someone who's afraid to fall in love?
This is something that's been plaguing me for years now and I finally found a way to put my fear into words. "Why are you scared to fall in love?" "Because I don't know what's real anymore. You may say you love me but do...
How do I get be things back from my EX?
My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, he stated he would return my things. I asked a week ago, and he said he would “tomorrow” 7 days later, I have yet to hear anything. How long should I wait to ask again?
Should I date a man who can't hold a conversation?
What to do if a man can't hold an interesting conversation and is just interested in kissing you or touching you.
Should I go out alone with my friend’s friend?
My friend has been ignoring me recently, she often does this as she says she’s disassociating from reality. But one of her close friends reached out to me and would like to hang out. Not like a date but just to meet and...
Follow-up text - No response?
Hello! I had my first date with a girl yesterday. Everything went smooth and actually pretty good, in my opinion. Chat went smooth, no awkward silence. Laughed a lot together. Saw her stare (in the periphery) at me when...
Isn’t this odd?
even though it might of been an accident i think it’s weird. anyway i called a random realtor just to see learn about getting a house in the future since i’m in my early 20s. We talked for a bit about houses and after the...
Its my first time meeting him, what are some tips to be not awkward?
So I’ve only been talking to this guy for a week and we’re going out. It’s not a romantic date just a regular friend thing. I hope he doesn’t make a move cause I don’t see him in that way lol. He’s also mutual friends...
Is this a red flag or sign of control early on?
Basically I’ve been with my new boyfriend for almost a week now. We hit it off instantly from our first date to the second we started talking. He’s very kindhearted, open, funny, respectful, affectionate, and honest. He...
If a girl asked me for my number and I gave it to her , what does it mean?And when is she going to call?
I was walking past a beautiful girl...Giving her this mysterious look.When I went to my car in the parking lot, Her friend came up to me and ask me if I could give her(the girl a shared a glance with)...I said okay, and...
What to say when a guy asks, "What do you want from me?" HELP!
So I have this guy friend who I like and its obvious he likes me but we never hang out, he's invited me over to "have a beer with the guys" a few times but I haven't been able to..and would feel kinda weird just showing...
Why is he avoiding me?
my situationship from 3 years ago randomly texted me a week ago and swiftly approached me with the offer of a friendship. he exclaimed that he missed me & blah blah blah. i ended up giving him my new number because i...
Girl wants to hang out with me but has a boyfriend?
I met this girl from work and we have hit it off pretty well. She asked me to hang out with her. We ended up going to an italian restaurant together. Just the two of us. There was some slight flirtation going on such as...
Why are men so hurtful?
So I broke up with my first boyfriend last year and I recently started saying someone else. My first boyfriend was my first in literally everything but however he started getting a bit controlling and emotional abusive....
I think the guy I like is backing away from me, am I reading into things?
As the title says, there's a guy I've seen in passing for a few months now. He's a regular bus driver I see to/from work, and I think we've made it clear to one another there's an attraction there. He does shifts and I'm...
I met up with my ex girlfriend yesterday. She was crying for an hour and she is clearly not over me but still doesn't want to get back together?
long story short we were dating for almost two years and we were madly in love. She made plans for the future even though we are really young. The last two months of our relationship were a bit rough but still we loved...
Does it mean anything when a guy gives you something of his?
I was teasing the guy I have a massive thing for about him having taken it my bracelet, because it was the same exact one as his and mine went missing mysteriously at my house one day. (This one was most definitely his,...
What does it mean if a guy compliments your personality?
What does it mean if a guy compliments your personality? This guy I know used to compliments my looks but now only compliments my personality. Is that a bad thing? Does it mean he likes me more or less?
He says we can't be friends. Why?
He says he's over me but we can't be friends. However, he still would like texts and to catch up. He did mention that seeing me would be difficult and so would communication. Just hearing my voice brings 'it all back.'...
Do you think it was a bad idea talking to her again?
So out of nowhere, I apologized to this girl who used to like me and spent time with me on Snapchat. I haven’t talked to her in years, and just one night, I thought it would make things better to at least one person who I...
Girls, How do I deal with being separated from my girlfriend while she is in the mental hospital and what to do for her when she comes home?
My girlfriend has been dealing with anxiety for years and it has caused bad depression and she claims the only reason she is still hasn't committed was because of me. She got mad at her dad and she threatened to cut her...
(Rant) I feel like sometimes my boyfriend is not serious about me?
Sometimes i feel like my boyfriend’s not serious about me… He’s never once posted about us on any of his social media accounts, and his parents also doesn’t know about me (or that he has a girlfriend). Also, he once...
Why he block me after we broke up but still has my location?
Me and my boyfriend broke up today. Because he don’t feel like we don’t have a connection anymore. I told him I’m not gonna force him to like me and I told him to delete my number. Before he said it he deleted my letter...
I'm moving in with my man. His best friend went through a breakup and wants to move in too. Am I selfish for not wanting a third person in the mix?
The friend says it'll be temporary but I know it won't bc it's not out of necessity but due to him not wanting to be alone. I don't feel it's a wise decision to allow a third party into our living space. This is a big...
Does my boyfriend really love me? Is it normal what he’s doing?
Hey, I’m wondering about one thing. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a 6 months now and I don’t really feel loved. He never wears Led Zeppelin T-Shirt I bought him and never posts me on his IG etc. I just feel like he’s...
Should you give another chance to a remorseful ex who cheated on you?
My ex is autistic and was very controlling when we were in a relationship. He would prevent me from being in touch with my guy friends and force me to speak more to my female friends instead. Since he had autism and a...
Is this guy at work who is married interested in me or just being friendly bc overall he is quite a friendly guy to everyone?
He always usually says good morning and goodbye to me, he often times sits with me and my friend on breaks he likes to chat with me a good bit almost every day, whenever I got a problem I have to call him so he came up to...
Why does my stomach feel empty even though I ate?
I sometimes feel like my stomach is empty even though I ate too much... Do you think I have a digestive problem or sth?
Should I tell the girl about my feelings the girl I like?
Hello, I am in a very interesting situation. We are in Italy as a group of teachers of 7. In a way they seemed no to like me at all. I felt the coldness and stayed away from the group. The issue that bothers me most is...
Why does he stare straight ahead when he is saying hi to me?
The few times we have made eye contact he always looks terrified and looks away as fast as possible. I figured he was afraid of me and kept some distance. But whenever we have run into each other he always stops, either...
My girlfriend doesn't have many friends so she always wants to go out with me, do you think it's normal for me to get bored?
Sometimes I feel like I get bored when we when we do everything together... But when I tell her that, she is offended. What do you think I should do?
Are these red flags from a girl?
I matched with this girl on bumble. I’m 29 and she's 21. When I first matched with her she chatted me and I responded. I didn’t answer then she double texted me “hello?” From there I got her number. I just matched her on...
Should I just cut off my “friend” without any explanation?
I’ve come on here and posted many questions about this friend of mine. I’ve used all the great advice but unfortunately she is extremely stubborn and doesn’t see her wrongdoings. She’s extremely disrespectful towards my...
How to know a woman likes/loves me but its not because I paid for everything?
By Splitting the bill and see if she still goes out with me? Its basically my way to screen out the type of women, that "like/love" me mainly because i paid for everything.
How do you start being healthier?
I live with my boyfriend and his family. My boyfriend works a mixture of shifts, but his shifts are mainly during the night. On the weekends, he can come home anywhere from 1am to 3am and be back on at 11am, depending...
Should I tell the girl I'm talking to I'm going to study abroad?
I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her and she really likes me, I'm planning on asking her to be her boyfriend soon. The thing is I'm going to study abroad in 2 months and won't be back till...
My guy rejects physical touch. Why is he behaving this way?
recently just patch back with my ex and the strange thing is this time round he doesn't want to have any physical touch with me. Not even holding of hands or even if i ask for a hug, he just cheekily disturb me and ignore...
Not getting any matches?
So it's been about six months that I've been back on the dating apps and I've been getting almost zero matches. I'm a male in his 30s and I've never had trouble like this before. I've had ebbs and flows of matches but...
He asked me on a date but I said no, but now I wanna know him better what should I do? help?
so I saw this guy on Instagram and wanted to get to know him, and suddenly he showed interest and we started talking. he asked me on a date on the first day of our chats and I felt flustered and indirectly declined him....
When he says he wants to be just 'friends' but sending mixed signals?
Obviously, he likes me. But the question is, I don't understand why these things happen to people like me. Guys say they want to be friends, they are interested in me, they want to propose to me, buuuut they go on and...
Does he like me or he know that I like him?
There is one guy in our gym and he is kind of my trainer as well. First of all, he acts a bit awkward around me. I do not know how to explain that. As soon as I got into the room he stop talking with his friends. He talks...
Is it normal in a healthy relationship for girls to be able to have guy friends and guys to be able to have girl friends? ?
my husband does not trust me whatsoever and says that I give him a reason not to trust me because I have asked other guys "to spend one on one time with them" when in reality i asked someone about possibly using their...
Neighbors boyfriend left her in the house?
My neighbor is worried her man is not coming home and I don't know what to tell her. Is it possible he has abandoned her? He left his work truck. Also there apartment does not have much in it, so it's possible he could...
What does it mean that he reacted this way?
My boyfriend of four years loves to grab my belly and squeeze it no matter what. We been bike riding lately which is super fun and I told him I needed to borrow a shirt he said “ do you fit a large?” I said “yes because...
My husband had an emotional affair with a woman but he still stalks her social media?
He left the job where she was because he had an urgent exam to give for his higher studies and wasn't able to focus on his studies due to his hectic schedule at work. They didn't have sex I know that but there were late...
In love, a psychopath or a player?
I'm getting to know a guy I exchanged contact with on holiday. He said at the beginning that his intention is to get to know each other well, and that he really wants to be with me. I told him I don't want to rush into...
Boyfriend said his ex is better looking?
My boyfriend and I were playing truth or dare drunk. We were asking various questions and one question he happened to ask was who was bigger. I only ever had 2 s*x partners, where as he had many. I told him the truth and...
Why is her action different from her words?
I asked her to be my girlfriend she said she would think about it, after two weeks she said no, but she still called me and video calls me. a month later I went to see her at home and she became so cold towards me which...
Is it normal to keep in contact with your exs?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months now. He recently told me that he keeps in contact with his ex. He says that she will text or call him 3-4 times a year to check on him. He told me a few things...
Is it okay to date an ex situationships friend?
I don’t even know how to explain this, but I went on a few dates with a co worker (we’ll name him Dave) couple of months ago… we didn’t even get physical, the most was literally peck on the lips after our last date. But...
Was it a joke or did he not want the other guy to approach me?
So one day a guy A came ask me what subject I wanted to take for next period, then a guy I have a crush on interrupted our talk, he said to the other guy that I had a “friend” already, I replied to him “you’re crazy”, but...
I think my guy friend likes me but he is hot and cold with me?
Me and my friends met through another mutual friend, they are all from the same hometown and i kinda went along with them (we have been hanging out for almost 2 years). Since last year i had a small feeling that one of...
Why does he address me that way?
Ok, so there's this guy, we've been talking a lot lately but haven't met each other still planning to, but he started calling me chipmunk all of a sudden and says it's cute when I asked why he'll be addressing me as a...
Why does my ex boyfriends mum continue to check in on me? Does it mean there’s a chance we could get back together?
My ex and I broke up 5 months ago. I miss him a lot and still hope we rekindle at some point. He broke up with me after almost three years together, it’s a complex story around the breakup but we ended on mostly good...
What does it mean when a guy observes you?
On a snack and drink party I saw a guy observing me all the time. When I got me something to drink or to eat and turned around I saw him looking at me all the time while he sit there at the table with the others. I really...
