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Are daddy issues solvable?

Okay so this question is more for women that grew up with an absent father. A bit of backstory to better explain my question, the kind of dad where you know he loves you but he fucked up so bad when you were young (an...
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Is liking a girls story “flirting”?

I’m just wondering a guys stance on this. A crush of mine has been liking all my insta stories. Just wondering if I should dm him?
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Why would he secretly check my body out when I’m not looking?

My friend and I were walking out and my friend told me that this guy was checking my body out when my back was faced to him. He noticed my friend caught him and quickly looked away, acting as if he wasn’t looking. What...
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Is this acceptable after 12 years together? Am I wrong to feel this way?

So I've been with my partner for 12 years. Our sex life has not always been the best but it's not so much the sex but the intimacy of being close I miss. As the longer we are together there seems to be no sex and no...
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They tolerate stress better
They work at home where bosses are nicer
They have more estrogen which at healthy levels is an antioxidant
They have more pressure to look beautiful leading to a lower BMI
They socialize more then men due to being more emotionally sensitive
They are more nurturing and protective of young children, leading to a longer life
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Why is she making me wait?

I’ve been talking to this girl for like 2 weeks now and on the second date she let me kiss her but she wasn’t getting too physical or too passionate. (I thought that was weird but I am a passionate kisser so maybe it’s...
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What’s the difference between getting comfortable and losing feelings?

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months, and it feels less exciting now. I’m not looking for constant excitement, but we’ve hit a phase where we don’t talk for hours anymore or just enjoy being together without...
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Why do hot men deal with rejection so poorly?

So… There’s this guy I dated and he treated me the way as if he wanted something casual, so when I met up him I told him I used him for forgetting the guy who I had feelings for long distance and that I dated him because...
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How can I get her to feel comfortable around me?

Last night, I went to my girlfriend’s house for date night. We played chess. After a few turns, she started acting funny. She’d get up after every turn to go “clean the kitchen”. That was her excuse. The game took over 3...
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Will he regret it after months?

We've been in long distance relationship for about 2-3 years. He wanted me to live and study in his country but I can't. And he said he can't come to my country also. He blamed me for everything like I don't go to him...
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Is physical intimacy more important to the woman or the man in a relationship?

Aside from just sex, things like handholding, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc. Are they more wanted and needed by the woman or the man? Or perhaps both? Your thoughts, or feedback?
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Aside from just sex, things like handholding, hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc. Are they more wanted and needed by the woman or the man? Or perhaps both? Your thoughts, or feedback? Show More
Yes, it’s important to WOMEN
Yes, it’s important to MEN
Yes, it’s important, but to BOTH
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What does it mean if a guy tells you, you have an evil laugh?

He said I have an evil laugh but he can’t tell if he likes it or not. I think I’m offended lol
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Should I live with mom at age 27 or move out?

My mom moved to a very far city 2 hours away from my job. The commute is costly so I’m not saving any money on rent. my mom rented a senior apt and it’s only one bedroom and I have no bedroom. The one bedroom we have...
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Is it possible that someone could like you so much and you just never know?

For example you can’t stop thinking about a girl you randomly saw and think the world of her but you don’t even know her name, etc.
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Any financial aids ideas?

Do y’all have any financial aids method for students besides working?
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Why is it so hard to lose weight?

I've been intermittent fasting for a week and my weight has not budged. I'm 5"10 135 pounds and would like to get to 120. Anybody have weight loss secrets. I'm going to start including a gallon of water.
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How to cope with the regret of letting him go?

I’m in a very strange place emotionally right now. I had an LDR with a guy 5 years ago for only about 5 months that I never actually met in person as he was on the other side of the world (I know right, get over it). I...
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I think my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore. Any advice?

I'm afraid my girlfriend doesn't love me anymore, even though she insists she does. At the beginning of our relationship, everything was amazing. We had great conversations, shared similar interests, supported each other,...
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Am I reasonable to ask my husband not to tell his family about my miscarriage?

I had a miscarriage and I know that if my husband tells one of his family members it’ll spread to his whole family. Am I wrong for asking him not to tell them?
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What does this mean to you?

What does it mean when a man that you have feelings for and has feelings for lets you sit on his lap and he holds your arm around his neck?
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Why do men say they prefer modest women with light makeup when I get more attention in revealing clothes and heavy makeup?

I used to dress up a lot more and do my makeup heavier. I go out to more places now than I did before but I dress more modest not conservatively just less exposed. I think I dress well still just more covered and I wear...
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Why isn't wasabi used more in western cooking?

In the west we associate wasabi with sushi, it's what raises it from being boring fish and rice to something nice. Anyone who's bought some to make sushi has probably tried the left overs with other foods. I find it goes...
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My girlfriend has a male friend that texts her a lot. Should I take an action?

Last week we were out having dinner, and her phone kept buzzing. Every time she’d check her messages, I’d notice it was him. At first, I tried to brush it off, but as the evening went on, I found myself getting more and...
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How much are community college fees in the USA?

Can anyone with detailed information about annual fees answer?
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1 mo

I'm lonely but I also don't want to be in a relationship. What should I do?

To add to it, I get stares but no apporoaches. If I do get to striking up something, they act so weird and freeze. Only stalkers, narcissistic types and men with boundary issues and obsessive behaviours want to progress...
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Does being in love mean you are ready for a committed, exclusive relationship?

Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship without already being in love? Is...
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Do you wait until you feel that you are in love with your partner to suggest that you two date exclusively (NOT asking about living together)? Can you enter an exclusive relationship Show More
I've never been in a relationship
I usually enter an exclusive relationship before I feel that I am in love with my partner
I usually enter an exclusive relationship as soon as I feel that I am in love with my partner
Once I feel that I am in love with my partner, I wait for sex to happen before I enter an exclusive relationship
Once I feel that I am in love with my partner, I wait for something else to develop before I enter an exclusive relationship
Being in love and dating exclusively are totally unrelated.
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How do you let go when you know this person is the one?

My ex called me up and told me he had a dream about us. In the dream, I showed up at his parents place and we ended up having sex in his old room and he said it was wild and crazy. And then proceeded to tell me that he...
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How do I not feel broken?

So i have this friend who i started liking out of nowhere more than a friend i couldn't keep it inside anymore so i told him. His response was that he knew, but before i told him a few weeks before he wasn't treating me...
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1 mo

Can I be in love with someone I’m not fully attracted to?

I've dated someone who made me feel deeply understood, cared for, and supported, even though I wasn't initially drawn to his appearance. Over time, his personality, kindness, and shared moments made me feel a stronger...
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1 mo

Why are people “so “ concerned about my relationship status?

You need to get out more, you need a boyfriend let’s find you a boyfriend etc omg
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I fell in love with a guy who love bombed me then dropped me like a hot pocket? How can I get over it?

he love bombed me by giving me so much love and attention. I was always insecure and thought he looked better than me and why would he like me. We dated and saw eachother almost everyday for over a month. The thing is I...
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I cannot stand my boyfriend’s dog and I don’t know what to do about it?

This dog is mean. MEAN! She has her moments but she is so unpredictable and you never know if she is going to bite you or not. My boyfriend does nothing to discipline her and her training sucks. I want to mention that I...
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Should I send my boyfriend a birthday text?

I am on one-month break with my boyfriend. I posted some Facebook stories staying at hospital as my dad is being sick. He saw my stories but didn’t bother even to ask. Even some random friends on Facebook would ask about...
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Why would a guy block me for no reason?

He came and talk to me making me feel special he said he add me on but he canceled it cause I saw he add me and when I check there was no… request 😕 why lie to me then I found his account under a page that he likes I add...
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My boyfriend keeps making “jokes” about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. Is he trying to tell me something?

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a while, and recently, he's started making these offhand "jokes" about me cheating on him or asking if I want to break up. It's starting to bother me because I don't know...
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1 mo

What should I wear for the first date?

Comfy or Fancy? What shout I wear for the first date in a cozy coffee shop? What abıut hair and makeup?
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My drunk husband admitted he only settled for me because his first choice was unavailable. Any advice?

I’m feeling really hurt and confused right now. Last night, my husband got drunk and admitted something that’s been weighing heavily on me. He said that he only "settled" for me because the person he originally wanted to...
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I forgave my boyfriend for cheating but It’s still irritates me. What should I do?

My boyfriend cheated a year ago, I forgave him. Since then, he’s been amazing, and I’m happy with him now. I don’t regret staying, and I trust him, but I’m struggling to fully let go of the past. How can I move on and...
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Boyfriend falls asleep everytime when we hang out. What should I do?

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years and living together for about a year. Recently, he's developed a habit of falling asleep whenever we spend time together in the evenings, which is starting to...
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1 mo

Is it weird that my boyfriend doesn’t tell me where he is or who he’s with? Am I being irrational?

My boyfriend and I used to have better communication but lately he doesn’t really tell me where he’s going. I always let him know where I will be. I’m just feeling like our communication styles don’t match. For example,...
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Why would a guy view my instagram story immediately after posting and then go back and like it hours later?

basically I’ve kinda been crushing on this guy from afar for a few years now. recently he viewed a photo on my instagram story minutes after I posted it then liked the story the next day right before the story expired....
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How to learn a new language by yourself?

I would like to learn French without taking language classes. What is the best way to learn a new language at home? How long does it take to learn?
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Why would a girl wave and say hello to me from the elevator?

I was standing on one of floors talking to someone in the lift lobby. The lift stopped and doors open and there was a few people in the lift. She was in the elevator and I wasn't getting in, she was looking at me and...
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When you take interest in someone new, how much does your fam/friends opinion of the person matter?

I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its too late lol. But Other than that, no...
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I don’t give much of a fck what others think. But when things start to seem sketch and I’m unsure of if the flags are red then I start to care for other’s advice. Usually by then, its Show More
Their opinion hardly matters. I’ll hear them out but think/choose for myself
Their opinion means everything. I cannot date someone who my family thinks is wrong for me
Their opinion doesn’t matter at all. I’ll date who I want no matter how they feel.
I’ll try to prove their opinion wrong by continuing to date the person and allowing my family more of a chance to get to know them
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1 mo

My boyfriend has slept with hundreds and it's bothering me. How can I get over it?

I've known my boyfriend for years and was aware of his past, but I'm struggling with finding out about all the people he's slept with, especially those I know personally. I recently moved to be with him, sacrificing a...
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When and how should I confess my feelings for her?

Hello! My best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. They had been together for three years. I met her about two years ago and in the difficult last months of their relationship, I have realised I actually have...
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1 mo

Boyfriend said he’s “not feeling it” but he also said he still loves me?

He’s barely trying. I asked and he said he’s “not feeling us”, which was totally sudden, we were fine a month ago. He said he still loved me
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I feel like a mother to my boyfriend. What should I do?

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2.5 years, and while things were great at first, the past nine months have been difficult. I've started to feel more like his mother than his girlfriend, constantly cleaning up...
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1 mo

What are the best places to travel?

What is the best place in the world that you have travelled so far? Tell me your experiences😎
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When I go offline then he goes offline. why?

i have noticed this a couple of times on FB.. he would go offline after i go offline because when i login again i cannot see him online.. there is also this time (last seen) facility to view. It is like we both play hide...
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A girl unfollowed on ig me but liked my old post?

A while ago I (M26) was talking to a girl (F23) on a dating app I thought she was cute but I wasn't interested in anything serious at the time and she was looking for a relationship. It was clear we were not aligned in...
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Who owns America? Is it the government? The politicians? The corporations? The American people?

“The politicians are put there to give you the idea that you have freedom of choice. You don’t. You have no choice. You have owners [The oligarchy]. They own you. They own everything. They own all the important land. They...
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My girlfriend is always stressed and making my life miserable. What should I do?

I’m living with my girlfriend, and we’ve been together for two years. Lately, I feel lost and unloved because she’s constantly stressed, and I can’t handle her attitude anymore. I can’t ask a simple question, make a joke,...
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My wife just bought a dog while I was away, despite me repeatedly telling her not to. How should I react?

Erica, my daughter, has been begging for a Labrador for two years, calling it her "dream." However, we can't afford it, with 90% of our income going to bills, food, and the mortgage. My wife, a teacher, insists Erica...
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Just texted my crush happy birthday and he replied, how do I continue the convo?

So I like this guy at uni and we’re basically friends and I have him on socials. It’s his birthday today and I wished him happy birthday saying: ”Omg happy birthdayy!! Hope you have the best day💕💕” and he replied:...
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What to write in birthday card for boyfriend's mom?

I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and tomorrow we're going out to dinner with his mom for her birthday. I'm not sure what to write in the card—should I thank her for welcoming me into the family or mention...
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Glutes not growing?

I train my glutes every Monday and Friday and my reta days are wensday and Sunday. I eat about 190 g of protein each day and I would say about 2000 calories. I mange to eat a lot of carbs also and fruit. I lift heavy I do...
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What are some enjoyable activities couples can do at home?

We love quality time together. But we're getting really tired of "quality time" involving a screen. What are some ideas you guys have for activities we can do in the evenings together without video games or movies?
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My girlfriend hasn’t talked to me in 4 days. Should I be concerned?

My girlfriend suddenly stopped talking to me, saying she needs space despite me not doing anything wrong. It's been 4 days with no communication. Should I be concerned about our relationship? How long should I wait before...
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What could be his intentions?

I dated an ex for about 3 years & we broke up 3 years ago, this was due to my lack of self awareness and personal issues that I would project onto him, & I also wasn’t very affectionate towards him as he wanted me to be....
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2 mo

My boyfriend says I am not his type, should I leave him?

I've been dating my boyfriend for seven months. He's sweet, caring, and funny, but he often mentions that my looks aren't his type, even calling me "cute" seemingly out of pressure. He prefers fair-skinned, oriental...
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Wife never give me compliments. How bad is this in a relationship?

My wife rarely says anything good about me. If we argue and I push her, she'll reluctantly say I'm a good husband, but generally, she makes jokes at my expense and never compliments me. We've had a dead bedroom for years,...
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I regret buying a house with my boyfriend. What should I do now?

I'm on the fence about my boyfriend after we bought a house together. I did most of the work to secure the mortgage, paid 90% of the down payment and closing costs, and handle the renovations, including dealing with mold,...
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My boyfriend started wearing makeup. Why is he doing this?

he started wearing some foundation, and then began wearing lip gloss, mascara, and painting his nails too... why is he doing this?
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I love my boyfriend, but I have a crush on someone else. Any advice?

I can't sleep because I have too much on my mind. It pains me to write this, but I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, and he's been my best friend since we met. We talk about getting married and being...
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2 mo

Do you have any original date ideas for someone on crutches?

I recently started dating a girl and things are going great. We had planned to go hiking this weekend, but I injured my knee playing basketball and will probably be on crutches for a while. While we can still go for...
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2 mo

When it’s come to age gap, how much is too much?

What is your opinions about age gap relationships? What is the acceptable age gap for you?
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I love my boyfriend like family. Is that good or bad?

Last night my boyfriend said a harmless joke about my family (who adore him) and it kind of made me pause because my family is his family at this point. We became close and recently moved in together and he just seemed so...
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2 mo

Why does my boyfriend do this?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months; on the sixth month we both decided to take it a step further, and became a couple. We go to the Movies, The Winery, salsa dancing, The Museum etc. We share our dreams,...
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I want to talk or make a move on my crush but I don't know how to?

Ok so I was scrolling through Instagram randomly stalking someone's following and I saw this very attractive guy. I followed him the very day and we became mutuals. I tried to dig in some information about him and I got...
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My friend thinks I like him how do I tell him I don't?

I said I liked his haircut and that it looked cute. he said "aww do you have a little crush on me"... then I said sarcastically "no I have a huge crush on you"... then he had a smile on his face and told me he thinks I'm...
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What's the reason that arguments in relationships or marriages turn into insults and yelling matches?

I can understand there will be some differences in opinions but why would it then lead to insults and yelling matches? That has to be totally disrespectful by then. Whats the reason for arguments to get that bad?...
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Is mole sauce just indian curry with added chocolate?

Yes, I know there's umpteen variations of both. But if you look at the ingredients, they're basically the same, aren't they? All you do is chuck in a bit of chocolate into a curry and call it a mole. Now I admit I'm not a...
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My wife doesn’t respect me. How can I communicate that her behavior is exhausting me?

We’ve been together for 8 years and married for 5. I love my wife deeply but her lack of respect for me is leading to my depression. I work hard to provide for our family, yet she doesn't appreciate my job's demands and...
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If you had to compare relationship status to a company/job position, what would it be like?

I'm comparing relationship status to a company or job positions. What do you think would be the equivalent in a company or job? This is how I think it would be like: For instance an acquaintance or platonic friend might...
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