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We broke up with my girlfriend a couple of months ago. But everything reminds me of her. How to handle this?
Have you ever experienced this? We have so many memories and so much in common and everything reminds me of her. Please help me!
Girls, What would you say to someone who's afraid to fall in love?
This is something that's been plaguing me for years now and I finally found a way to put my fear into words. "Why are you scared to fall in love?" "Because I don't know what's real anymore. You may say you love me but do...
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What type of relationship would you prefer?
I'm okay with either but out of the two guys I've liked in recent years, one does not earn enough for two people and the other might dump me or reject me or we might divorce, so I try to have a job so I have a back up plan if there is no man to pay my bills.
Is sex for women’s pleasure too?
Of course it is. But you need to be realistic about the fact that nearly all women today are pursuing the top 10% of men - exclusively - and many only pursue the top 5% or even 1%. Ironically, this means those same men have unlimited choices for women, which in turn means that they see 99.999%...
What are signs or red flags early on that a...
Controls your social circle Controls your diet/fitness Monitors your phone bill/credit card bill Keeps you away from family/friends and keeps you all to himself What he says is what goes doesn’t keep his promises He gets jealous of other guys but he’s okay to talk to other women coz they’re just...
What to say when a guy asks, "What do you want...
Just tell him nothing specifically. That you think it is funny that he is being so honest, that relationships take hard work and he is openly just say he is not into the work... that funny. Like who says that to woman, friends or not freinds, it just not something you say. You only say that once...
What is your way to say I love you without...
Roasting and teasing my girlfriend about everything, expecting the same in return. I only tease the ones I like and only Roast my loved ones.
How do I get be things back from my EX?
My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago, he stated he would return my things. I asked a week ago, and he said he would “tomorrow” 7 days later, I have yet to hear anything. How long should I wait to ask again?
Should I date a man who can't hold a conversation?
What to do if a man can't hold an interesting conversation and is just interested in kissing you or touching you.
Should I go out alone with my friend’s friend?
My friend has been ignoring me recently, she often does this as she says she’s disassociating from reality. But one of her close friends reached out to me and would like to hang out. Not like a date but just to meet and...
Follow-up text - No response?
Hello! I had my first date with a girl yesterday. Everything went smooth and actually pretty good, in my opinion. Chat went smooth, no awkward silence. Laughed a lot together. Saw her stare (in the periphery) at me when...
Isn’t this odd?
even though it might of been an accident i think it’s weird. anyway i called a random realtor just to see learn about getting a house in the future since i’m in my early 20s. We talked for a bit about houses and after the...
Its my first time meeting him, what are some tips to be not awkward?
So I’ve only been talking to this guy for a week and we’re going out. It’s not a romantic date just a regular friend thing. I hope he doesn’t make a move cause I don’t see him in that way lol. He’s also mutual friends...
Is this a red flag or sign of control early on?
Basically I’ve been with my new boyfriend for almost a week now. We hit it off instantly from our first date to the second we started talking. He’s very kindhearted, open, funny, respectful, affectionate, and honest. He...
If a girl asked me for my number and I gave it to her , what does it mean?And when is she going to call?
I was walking past a beautiful girl...Giving her this mysterious look.When I went to my car in the parking lot, Her friend came up to me and ask me if I could give her(the girl a shared a glance with)...I said okay, and...
What to say when a guy asks, "What do you want from me?" HELP!
So I have this guy friend who I like and its obvious he likes me but we never hang out, he's invited me over to "have a beer with the guys" a few times but I haven't been able to..and would feel kinda weird just showing...
Why is he avoiding me?
my situationship from 3 years ago randomly texted me a week ago and swiftly approached me with the offer of a friendship. he exclaimed that he missed me & blah blah blah. i ended up giving him my new number because i...
Girl wants to hang out with me but has a boyfriend?
I met this girl from work and we have hit it off pretty well. She asked me to hang out with her. We ended up going to an italian restaurant together. Just the two of us. There was some slight flirtation going on such as...
Why are men so hurtful?
So I broke up with my first boyfriend last year and I recently started saying someone else. My first boyfriend was my first in literally everything but however he started getting a bit controlling and emotional abusive....
I think the guy I like is backing away from me, am I reading into things?
As the title says, there's a guy I've seen in passing for a few months now. He's a regular bus driver I see to/from work, and I think we've made it clear to one another there's an attraction there. He does shifts and I'm...
I met up with my ex girlfriend yesterday. She was crying for an hour and she is clearly not over me but still doesn't want to get back together?
long story short we were dating for almost two years and we were madly in love. She made plans for the future even though we are really young. The last two months of our relationship were a bit rough but still we loved...
Does it mean anything when a guy gives you something of his?
I was teasing the guy I have a massive thing for about him having taken it my bracelet, because it was the same exact one as his and mine went missing mysteriously at my house one day. (This one was most definitely his,...
What does it mean if a guy compliments your personality?
What does it mean if a guy compliments your personality? This guy I know used to compliments my looks but now only compliments my personality. Is that a bad thing? Does it mean he likes me more or less?
He says we can't be friends. Why?
He says he's over me but we can't be friends. However, he still would like texts and to catch up. He did mention that seeing me would be difficult and so would communication. Just hearing my voice brings 'it all back.'...
Do you think it was a bad idea talking to her again?
So out of nowhere, I apologized to this girl who used to like me and spent time with me on Snapchat. I haven’t talked to her in years, and just one night, I thought it would make things better to at least one person who I...
Girls, How do I deal with being separated from my girlfriend while she is in the mental hospital and what to do for her when she comes home?
My girlfriend has been dealing with anxiety for years and it has caused bad depression and she claims the only reason she is still hasn't committed was because of me. She got mad at her dad and she threatened to cut her...
(Rant) I feel like sometimes my boyfriend is not serious about me?
Sometimes i feel like my boyfriend’s not serious about me… He’s never once posted about us on any of his social media accounts, and his parents also doesn’t know about me (or that he has a girlfriend). Also, he once...
Why he block me after we broke up but still has my location?
Me and my boyfriend broke up today. Because he don’t feel like we don’t have a connection anymore. I told him I’m not gonna force him to like me and I told him to delete my number. Before he said it he deleted my letter...
I'm moving in with my man. His best friend went through a breakup and wants to move in too. Am I selfish for not wanting a third person in the mix?
The friend says it'll be temporary but I know it won't bc it's not out of necessity but due to him not wanting to be alone. I don't feel it's a wise decision to allow a third party into our living space. This is a big...
Does my boyfriend really love me? Is it normal what he’s doing?
Hey, I’m wondering about one thing. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a 6 months now and I don’t really feel loved. He never wears Led Zeppelin T-Shirt I bought him and never posts me on his IG etc. I just feel like he’s...
Should you give another chance to a remorseful ex who cheated on you?
My ex is autistic and was very controlling when we were in a relationship. He would prevent me from being in touch with my guy friends and force me to speak more to my female friends instead. Since he had autism and a...
Is this guy at work who is married interested in me or just being friendly bc overall he is quite a friendly guy to everyone?
He always usually says good morning and goodbye to me, he often times sits with me and my friend on breaks he likes to chat with me a good bit almost every day, whenever I got a problem I have to call him so he came up to...
Why does my stomach feel empty even though I ate?
I sometimes feel like my stomach is empty even though I ate too much... Do you think I have a digestive problem or sth?
Should I tell the girl about my feelings the girl I like?
Hello, I am in a very interesting situation. We are in Italy as a group of teachers of 7. In a way they seemed no to like me at all. I felt the coldness and stayed away from the group. The issue that bothers me most is...
Why does he stare straight ahead when he is saying hi to me?
The few times we have made eye contact he always looks terrified and looks away as fast as possible. I figured he was afraid of me and kept some distance. But whenever we have run into each other he always stops, either...
My girlfriend doesn't have many friends so she always wants to go out with me, do you think it's normal for me to get bored?
Sometimes I feel like I get bored when we when we do everything together... But when I tell her that, she is offended. What do you think I should do?
Are these red flags from a girl?
I matched with this girl on bumble. I’m 29 and she's 21. When I first matched with her she chatted me and I responded. I didn’t answer then she double texted me “hello?” From there I got her number. I just matched her on...
Should I just cut off my “friend” without any explanation?
I’ve come on here and posted many questions about this friend of mine. I’ve used all the great advice but unfortunately she is extremely stubborn and doesn’t see her wrongdoings. She’s extremely disrespectful towards my...
How to know a woman likes/loves me but its not because I paid for everything?
By Splitting the bill and see if she still goes out with me? Its basically my way to screen out the type of women, that "like/love" me mainly because i paid for everything.
How do you start being healthier?
I live with my boyfriend and his family. My boyfriend works a mixture of shifts, but his shifts are mainly during the night. On the weekends, he can come home anywhere from 1am to 3am and be back on at 11am, depending...
Should I tell the girl I'm talking to I'm going to study abroad?
I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I really like her and she really likes me, I'm planning on asking her to be her boyfriend soon. The thing is I'm going to study abroad in 2 months and won't be back till...
My guy rejects physical touch. Why is he behaving this way?
recently just patch back with my ex and the strange thing is this time round he doesn't want to have any physical touch with me. Not even holding of hands or even if i ask for a hug, he just cheekily disturb me and ignore...
Not getting any matches?
So it's been about six months that I've been back on the dating apps and I've been getting almost zero matches. I'm a male in his 30s and I've never had trouble like this before. I've had ebbs and flows of matches but...
He asked me on a date but I said no, but now I wanna know him better what should I do? help?
so I saw this guy on Instagram and wanted to get to know him, and suddenly he showed interest and we started talking. he asked me on a date on the first day of our chats and I felt flustered and indirectly declined him....
When he says he wants to be just 'friends' but sending mixed signals?
Obviously, he likes me. But the question is, I don't understand why these things happen to people like me. Guys say they want to be friends, they are interested in me, they want to propose to me, buuuut they go on and...
Does he like me or he know that I like him?
There is one guy in our gym and he is kind of my trainer as well. First of all, he acts a bit awkward around me. I do not know how to explain that. As soon as I got into the room he stop talking with his friends. He talks...
Is it normal in a healthy relationship for girls to be able to have guy friends and guys to be able to have girl friends? ?
my husband does not trust me whatsoever and says that I give him a reason not to trust me because I have asked other guys "to spend one on one time with them" when in reality i asked someone about possibly using their...
Neighbors boyfriend left her in the house?
My neighbor is worried her man is not coming home and I don't know what to tell her. Is it possible he has abandoned her? He left his work truck. Also there apartment does not have much in it, so it's possible he could...
What does it mean that he reacted this way?
My boyfriend of four years loves to grab my belly and squeeze it no matter what. We been bike riding lately which is super fun and I told him I needed to borrow a shirt he said “ do you fit a large?” I said “yes because...
My husband had an emotional affair with a woman but he still stalks her social media?
He left the job where she was because he had an urgent exam to give for his higher studies and wasn't able to focus on his studies due to his hectic schedule at work. They didn't have sex I know that but there were late...
In love, a psychopath or a player?
I'm getting to know a guy I exchanged contact with on holiday. He said at the beginning that his intention is to get to know each other well, and that he really wants to be with me. I told him I don't want to rush into...
Boyfriend said his ex is better looking?
My boyfriend and I were playing truth or dare drunk. We were asking various questions and one question he happened to ask was who was bigger. I only ever had 2 s*x partners, where as he had many. I told him the truth and...
Why is her action different from her words?
I asked her to be my girlfriend she said she would think about it, after two weeks she said no, but she still called me and video calls me. a month later I went to see her at home and she became so cold towards me which...
Is it normal to keep in contact with your exs?
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and 3 months now. He recently told me that he keeps in contact with his ex. He says that she will text or call him 3-4 times a year to check on him. He told me a few things...
Is it okay to date an ex situationships friend?
I don’t even know how to explain this, but I went on a few dates with a co worker (we’ll name him Dave) couple of months ago… we didn’t even get physical, the most was literally peck on the lips after our last date. But...
Was it a joke or did he not want the other guy to approach me?
So one day a guy A came ask me what subject I wanted to take for next period, then a guy I have a crush on interrupted our talk, he said to the other guy that I had a “friend” already, I replied to him “you’re crazy”, but...
I think my guy friend likes me but he is hot and cold with me?
Me and my friends met through another mutual friend, they are all from the same hometown and i kinda went along with them (we have been hanging out for almost 2 years). Since last year i had a small feeling that one of...
Why does he address me that way?
Ok, so there's this guy, we've been talking a lot lately but haven't met each other still planning to, but he started calling me chipmunk all of a sudden and says it's cute when I asked why he'll be addressing me as a...
Why does my ex boyfriends mum continue to check in on me? Does it mean there’s a chance we could get back together?
My ex and I broke up 5 months ago. I miss him a lot and still hope we rekindle at some point. He broke up with me after almost three years together, it’s a complex story around the breakup but we ended on mostly good...
What does it mean when a guy observes you?
On a snack and drink party I saw a guy observing me all the time. When I got me something to drink or to eat and turned around I saw him looking at me all the time while he sit there at the table with the others. I really...
If a girl touches your belly while talking, is she interested?
there is a girl at work and all of us went to the club for a party, and she told me to come with her. She took me outside where it was less crowded and we were talking about something serious that happened to a coworker....
Does he really want to see me again?
hi guys. i need your advices. i'm 27 and he's 39. we met once last June last year in monaco. He lives in Dubai. When we first met, we kissed. I never text him first, sometimes he texts me asking how I'm doing and I reply,...
Why does my coworker Talk to anyone but me?
My coworker is a very friendy Person who always likes to have a Chat with female coworkers (Even the unattraktive older ones) but Not with me. When he approaches me He only Talks at me about work and Looks like He wants...
My boyfriend wants me to get into sports, but I'm conflicted?
Including the drive to and from work, I'm gone for 13 hours. I'm also a full-time college student and am currently behind on work because we just moved in together, and we are still unpacking. I'm relatively in and out of...
If my ex still loves me or if she ever did love me?
Met this girl at work a year ago. We started working together everyday. During the work day we had an amazing time but after work I was blocked. Judging from her difficult past I new it would be hard to show her that I...
Did she lose interest within a month?
I have a crush on a girl at work, i think she may have liked me abit too?, we have had some good interactions but never a real chat, more like eye contact and smiles etc and i thought she was interested. There was a full...
The guy I’m dating is being distant - What do I do?
I’ve been seeing this guy for 6 months and the past 3 days he’s been very off with me. He won’t call me back, it’s not like he won’t text me though. I’ll ask him what’s going on and he says nothing and that he loves me...
Can I assume the guy is not even interested in me at all?
I had meet up this guy a few times and I like him, we are comfortable with each other during date. However, I feel that he is distancing away from me. Before we meet up, he used to reply instantly. But now our text daily...
How do I tell my boyfriend over text or in person that he makes me feel safe and I feel at ease and happy when I’m with him?
I don’t mean to sound cheesy, but I am also not good with putting my feelings and thoughts into words. In former relationships I’ve been abused and cheated on and I always felt unsafe, vulnerable, like something bad is...
Girls, Long distance put an end to our fling, but now she keeps reaching out in a weird way?
So I had the best time with a girl for a while, but we moved to different cities. What clues me is that she is the one really reaching out, but also the dry texter / not giving out too much information (I get the feeling...
Am I forgiving too easily and too quickly?
I have been in a loving respectful relationship for 2 years now. We have great communication, barely argue, busy personal lives, nice projects together. Overall it's a great strong relationship to have in my early-mid...
Girl who said she likes me, chose to get casual with my friend after I asked her out on a date and she left me hanging, now she wants me, should I go?
*Summary given at the end * I liked a girl and she liked me too. All our friend circle knew as well. Both of us were aware of it as well through the friend circle. After 3 months of a bit of cuddling lots of hugging and...
Why do I feel jealous when my girlfriend hangs out with her friends?
Its not a matter of trust here. I trust her blindly. But everytime she tells me she will go out with her friends I get jealous. Why?
Why would a guy start following random girls on instagram after a break up?
Why would a guy start following random girls on instagram few days after a break up? And liking their photos? Does that mean he's moved on? he's over his ex? How could a guy move on that fast? Does this mean he...
What does it mean if she talks about other guys to me?
What does it mean if a girl talks to me about other guys she hangs out with, and may or may not like? Ok picture this scenario: she'll be curled up to me on the bed, twirling my hair, talking about what we've done the...
I can't tell if he's ignoring me because he likes me or doesn't like me.
I started a new part time job about 3 months ago. I like a guy that is in charge of the cashiers. I had a feeling from the first time I saw him that some feelings would develop for him. I tried to fight it but I have...
Why did my crush's friends call me his girlfriend?
Whenever I am around my crush and his friends, they always tend to tease him around me. My crush told his friends he thinks he likes me, but he keeps giving me mixed signals as if he's testing the waters. His friend used...
Guys, Why do guys enjoy lifting their girlfriends up?
So, my boyfriend is a 6ft1, 197lb, large framed guy who's 25 years old. He plays hockey, and also worksout, he's all muscle. I'm 5ft 1, 24 years old, at 105lbs. Very tiny built, and petite. WHY is it that...
My ex boyfriend just liked my instagram pictures during no contact?
This guy ( 24 m) and I (22 f) were together for 5 months and he broke up with me 3 weeks ago. Everything was perfect and he was the one who always talked about our future together, even marrige. We had the best chemistry...
Why would my husband have the need/desire to look at other naked women on the computer?
I don't mean to sound silly but I am a HOT 30yo woman. I do anything and everything in the bedroom for him, keep him totally sexually satisfied, and we have fun doing it. Our sex life has always been awesome. I am a...
My step child is driving me crazy what should I do?
Well, i never expected to become a step-parent. When I met my partner, I fell in love with him and his child came as a package deal. At first, everything seemed fine. My stepchild was cute and well-behaved. But, as time...
Girls, why doesn’t my girlfriend ever initiate physical contact?
We’re in middle school and we’ve been together for about a year and a half. Without me saying anything one time she said “I have to be really close to a person to physically touch.” I could understand what she meant. Fast...
When a guy take so long to reply my text shows that he isn’t interested in me? Before our meetup, he used to reply very fast. Should I move on?
I have known this guy from dating app, met him up several times and both of us had a good time talking. But he won’t initiate to text me and would took long to reply back. We still remain as friend until now. He said he...
The other day he said he loves me now I'm on DND?
We've known each other for about two years. He says he loves me but for some reason he put me on DND. He recently broke up with his girlfriend for me but he also has a new baby and a bm. My friends don't know him at all...
Girls, I miss her so much but she says that I'm immature yet she still keeps in contact?
A week ago my girlfriend now ex broke up with me amicably but she still keeps in contact and has met up with me a few times, when asked why she broke up with me she says that she is not a good person or I'm just a boy...
What should I do?
My husband told me I'm a wife, I have to listen to him alone so we can live together. It means I have to obey, listen, and obey him only to make him satisfied. Do I really have to do that? I'm Thai, my husband is Russian.
What should a man invest in relationships and what should a woman invest in relationships?
Just list them.
Why my Ex ignored me when I asked back for my belongings?
I met my ex 2 weeks after our breakup, honestly I wanted him back but he was clear that he's done with me (he said he's not sure about how he feels after breaking his heart) he suggested to stay friends I didn't refuse I...
Should I be concerned if my boyfriend asks another girl for her contact?
My boyfriend has a Facebook friend who is a girl, they don't chat a lot. They just text each other good night and good morning. Today I was going through his Facebook and I found their chats. My boyfriend was asking her...
Should I block this guy?
So me and this guy work at the same place and we were seeing each other outside of work for about a month or two. However he’s about to leave soon and move to another state and we decided to be friends. But after that he...
Did I get rejected cause I wasn’t enough or cause she just got out of a relationship?
There is a girl I’ve been “friends” with but I met her when she was on on off with her last boyfriend of a couple of years. They had a lot of issues and she seemed to be depressed about life up to this day. She was flirty...
Confusing relationship with my boyfriend, what should I do?
This is weird to say, but I’m f16 confused and kinda discontent with my relationship with my boyfriend m16. The first time we met we hit it off, we were talking and texting within a month. By the next month it was full...
How can I stop being insecure and appreciate myself?
I am a very insecure person, I don't want to be and I don't think anyone would. Every single day I worry about how I look. I can't even enjoy myself around friends because the only thing I worry about is how they...
How to get over a guy who doesn’t want me back?
I went out on a date with a guy from my uni last Saturday. We both knew we found the other attractive so he took initiative after a week of meeting to ask me out. We went out and I thought the date went well. It wasn’t...
Do guys break up because they are scared?
I sometimes think that the reason men end relationships is simply because they are afraid. Anyone agree with me? Do guys break up because they are scared?
Girlfriend didn't come home last night. Thoughts?
Hey guys, so I've been dating this amazing girl for a year and two months now. We moved in together about three months ago. Since we started dating. My girlfriend has complained about my wandering eyes on multiple...
He unblocked me...What does this mean?
my ex unblocked me on msn ...what does this mean? we haven't had any contact for over a month (he has me blocked on Facebook and msn) until yesterday when I texted him to ask if it would be okay if I could attend a mutual...
