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Why did I get ghosted after what seemed like a great date?
I went on a date last night with a guy. We were texting for a few weeks before the date. We seemed to get on really well over text and his replies were quite frequent. He told me that I looked like a model and that I was...
How can I get her back when she comes back from her parent’s house in 3 days to collect her things? Can I make her stay, said she never felt spark?
So I love her so much that I can't describe. I saw her 1st time and it wasn't my intention to fall for her. But i did. 3 months in i told her i liked her and she told me she did too. The next month she leaves for her...
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I deleted my exs photos from my social media...
I can't tell you how to feel. No one can. It'll suck for awhile, but it WILL get better. I have plenty of memories with exes that I actually look back on fondly, not because of my ex but because of the experience itself.
How come singers make so much money?
Most of them don't- you can be a perfectly average businessman, and still make tons of money, but many excellent musicians will go their whole working lives quite poor.As to those who do... it's quite simple: they promote the notion of limiting things to experts. Ever been around someone who...
Which is more flirtatious? A quick wink or a...
Neither one LOL I'm sitting here laughing why not just a smile and a hello what's with the wink why not two winks or three then a big shiteatting grin.
What does it mean when soemone change their...
I often change my profile photos, as a way to show how I feel. When I was truly happy though, I was never changing profile photos.
Who is the one who features questions on this...
Admins are the ones who pick the featured questions... but the likes from Influencers and mods give you some extra points for it... as well as the likes from everyone else on this site
Guys, How do you act around your gym crush?
i have a crush on a guy in the gym, we rarely talked and it was just the usual stuff like "do you need this" or "are you finished"... i caught him starring a few times when we workout at the same time but he never smiles....
I left him because I feel like he took me for granted, did I do the right thing?
I met a guy on a dating app and we added each other on Snapchat. he's 3 years older than me. We didn’t really talk at first until he continuously slid up on my story so one day we had a conversation and he asked me out on...
Why did he want to zoom call (please see details)?
I know a guy through common friends ( we live in different countries but met in person once where we went on sort of a coffee date). We have a bit of history where we started talking because I reached out to him for help...
Are we in a talking stage or just being friends?
I chatted with a guy everyday almost a month. And we also called like almost every day lately. He always send me good morning text, tell me his days and good night text. However, when we talked, he didn’t seem to ask any...
Is responding “okay I understand” to a really long paragraph text rude? I know if I play along it will only escalate bcs he just wants to argue?
So my bf’s been in a bad mood for a while now, he gets pissed at the little things that I do. I’ve been giving him space and distancing myself from him, I don’t bother him anymore other than just to have a quick chat...
Any suggestions or opinions on what I should do next? Will he come back?
So i was dating this guy for a few weeks everything was going great. As soon we met we clicked and always had a good time. Like two weeks ago we went on a date. He asked me if I wanted him to drive my car. i know it was...
He said I have cute little face and kissed me. What does it mean?
I started to see this guy And it was a first kiss So we were talking while waiting food And he tried to read smth i already read vefore him so i repeated him And he just stood there staring at me and said " your cute...
How do I fully heal from my heart bring broken like this?
I was scrolling on Facebook and I came across a viral video with 25 thousand likes. The video was about a man who had married this woman with 4 kids who had been through so much with abusive exes and the comments were...
How can you tell if someone may be in bad relationship and not know it yet?
Such as if someone has a girlfriend they married super fast. She seems like a nice person. He tells you how she’s his soulmate and all this stuff. But you just have a feeling maybe things aren’t what they seem to be.
Should I tell a girl in my friend circle that the guy she is currently dating tried to force himself on me in 2021?
She's not actually my friend but she's in my circle so we know each other well and get along socially. She recently started dating this guy who tried to force himself on me during end of second lockdown in 2021. I didn't...
What does his body language mean?
I was pulled into the group conversation that included the guy I’m interested in. One of my coworkers jokingly states that I made a mistake and tried to put the blame on me. I didn’t stay quiet and spoke up, making him...
I’m worried that after a great first date that this guy is ghosting me. Would guys go through the trouble of doing that?
I met this guy on a dating app, and he has been great to talk to. Then, he wanted to go on a date, so I agreed. It was really enjoyable, and he was such the ideal gentleman paying for food and holding doors open. We had...
Guys, After ignoring me for 3 years. Now he’s talking he asks me intimate topics. Im uncomfortable but I want him to be interested in marriage?
We were in medical college together. I liked him. He knew. But he said his family won't agree due to religious differences. So we weren’t in a relationship. Now we both have done USMLE. And he’s talking to me like very...
He wants to meet up for drinks. Does this guy just want to sleep with me?
I started talking to this guy on a dating site. The conversation flowed quite well and then he added me on Instagram. He told me that he thought I looked like a model in my pictures and that I was very photogenic. He...
Should I have given him my Instagram even though I don't use it?
A guy I met asked me for my Instagram the other week. No guy has ever asked me for my Instagram and so I never felt the need to use Instagram. While I do have a stalking account with 0 followers and a random username, I...
Why does he tell everyone I’m his girlfriend in front of me except me?
He likes to show me off in both of his jobs. The other day he told one of his bosses that he couldn’t go to work because he was w/ his girlfriend. (Not as an excuse because he works a lot and he was willing to go) He...
I blamed my crush because she used me. Now she is crying?
I told my girl crush that she used me to brake up with her Ex boyfriend to be with a another guy. She know that I loved her. But she had mixed feeling for me. Now she is talking and flirting with other guy and ignored me....
This have never happened to me before, any suggestions?
So long story short, i was a pretty close friend with a girl for 3 years, she's being really kind and care about the stuffs in my life, she's not the party girl type as well so really good in my opinion. We’re in the same...
Why did he get offended that I didn’t let him open the door for me?
I was walking in the gym the other day. There’s two doors to it both open outward. As I was walking in I saw a guy coming out he saw me too, he picked up his pace a little to meet me at the door. It seems he was opening...
Is there anyone with experience and good emotional intelligence who can help me?
I am a social person, I've had a few relationship experiences so far, but i was not happy. Because they didn't suit my character. A few months ago, I met a man completely by chance, we had a short chat (actually my...
Why is my girlfriend behaving so odd?
So I will be brief, me and my girlfriend had an conflict and for 4 days we took an break from each other but it seems like when I returned she is like "I changed a lot" and she became so dry and the conflict wasn't so big...
When a guy talks to you like this does it mean that he doesn’t love you anymore?
I was upset because we had a chance to sleep over (since my parents are gone.) which we never do due to our strict parents and he doesn’t want to take it he wants to spend Thanksgiving with his family. I just feel bad. He...
Is it wrong if I let my 11 y old daughter take baths with her 7 year old brothers?
My daughter has been wanting to do this for quite a while but I am not sure if this would be appropriate?
My girlfriend is alone for holidays and I don't want her to feel lonely. Looking for ideas?
I am visiting my family in a different country for a few months and my girlfriend will be alone during that time. The time difference between the two of us is big enough that we don't get a lot of time to communicate over...
Guys, Why is he constantly first to view my stories but hasn’t messaged me?
I sent him yesterday a link. He opened my message almost right away and liked my message. Why would view my stories within minutes but at one point he left me on delivered for 5 days? backstory: I was texting back and...
Friend-zoned or just wants to take it slow?
So this past summer I worked with this guy who also goes to school with me. We were flirty and he would make repeated efforts to try and talk to me (when I wouldn't respond to texts he'd message me on Teams, Snapchat,...
How do I make his first time special?
My closest male friend wants to lose his virginity to me and to later marry me. I like him too. He’s supported me through every hardship I’ve faced and outlasted other guys in terms of caring about me. I feel that we...
What is wrong with this guy?
I met this guy back in 2019 through mutual friends that I have known since highschool. We hooked up in the past and fast forward to today, he still hits me up. He will randomly block me, unblock me, block again. He also...
Is he flirting or not?
One of My guy coworkers and i rarely work together. Since I’ve been with the company we’ve worked together once and we barely talked i gave him a little info about myself and we haven’t worked together since. Last night...
Boyfriend wants to breakup with me because of lack of sex. Thoughts?
He expects me to do it at least everyday or every other day and he tells me it’s the way that he can show that he loves me (im his first). But sex for me is just sex (done it many times before him). And I just don’t want...
Why would a guy tell my best friend that he deeply regrets dumping me?
So I dated this guy, it was a perfect match really. The feelings were mutual on both sides & then one day he decided to dump me, because he met someone else. I moved on & accepted the situation. Some time he started...
Why is she ignoring me?
I am a university student and I have a girl in the same class with me. I started exchanging looks with her and she noticed that. every time she looks at me, I quickly look away because I am shy and I cannot talk to girls....
Is he playing me? What's going on with him?
So there's this guy with whom I had been talking the past three months. We met at work and while I immediately took an instant dislike of him, he managed to weasel his way in my good graces! At first we were talking only...
Girls, What if I love my girlfriend, but not how I loved my ex?
Earlier this year, I was dating a wonderful woman. From the moment we first kissed, I "knew" that she was the one. Over the next few months, we never argued and had an intense physical relationship, but were also great...
Why do girls stop replying out of nowhere?
I have been texting this girl for almost 3 weeks. We have been on one date, and she cancelled the other two times. The first time it was because of her health, and the next time it was because she was having a rough week....
Is it normal that I freak anytime my boyfriend tries to get intimate with me?
i’ve been dating my boyfriend for a bit now but anytime we’re making out and he tries putting his hand up my shirt trying to touch my waist and stomach or tries to take it off i freak out and get anxious that he’ll think...
Why would a girl hide she is "kinda seeing someone" and say yes to a date with me?
Asked girl out and she said yes. Two days later, she got weird and asked if I was serving that night (I'm a waiter and she works there as well). Never asked before. Said she was getting dinner that night. Didn't say with...
Why does he always use my name in conversation?
Whenever I see or talk to the guy I like he always uses my name, constantly. We've known each other for over a year now so when I first met him I thought he was just bad at names. But a year later and he still does it but...
Why he didn't apologize?
We are classmates. we had a minor argument in which he was clearly in the wrong. Others agreed, but I apologized to him because I didn't want any lingering resentment between us. I go to him and say sorry he look at me...
People often distance themselves from me as soon as they got to know me better. It's starting to bother me and I don't know what the cause is?
All my sister told me is that I'm just a weird person which doesn't help me either. I have social anxiety, I'm also introverted, I draw a line if something is bothering me but I'm nice to people. I know people on this...
I go barefoot a lot. Are there some long term risks?
I go barefoot at home and often outside. I love going barefoot but I'm afraid it will affect my health
Does he actually like talking to me until I sleep or is he just trying to get with me?
This summer I met a nice guy who doesn't pry too much but will let me talk about stuff and listens when I talk which is a big deal to me because I'm really quiet. We met at a big convention and hung out the whole time and...
If a guy keeps glancing at my lips in conversation and standing close to me is he trying to flirt and hint he’s into me?
Like I was explaining something and he was looking at my lips and back to my eyes and back to my lips and kept doing it that I was thinking is he even listening to me. Is this on purpose?
What's the best thing to text a female on a dating app?
I just do "hello"... if they say hello back then im probably in the top 10% of their matched. Then I say "want my ig?" Nobody says no
Is my friend with benefits saying he doesn't want to see me again?
I've been friends with benefits with a guy for a year he's busy working a lot now. So, we don't get to see each other as much as we used to. Sometimes we go months without seeing each other. I saw him yesterday and we...
Why he hold eye contact with me and don't look away until I do?
He used to do this for almost 2 and half years. He was an extrovert and confident boy, i can't able to understand his intension. He was studying with me since childhood after covid in class 9 he staring at me but i dont...
Ex contacted me a year later?
Ex called me out of the blue a year later... I was expected an apology, friendship, or another chance. When I picked up the first thing she said If I wanted to buy a Lamborghini from her. I thought it was a ice breaker...
Found texts on my boyfriends phone. What to do?
I just found texts in my boyfriends phone, it was in the past he said these things about me but they are still insults that don't sit right with me. It was when we first got together. He said to this girl that I was...
Am I over thinking this situation or should I report this guy?
So a new a guy from work started a few days ago and he’s moved to the uk recently from Africa. He seemed nice at work but lately I’m starting to feel uncomfortable as he asked me to give me numbers for rooms in the city...
Im buddhist and my boyfriend is a muslim. Can anyone give me some advice?
Me (buddhist) and my boyfriend (muslim) had been together for more than an year and the religion barrier has never come across as a problem. We are in a very healthy and mature relationship but I've been thinking about...
Why would a guy flirt (call you beautiful…wants to makeout) then backtrack and say he got carried away and wants to be friends?
He did what I said he did in the question. I said I was interested he said he was in no rush but I had him wondering how to make it happen in the future. I said if it’s in the future we will figure it out later. Another...
A friend told me that he had a dream about us joking together. He said that “ You thought we were making out! That’s cute. What does this mean?
The dream was about us sitting on a bench on a park and we were chatting and having a good laugh.
My partner of 2 years was intimate with a work colleague 5 years ago. Their affair lasted 5 months. “Can those feelings be extinguished? ?
There is flirtatious banter (which I have seen first hand) & knowing my partner there would no doubt be sexual innuendo & admiring comments about her physical attractiveness & appearance. At the time of their physical...
Do these sound like red flags my husband is cheating?
We have been together for 12 years and have always had a great sex life still averaging at least once a week, usually more. Up until recently at least. He has recently stopped going down on me when he used to frequently...
How to explain to someone why I ghosted them and cut contact?
So I was chatting on the phone and online to a guy I went to school with years ago and he became more and more flirtatious and suggestive in his messages and then mentioned casually he is newly dating someone but it’s not...
My boyfriend said he wants to take things slow but acts like he is not interested in me. Can anyone explain to me what is going on?
I started seeing this guy two months ago, and it was clear that he had a crush on me. He's generally a very shy and introverted person, but he put a lot of effort into expressing his feelings for me by coming to see me,...
If someone says “I wanna be with you for a long time” what does it mean?
I know he's a nice guy, but the huge age difference makes me doubt. What does he mean by saying that? Is he being honest about his feelings for me?
Why would a guy not respond if he initiated an emotional talk on my birthday?
We have the same month for our birthdays. On my birthday, he sent me a very lengthy message telling me he cares, told me how much i mean to him. Also told me he wished he was there on my birthday singing me a song lol....
Guys, Guys: why is my guy friend suddenly ignoring me?
so i met this guy through work we started talking then stopped and month later started talking again but this time 24/7 he even added me to his ig close friends then took me on dinner and payed for it ‘because i barely...
I work with this guy and he and I hooked up a while back. Now, he has a girlfriend but I caught him staring at my boobs. What’s up?
I feel like I have done a good job at trying to be respectful and keep my distance. He has many times gotten a little too close and today while we were talking about something work related, he kept looking down at my...
Why do bullies play the victim and never admit to their actions?
I know this girl, who is a huge bully. She bullied my best friend by calling her names (about her physical appearance), talks about people behind their backs calling them “losers” and “weird”, and she slept with another...
How long of no communication counts as ghosting?
How many days is a lack of response something that counts as ghosting?
Was he messing with me?
Sometimes after I finish work, my stalker catches my bus. He always sits on a seat close by and today he was snickering after I glanced at him. Was he messing with me?
How do I get him to see me as more then a "mate" with benefits?
Long story short. We are friends with benefits but he said he sees me more as a mate then anything else. How do I get out of this "mate" zone and become more of someone he sees romantically. Will being more flirty help?...
Why would a guy you've known for years start acting different around you?
I have a friend that I've known for nearly 16 years. We've always been fairly close and able to talk about anything and everything. A handful of years ago I went to see him and he acted really different. Rubbed my thigh,...
Is it ok to text a guy I like who’s going through a tough time with jobs and tell him I’m thinking of him?
This guy I like, male friend , we were chatting last week for a few hours and he was telling me he was going through a tough time with work and looking for a new job etc and I want to just send him a text to say ‘hope...
If a guy compliments your looks is he attracted in you?
A guy I know quite well and flirts with me, teases me etc I sent him a photo of me on a night out as he asked me to. He then said wow you are looking really good with firework emoji , wink face and kiss face Is he...
How to deal with a shy girl?
I currently like a shy girl at work, but the progress has been fairly slow since we met in about February this year. We work in different departments so we rarely see eachother nor get a chance to talk. For a while all we...
My partner says that my parents didn't raise me with confidence?
I thought that was a little too personal but I don't know. Should I be offended or what should I say back to him?
I sent a message to a woman at my local takeaway shop on Facebook how much I like her but she didn’t reply back. What should I do?
Rather than telling her I like her in person I chose to do it on Facebook so it’s less pressure on her and not as awkward but I got no response. I was very polite and expressed my feelings to her but she didn’t respond...
If a guy jokingly compliments himself in text messages is this normal behaviour or does he want validation?
A guy I like we talk on the phone and text will often say something about himself like ‘oh you like that footballer , he’s as talented as me isn’t he?’ or he will send a funny meme and say ‘I’m funny aren’t I?’ Or a photo...
What should I do about this guy?
This guy seemed interested in me and has been sending me mixed signals. He is hot and cold and I am tired of it. We started out as friends and it seemed like he wanted to get to know the basics of me but after he stopped...
Is this a good sign?
I’ve been crushing on this guy that I work with and we’re kind of friends. I finally got the courage to ask is he wants to hang out & he said “lmao yea and we could prob get food after work sometime”. Is this a good...
What is your opinion on practicing cold plunges as part of your daily routine?
In case anyone reading this question doesn't know what cold plunges are it's basically the act of sitting in freezing ice cold water for 3-5 minutes at least everyday if possible. It has numerous health benefits and many...
Why does my crush get angry and irritated when someone mentions my name while talking?
I have crush on the guy and he rejected me. That was fine. We share a friend group. But he would get irritated when someone mentions my name to him as in ‘hey I’m texting her’. Then he keeps checking if they are still...
Why did my older male coworker acquaintance say “you’re doing that for me?” When he saw me applying lip balm?
It wasn’t a colored lip gloss or lipstick. It was regular lip balm
Is my gym crush interested?
There is this guy at my gym that I find super attractive but not sure if he’s flirting with me or being just friendly. I hurt me knee almost a year ago playing ice hockey so I would wear a brace but for several months I...
Guy didn’t text for a couple days but when I texted him he replied right away?
Guy I’ve been seeing had stopped replying for a couple days, I waited to text to avoid being clingy so early on. So a couple days later I started up a new convo and he replied within a couple mins. His replied were super...
Am I wasting time with a guy that's cynical about women even though I'm not like the women he complains about?
He treats me well, but he makes me feel unappreciated for how much less dramatic I am compared to other women. I never demand where he's going, I never demand why he's later coming home than usual, but he still likes to...
Is he flirting with me? Should I dm him?
Yesterday a guy again liked my story. I usually post on my story about current events. I’m not a selfie person so I haven’t posted a story. I. Do have selfies of me on my story highlights. Backstory: He came to view my...
What does this dream mean?
In my dream, I went to the guy i like's city. we had a great time. He had a nephew with him and I was happy I was there. He was happy. Then change scenes. He was lying down on the floor and i was sitting down. But when i...
What should I do if a girl I like has a boyfriend?
she is my friend, and we met after she got together with him. we speak a lot, and text every day. and I started liking her.
Why are guys texting me even though I have a boyfriend and then gaslight me into thinking it's my fault that I reply to them while having a boyfriend?
Like... i just am polite wtf.. i will definitely stop replying to anyone at this point it's getting super annoying. Their flirting is also over the top and they claim they look like my boyfriend as well for some weird...
Why a guy who showed interest in you for years blocked you when you call him?
There is this man (40M) who was showing interest in me (33F) for more than 4 years now. At the beginning i never noticed him he was not my type at all 1/10 only. But he was putting so much affords to grab my attention, as...
Husband needs space?
My husband and I have been unhappy for a couple months, we both have high stress jobs and have taken our days out on each other. We also haven’t made much time to spend together just us as we have been so busy. Well the...
Why he pretend to be single?
A month ago I hooked up with a guy after a nightout. a week later we bumped into each other again so we did it again. and tbh i do like him... but after that I found out he is not single (checked social media), he...
Boyfriend went to see a female friend and got drunk?
My boyfriend called me the next day and told me that the night before his female friend asked him over for dinner and that they got drunk together. He has a drinking problem as well as drugs. I’m struggling with my...
What does it mean when a guy says his into you still but doesn’t make time to see you?
So everything was going very smoothly at the beginning and I got into my head abit and kinda pushed him away (self-sabotage). We still talk here and there and he likes a lot of my shit but I’m just stuck if I should...
How can I secure my needs without damaging my relationship?
I'm 46 years old. I have a good job. I have two adult children living separately and one teenager at home. My husband and I have been together for over 20 years. I love him, but from the beginning, I knew he was not a...
Girl added me to her instagram close friends list?
I met her online and we hit it off so far talking. 5 days into talking she added me to her “close friends list” on instagram. She only has like 400 followers. Does this mean anything that she added me to this list?
Why is he mocking me?
So guys my ex and I are on good terms were friends. We recently hung out and we was just chatting and laughing and he started mocking my laugh. I replied stop mocking meee and laughed more and he started chuckling. This...
Does this girl like me I like her but I dont know if she likes me?
so we go to school together we are both 15 and ever since i saw her i have had a crush on her. So one day someone told her i liked her and she said “this is the first time a boy liked me and i dont like him” Then the week...
