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The best way out of the friendzone is to not...
If you are looking for someone romantically and she isn't interested then you simply need to move on and find someone who is. Nobody got time to hang out with someone that isn't interested in you when you are interested in them.
What did he mean by saying this?
I don't think it's feelings, maybe he just realized you try to initiate always conversations but he doesn't want to reciprocate the attention, and felt a bit guilty for that. Afterall he dumped you so he probably feels awkward about you in general.If he had any feeling he is now doing his best...
Which guy would you prefer to date?
I looked wide and far to find a vote that says"The one that is not on social media and that has 0 follower".Alas, I could not find that vote. Therefore, I cannot vote.A person that wastes so much time to have a social media and that spends any amount of time hunting for followers is not the type...
When's the last time you been on a date?
So long ago, I can't remember. I'm going to go with years, but I could easily say a decade or longer if we're being technical.
How the heck do you change your username and...
Unfortunately, you cannot change username. That is something that you used to be able to do and they stopped allowing it. There was confusion when people would keep changing usernames. So, the only thing that you can do is start over with a new account. For those taking that option, make sure...
How do I get over my infatuation with older men?
I know why it started, it's the same reason for most girls, I had a really shitty relationship with my father. I still do. I must have been like 12 when I started having very inappropriate relationships with much much...
My boyfriend proposed but I don’t wanna marry him?
My boyfriend of 2 years proposed to me but I never gave him a straight answer. He’s adamant and wants us to get married. He’s very sweet to me. He’s a good guy and treats me well. But when I first started dating him he...
What is the meaning of "awwww" in text messages?
The guy that I like just texted me "awwww, thanks" after I told him that I enjoyed hearing from him. A couple of my girlfriends say that this is an endearing thing and a sign he's feeling me too. I say it's just a word...
He told me not to contact him anymore. I wouldn't do that since we broke up. But what would you say him when he highlights this?
We broke up a couple of weeks ago. And yesterday he texted and told me not to contact him anymore. We haven't talked each other since we broke up. I just checked his social media accounts. Do you think he saw this? What...
How do I start a conversation with a girl in my class?
I'm a college student and in one of my discussion class, there's a girl I think is kind of cute. We barely talk but I want to change that. Any advice on how to start a genuine conversation? I want to get her number by the...
My ex moved in with his new girlfriend and I feel jealous of them. Is it normal?
Is it normal that I feel jealous of my ex? As I heard from our common friends, he moved in with his new girlfriend. When I offered him to live with together, he refused me. I don't know why... I am really jealous now.
My dad remarried and forgot about me. How can I restore our relationship with him again?
My dad is in his 50s an a couple of months ago he remarried. But since then I realize that our relationship is not as it is in the past. I believe that my dad rematties and forgot about me. What do you suggest me to do?
Why guy blushing after hugging girl?
He started blushing and all smilling after i gave him hug, what does it mean?
My girlfriend gets jealous when I hang with my friends. Any advice?
I've been dating my girlfriend for almost three months right now. I've never felt this way about a girl before (I could see her being marriage material someday) and I have grown very attached. She feels the same way. We...
What does it mean when a guy says "my girl"?
Whenever a guy says "This is my girl" or "my girl" do they mean it in a romantic way? or a friend way? Or are they flirting? I don't know if guys say it about girls in a friend type of a way like "this is my girl, my...
Girls, no eye contact = no interest or attraction?
When is there a girl I like that doesn't give me any kind of eye contact or glances, I believe that she isn't interested in me at all, so I don't approach. Funny thing is about me is when I do get some quick eye...
My boyfriend doesn't care about anything. At first I thought he had a cool attitude, but now he even doesn't care about my thoughts. What should I do?
My boyfriend doesn't care about anything, including my thoughts... What should I do?
Why does a guy hug me super tight and then not give me attention after?
He’s a coworker and he hugs me so tight I can feel his genitalia and/or my breasts are being pressed on his chest or arm (if he hugs from the side). I’m talking so tight my ribs could break and I start squealing cause I...
I've been in a relationship with this guy for 1.5 year. And now he has a new girlfriend just in one month. How can he forget me so easily?
Is it normal to forget someone in such a short period of time? How can he forget me so easily? I couldn't do the same...
Getting rid of gym anxiety?
I’m trying to get into a workout routine with dumbbells but the problem is they are all down stairs. And I’m too afraid to try them because more people are down there. I don’t want torn to see me not knowing what I’m...
What does it mean when he says "you're my favorite person?" What are the feelings behind it?
Like does he like me? Or I'm friend zoned? Orrrr what? I mean, what would you think about him if he says "you're my favorite person?" What are the feelings behind it?
If a guys face lights up when he notices you, what does that mean?
I mean like the whole raised eyebrows, big eyes, smile etc thing
What does WPS mean in texting?
Do you know the meaning of WPS? Actually what does WPS mean in text, snapchat or facebook?
Why can't most women accept any criticism without getting angry/trying to retaliate?
This is true when dating but in general at work or play as well. Of course they consider themselves free to gossip and backbite as much as they want.and tha'ts supposed to be above criticism as wel. So, what can be...
Boys think I'm out of their league. What should I do?
"How come you don't have a boyfriend, you are so pretty" is a quite common question I get asked, recently I figured that many boys just don't approach me because they think I am out of their league. What do you think I...
Why does he put his hands under my shirt when we kiss?
No, we don't do lip to lip kiss bcs we kinda agreed on that, it just he kiss my cheek or forehead, nose, chin, anywhere else beside the lips for a long time while hugging, but recently he started to put his hands under my...
Was I wrong on my date? The guy I went out with said I was would you guys tell me what you think?
To make a long story short I went out on a first date. I drove myself and met him there. We had a great dinner and great conversation. After the dinner I used the tablet at the tablet to pay my half. I told him that I...
Am I in an abusive relationship,? IThink he still has feelings for his ex? Help me?
I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost 6 months now, we get on great, but I have noticed he's changing a bit, at the beginning he was so lovely and sweet to me ( he still can be sweet) but now lately he's...
Should I take it personally that I barely hear from my boyfriend when he is with his friends?
My boyfriend went out with his friends last night. He text me some while he was out, but not very much. I mean when I did hear from him, it was like one or 2 words. I am great to him and I never nag or demand a lot of his...
My boyfriend is living with me for 4 months, bu he doesn't help me financially. How can I ask him to pay for rent?
Would you ask your boyfriend/girlfriend for paying the rent if he/she is living in your house? I don't know how to tell him but I want him to pay at least the half of the rent :(
I got a notification today, Facebook says 2 likes in that notification but when I log in I only see one. How can it be possible?
When I log in to my Facebook account, I see only one like from my ex, but before that I was able to see 2 likes on the notification. How can it be possible? If you know the reason, please inform me...
Is it true that as soon as a man thinks he's got you, he pulls away?
I hear this all the time and am just wondering if this is true. What keeps the guy interested? I mean do you really believe in that as soon as man thinks he's got you, he pulls you away?
How would you try to reconnect with an old flame if you don’t have their Instagram?
I went on a few dates with a guy just for fun and it fizzled out quick because he was more sexually motivated. Though you never know with people and it is possible for them to be open to talk again. If you have say not...
Do girls ever act mean or rude to a guy they like?
If a girl likes a guy will she ever deliberately act rude or act like she doesn't like him when she actually does? if so, what are some of the common reasons and I am not talking about PMS. I have encountered this before...
I don't like my girlfriend going to parties without me, is that reasonable?
I dont like my girlfriend going to parties without me and thats a two way street with me but she seems insistant on going either way. My girlfriend likes to party but I don't. Am I wrong in asking that we both go together...
What does a guy mean by a goodnight text?
This is probably a dumb question but oh well. We were texting on and off for a couple of hours then I texted him I was going to bed. He replied goodnight! What does it mean when a guy says goodnight first ? Is it just a...
My friends with benefits hasn't texted me in a week. Is he testing me?
Lol before I'd like to say I don't make any effort to see him and I usually respond to his text hours. I've never initiated a text. He ALWAYS text me first. If I promise a day to see him, if he doesn't text me that day I...
This guy I like just told me that he wants to bend me over right now?
I sent this guy I like a snapchat and he said he wants to bend me over right now. Explanation? Does he like me? What does bend you over meaning?
What should I do to comfort my girlfriend while she's on period?
Hi All My girlfriend and I are on a long distance relationship. So it is impossible for me to be with her whenever she needs me. She's on period now. So is there anything I can do to comfort her? I don't know how to...
Help: my boyfriend doesn't like talking on the phone! What should I do?
Me and my boyfriend have busy schedules and are not able to meet everyday, so we talk on the phone. He calls me twice a day without fail everyday but our call duration is maybe only about 5 minutes. He has told me he...
When a girls says "I'll let you know" what does it mean?
If you ask a girl to go do something with you, like going to a sports game or bowling or whatever, and she says "I'll let you know" is she just letting you down gently? I told this girl to let me know in two days and she...
"A love that consumes you". How do you define this?
I mean what does it mean when someone tells you that you want a love that consumes you? Is this something negative? How do you define it?
If a guy says he has feelings for you, what is he telling you?
What does this mean? He has feelings for me? I mean, he told me that he has feelings for me, but I do not feel the same with him. What should I do?
My family does not take me seriously as an adult. Is this normal for someone in his mid 30s?
I am in my mid 30s and most of the time I feel like my family does not take me seriously as an adult. By the way I am not marrired. I am talking about my mom and my older brother. What do you suggest me to do? Should I...
Is it normal that I am missing physical intimacy after breakup?
It is not a sexual post. But I've been missing physical connection of our my old relationship. Is it normal? Have any of you felt this way after a breakup?
My ex slept with me then ghosted me, would you text or call him?
I don't know what to do... We slept with my ex a week ago, but since then he ghosted me. What would you do if your ex slept with you and then ghosted you? :(
As a male, I've never had so much hair on my legs. Is this normal for man?
I know that it is such a personal question. But is it normal for men to have more or less hair in certain periods? I mean I've really never had that much hair on my legs... I'm in my 40's.
I have a date with a guy this weekend. But he asked me to choose the place. Where should I choose? Any suggestions?
We've been messaging with this guy for a few days and he told me that he wants to take me out this weekend. But he wants me to choose the place. What kind of place would you suggest me to choose? I mean, more stylish or a...
Can a girl tell if you like her? How can she tell if she likes you too?
How can you tell if a guy likes you? How can I tell if she's showing that same interest as well?
If he says your name a lot what does that mean?
He is always saying my name & is constantly grabbing my attention but I don't want to think far into it if it means nothing. Like he'll start a joke & say my name a lot. Even over texts
What does it mean when a girl looks down when you look at her?
This happened to me before many times, I would look at a girl and smile at her and she will smile and look down after. What does that mean? When I look at her, this girl looks down.
What does it mean when a guy calls you "hun"?
This guy likes me but hasn't talked to me since I don't even remember when. He talked to me yesterday and sounded excited when I said something back to him. Today he called me hun. He has also called me sweetie before...
My ex came back after saying never. What should I do?
My ex said he would never come back 3 months ago but then he came back. If you were in my place, what would you do? I mean what should I do? Should I, at least, talk to him?
Why do guys view my profile but don't message me on OkCupid lately?
Lately, I see so many people experiencing this problem. I realize that so many guys view my profile but don't message me. Is this just a preference or a common problem?
How should Cranberry Supplements smell?
I don't know much about these supplements. But how should cranberry supplements smell? Does taking them help with odor? Anyone know the details about them?
6 weeks of no contacts, what do you think about it?
We decided to have a break in our relationship and now it has been 6 weeks of no contact. I don't know what to think and what to do. Any suggestions? Should I initiate the conversation again?
What do you think about second chances in short-term vs. long-term relationships?
Which one worth it more? I mean, what is the difference between giving a short-term relationship a second chance and giving a long-term relationship a second chance? And also, what do you think is considered a short term...
a How long is 14 months in a relationship?
We've been dating for 14 months and are planning to get married. But I am not sure if it is enough to know each other. Is 14 months long enought to know someone?
Does it mean much if a guy likes my message with a loveheart?
I was talking to this guy on Insta and he didn’t reply but he liked the message with a loveheart, does it mean much? We’ve been friends for a years on and off but he didn’t like me the way I liked him before, he’s being...
Girls, have you ever had a late period but not been pregnant?
And did it eventually come? If so, how long after?
Why do some people switch their instagram account from public to private repeatedly?
For example someone would have their account private for some time period then switch it to public for another time period then back again to private.I just don't get why someone would do that. Why keep switching when you...
What does it mean when a guy sends you a heart ❤️ emoji?
He will send me it when we are saying goodbye or that he has to go etc or sometimes he will just send it. Is he interested? He will tell me that he has not seen me in ages and it sucks. I like him but has no idea if he...
Are these signs that she’s interested in me?
While I was at my sisters wedding, me and her friend ended up getting on really well. She didn’t know many people there so when we went to the venue she messaged me asking if I can sit at the table with her and her sister...
Not clear if he still wants to meet or not tomorrow. Below are our text messages?
Me- Gm! What day are you off? Guy- Tomorrow Me- We are still meeting up tomorrow? Guy- I had planned on it just hadn't sent text of ok Me- ? Guy- I had planned to meet tomorrow.
Should I have kids with a guy who isn't financially ready?
we aren't married. we aren't in a romantic relationship. we both just wanted to have kids. we are both 30 years old and employed. I am gainfully employed while he isn't. He has a job but barely makes enough to provide for...
How thick should a lasagne be?
To celebrate Wales's crushing defeat of Italy in the six nations cup I've just made a lasagne. Now I know I don't do them authentically but I do do them better. I make them 3 inches thick because that's the depth of my...
How do you prepare your mashed potatoes?
I like them with butter, sour cream, cheddar cheese, and cream cheese
Why did he say “ask someone important” and looked into my eyes when another girl asked him if we should go inside at a bar in the city?
It felt like there was meaning behind what he said and a certain look in his eyes. But then he isn’t messaging daily, he is meeting with me in groups, and I’m confused. I also caught him staring at my friend while I was...
Why he doesn't ask any questions about me but answers all my questions?
So this guy and I been snapping each other for a while. And the only thing we did was just snapping. So started to reply his snaps. And ask him questions he answers me but never ask back. It's always me who ask him and...
I broke up with my toxic girlfriend but I am not feeling ready for new relationship, why (details) ?
I broke up with my extremely toxic girlfriend who always used to apply psychological torture to me during our relationship and it lasted 5 months only. I would genuinely like to love her with my purest and heartiest...
My girlfriend keeps having mental breakdowns about the future. What should I do?
My (M22) girlfriend (F24) doesn't have a driver's license and works at a warehouse. We've been dating for over 2 years, and during that time, she's postponed getting her driver's license. She doesn't exactly need it right...
Guys, What's the reason you would mute a person's Instagram Stories and Posts?Why go from viewing stories and posts everyday, to coldturkey stopping?
What can be the reason guys would mute a someone's Instagram story and posts? And how can I know if I've been muted on Instagram? Is there any specific ways to determine it? Cause I think my crush muted me on Instagram...
What does it mean when a girl says she's not wearing makeup?
I met a girl in class, she sat next to me and a few minutes in we talked for the first time and she complimented me on my eyelashes, soon after that she mentions that she isn't wearing makeup? Its been about 2 weeks...
What's the difference between a hot girl and a sexy girl?
Does anyone know the differences between the terms hot vs sexy? I mean, when someone calls a girl sexy do they mean hot at the same time?
Girls, Why does she never like my photos on Instagram?
It's like she's playing a game with me on social media sometimes. She's a bit shy in person but I do talk to her. She knows I have a crush on her and we get along. It's just she never likes my photos. She would like all...
What does it mean when I get goosebumps when he touches/kisses me. Happens often?
So I've been dating this guy for about 3 weeks and yesterday we had our first kiss (We actually took a picture and it was adorable) well, we were in his truck and just messing around and he kissed my neck. I got tingles...
How can I secretly feminize my boyfriend?
My boyfriend is great don't get me wrong but he watches too much football and leaves with his men friends to ride his Harley leaving me alone. I want to get him to be softer and want to shop and spend more time with me....
How to properly store homemade tomato sauce?
Shall I store it in the fridge out leave it outside in a sealed jar?
How did or do you cope with post partum depression after having your baby?
I've been struggling a bit, and I hesitated to post this not anonymously, but I am trying to know and accept that I have nothing to be ashamed of. Having ppd does not make me any less of a mom and I'm trying to accept...
What does it mean when you can see a little person at the bottom of a Snapchat message?
Like at first it was just peaking but then a few seconds later I could see half of its body? Enlighten me please because I'm kinda new. So, what does it mean when you can see a little person at the bottom of a Snapchat...
When a guy sends a girl songs, does he usually do that to show his taste in music, or is it because the lyrics mean something?
Why do guys usually do this? Is it to convey a message via the lyrics or just to show her what kind of music he likes?
Shy girl suddenly became really talkative?
I've had a crush on a really shy girl for months. I'm also shy and only about 2 weeks ago did I work up the courage to talk to her at all. I managed to talk to her a few times about school related stuff and we both seemed...
What does it mean when a guy says "you look amazing"?
What does is mean when a guy tells a girl "you look amazing"? I know, MAYBE it's not as complicated as I think. And maybe there is nothing to decode. But wouldn't it be more natural for someone to say "you look...
Why did my ex (narcissist) block and then unblock me within a week?
I broke up with my narcissist boyfriend a month ago because couldn’t stand anymore his devaluation of me and recently he blocked and then unblocked me within a week... So, what does it mean when someone block and then...
What does it mean when he calls you baby girl?
Okay so I recently just got a job so i posted about and the guy i've been talking (for about 3 months) to texted me and said "congrats on the job babygirl" what does it mean when he calls me that? Am I overthinking? What...
Do guys really like girls with thick thighs?
**First I'd like to clarify, I mean thick, not fat** I'm starting to hear it in songs a lot where the guy says he likes a thin waist with hips and thick thighs. I've heard guy friends say it too that they don't like...
My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried?
My boyfriend follows random girls on Instagram, should I be worried? My boyfriend for just over a year recently has been following random girls on Instagram and it’s making me feel so uneasy and at times insecure about...
My boyfriend is an athlete, what do I say to him after his team loses a game?
My boyfriend is an athlete, what do I say to him after his team loses a game? It's not the type of situation where you could say "Be a man, get over it" because it's basically his livelihood. So I just need...
Girls, what does heyyy mean?
A girl just sent heyyy what does this mean please help im 14 and know nothing about girls other than they look cute. What does heyyy mean?
What does it mean when a guy sits next to you at a table rather than across?
My friend and I (both females) and our guy friend all went out for dinner and she and I say down first so he had a choice as to who to sit next to and he say next to me. I've kinda liked this guy before, but I started to...
Women, would you pie me in the face just for fun?
I've always wanted a pie a la Nickelodeon from a girl for some crazy reason? Sorry if this is the weirdest question ever lol. Would you pie me in the face just for fun?
She hides her boyfriend from me?
Why would she hide the fact she has a boyfriend and only refer to him as a friend?
How do you know when someone is love bombing you?
I mean, what exactly is lovebombing? How do you identify a love bombing narcissist? And if it your partner is doing so, how would you respond to his love bombing? How do you identify a love bombing narcissist?
If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?
If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?
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What does it mean if a guy puts his head in your lap? And what should I do when he does it?
There's this guy that I like but I'm not sure if he likes me back. I'm getting a lot of mixed messages, but one thing he'll do sometimes is put his head in my lap. It's adorable, and I love when he does it, but I'm...
Does cold approaching women really work?
This has always puzzled me. Is cold approaching women for dates something feasible? Unless the guy is exceptionally hot, I don't see any reason why a girl would agree to go out with him without even knowing who he is....
I hooked up with this girl from my class and now she’s being weird. Any advice?
I (25yo M) knew this girl (23yo) from class for a year. Around January I asked her to go hang out with me and we went to an arcade. We had a great time and we met again a few weeks later to get dinner together. I got her...
Girls, The woman I'm interested in said, "I know you want to wait for me, but you could be so much happier with someone in person." What's she mean?
She's 24 and I'm 10 years older and we dated for about 5 months. We were forced to break up due to her parents' finding out we were dating. While it's been tough, we still communicate and love one another. However, she...
What is the best way to show a guy you are interested without coming forward with them directly?
So there is this guy in my club that I have a major crush on. When I first joined, the first 3 weeks we had never talked but I would constantly catch him looking at me and I would do the same. Eventually we started...
