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What does my ex mean by this all together, will we have a chance to get back together?
A few days ago my ex broke up with me, we were together for almost 2 years, planning to move and planning our lives together. He is an avoidant attachment style and I am an anxious. He broke up with me kind of out of the...
Why do I keep having problems with my mum and dating? Is there anything I can do to improve my relationship with my mum?
I still get problems with my no matter what but one biggest problem is dating and relationship when it comes to guys that i did like and i did express my feelings and also shot me down like always about my mum why do you...
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Am I a whore if I video chat with a guy I like?
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Do you believe in American exceptionalism?
Not in quite some time. I haven’t felt like we’ve been “the good guys” in a war since WW2…and turning Hiroshima and Nagasaki into sheets of glass doesn’t exactly fill me with immense national pride, so really just the European theater. Our country prioritizes prosperity and strength over...
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Why do older women on Tinder get angry when I...
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How long should you be dating before proposing? I would love to propose to my girlfriend but all the people that know me would say it’s too soon, any tips?
Any idea on how to manage the back lash of people saying it’s too soon when I know I’m right and there wrong?
An ex boyfriend came back n wants to be with me again. What should I do
1. He broke up with his girlfriend today itself n sent me ss of it when i agreed to talk to him again. It was very cold 2. Then later he went on to talk about how he wanted me to change that one thing which made him...
Why is he being awkward?
I met this guy at the office recently. Sometimes when we are only alone he smiles when he sees me but when there are people around he is all serious. Two days ago we were at the elevator and he asked me a question (just...
Is he being sarcastic, into me, or not actually into me?
Dude off app initially wanna hook up when I was vacay in his city. We didn’t meet. He asked if I would be down still. I agreed. Later be liking all my stories on IG. Then said he wanna be friends cuz I seem sweet. To me...
I removed my ex boyfriend after breakup. How does this make him feel?
I breakup with my ex boyfriend who I dated for 8 months. I only have met him 13 times in my life and I was fine with that. We were just busy with our life and I was trusting him. He was really kind and I respected his...
Should I be concerned that my girlfriend doesn’t text me on girls trip?
My girlfriend went to Mexico with her friends. At first she was constantly FaceTime, texting, and keeping me posted. Now she barely responds to me. She reads my texts and doesn’t even respond for hours. She says it’s...
Is fasting good for overweight woman like me?
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Why do men give me unfriendly looks in public?
I have noticed that stranger men usually avoid eye contact with me way more than stranger women. Upon the rare occasion that they do look at me, its usually not a friendly look. The looks vary from "you look like an...
Why does my friend think I’m wrong for distancing our friendship when she owes me money?
She owes me $600, I helped her out after her car got repoed and made it clear I will not be her friend anymore if she doesn’t pay it back. Well long story short, it doesn’t seem like she’s going to pay it back. I have it...
What can I send guys as a first message on dating apps?
No weird cringe worthy jokes, just a normal first message. I want them to lead the conversation if they respond
Is it weird if I bought a man at work chocolates to say thanks for doing me a few favours (not work related)?
He helped me out with my car recently and then he knows I love a tv series and he downloaded me all the episodes. I’ve got him a small box of chocolates just to leave at his desk or will he think I’m weird for doing that?...
A close friend of mine is acting weird towards me and I don't know if I should distance myself or try to save the friendship?
It’s a VERY long story but to summarize…i introduced her to my other friends. We all would hang out together a lot and all was well. Once my relationship with my boyfriend became more serious she started to attach herself...
How do I make a girl obsessed with me?
I love this girl so much but i haven't told her yet. I want to make her love me as much as i do for her. What makes you girl want a guy so much?
I still want a bigger ring than my exe’s new wife. Thoughts?
Ok so i got divorced several years ago after being married about 28 years. my ex married the first person he dated and bought her a significantly larger ring than what he bought me. Now im finally w a man (well-off) that...
Did she cheated on me?
For many months my girlfriend was determined to get pregnant and made me do all sort of things to make it possible. She made us both do fertility tests, I had to stop smoking, and we took vitamins every for about 3...
Is he interested or playing me?
So I met this guy out at a club like two months ago and I knew of him cause he went to the brother school of my all girls school and was kinda popular. He and I both had friends with us that were friends. He made it clear...
Should I even initiate plans for this date if he hasn’t texted back in two days?
We match on tinder, he texted me and asked me if we matched on tinder. We ended things back in February ( a talking stage) because of stuff he had going on mentally. We planned to go to the movies today and he hasn’t...
Should I text him?
I’ve been talking to this guy for quite a while and just recently he stopped responding to my texts, we still Snapchat and had one conversation on snap that I started but nothing else. We’re talking and also recently...
Really confused. Mixed signals?
I have a male friend who kept stroking my arms/legs, he'd give super long hugs and kiss my forehead. I told him I liked it. I didn't know if that actually meant he had feelings for me or he's just a tactile person. (he...
I mentioned a conversation that I had with a guy I'm open to date and my friends said I couldn't date him?
Hi I had a conversation with a guy I am open to dating if he is interested. I am not in love with him but he is a nice guy and I am open to getting to know him better. I told my friends that it was a nice conversation but...
Why would a guy act like this?
Why would a guy message me off of other peoples phones and constantly bring me up to people? It’s been almost a year and I found out that he would constantly bring me up to people and told me he’s had a hard time moving...
Poor boundaries or no?
My girlfriend and I have been living together for close to a year. She left her husband who she has a kid with and now lives with me. There was some icky stuff in there and had to work through a few things. Still working...
How people look to a shy boy?
For both boys and girls, particularly girls, what are your thoughts on a 23-year-old guy who has never been in a romantic relationship with a girl? He is shy and struggles to engage in extended conversations with girls;...
Im getting mixed signals from a coworker and I am wondering if she likes me or not?
Hi all, I'm currently am interested in a coworker who I have been talking to. She showed signs of interest but also is giving me some mixed signals. Signs that shows she is interested: - She asked about my family and we...
Is my ex using me?
I still love my ex but I’m starting to feel like i should cut him out of my life so tell me what you think. So about almost 2 years ago my ex texted me after not speaking for a year asking if i wanted to hook up he asked...
Why does a guy from work repeatedly text and call and ask me out?
I’ve dated him because he doesn’t stop asking. The first time I said yes I felt guilty because I and ghosted him or cancelled plans via text before hoping he’d get the hint. boy was I wrong. Not only does he not get any...
Me and my ex had to break up because of distance...5 years later, is it really over?
Hi there, My ex and I dated all throughout high school, We were together since we were 15, we were each other's first love, helped each other through everything, and had a really deep relationship; it felt like a soulmate...
How can I stop thinking about my narcissistic ex?
I don't want him back, ik very well it is a blessing not being with him. But i get this feeling sometimes like unfinished stuff, the truth is i can't believe i trusted a guy like that n how can a person do that to another...
Did your period come early or later after taking the morning after pill?
I took the morning-after pill and my period came two days earlier than the scheduled time. Did this happen to you, when did yours come?
An old guy friend (5 years back) of my girlfriend keep on trying to follow her on social media. What to do?
Earlier he told he want a relationship, she rejected and later became a disturbance and toxic to her. She blocked him. But he is keeping on trying to contact her. we’re in relationship for 4 years and the asshole is still...
What does it mean if FBOY kisses me on the forehead?
So he kissed me on the forehead after sex . What does it mean. Is it supposed to mean something? I’m confused. When he started talking to me, he asked for sex immediately. He didn’t even ask me out or anything. And I...
Do you think he’s thinking about me?
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Girls, does my crush like me?
Quick background: This girl and I are good friends and have great and long conversations when we have the opportunity. We live in different parts of the country and we text from time to time (I'm too afraid to text her...
Can I make a guy who only wants sex fall in love with me?
We’ve been together 2 times and he wants more. He even offered me money to do it for the last time because I told him no more because I usually don’t have sec unless there’s a connection and since I avoid having dates I...
How did you find romantic (not self love) love after getting your heart broken by long term partner?
How did you find romantic (not self love) love after getting your heart broken by long term? I am up for a story time. Need some inspiration and motivation that I can experience love again after getting my heartbroken twice.
What does :3 mean from a girl? Also what does CX mean?
I just started talking to this girl a couple days ago. She sends that a lot but I check google and they don't really tell me. I am used to emojis but she doesn't send emojis at all just this.
Is it wrong that I liked my dads photo with his girlfriend when I knew my mom would probably see it?
So I'm friends with dad and mom on fb. They've been divorced for over 10 years. My moms an alcholic, and one time she was drunk, and she said she misses my dad. I guess these upset because my dad use to drink, and my mom...
If you felt a man who rejected you was alone and regretting and I need of a friends would you contact him?
just asking because this one guy rejected me and stalked 2 years later and i worried about them are they ok. i can stop thinking they are hard broken that i blocked them. however i feel they have a false profile on here...
How to know if a guy likes you?
Apart from the obvious “ask him”, how to know if a guy like you? Would u guys address her as a ‘friend’ before u know that u guys love each other…
Why some girls don't wear socks with their shoes?
My brother's new girlfriend wears no socks in sneakers. Why she does that? Whenever she sits somewhere like restaurants or public parks she removes her shoes because she says her feet are sweaty and hot.
Why don't guys approach me if they stare that much?
I notice a lot of guys staring at me but I've only been asked out by two guys my entire life. Why don't guys approach me if they stare that much?
Why didn't he mention he has a girlfriend? Was I played?
We started talking for a month & eventually we got physically intimate (had sex) & I jokingly said who are you texting your girlfriend? And he said “I don’t have a gf” then he says “she’s in another state she won’t know”...
My boyfriend is sleeping in a girl’s house. What to do?
My boyfriend lives 7 hrs away from me, and when we first met, he already mentioned this girl, "Mila," that he is staying with whenever he visits my city. He said he has been very close to this girl and her family for 8...
He said that crying was a major turn off? What should I do?
so there’s this guy that i’ve been seeing for a little bit now, and he’s been super kind, sweet and genuine with me. my dating history has been a bit rocky, and i went through a break up with my ex, so i wanted to give...
What does shawty mean from a girl?
I've heard this term from my friend talking about her new girlfriend. I think that it is a kind of a slang. But do you know what it exactly means?
When guys say "sweet dreams" to a girl, does it mean that they like them?
We've just met this guy a couple of days ago and every night he messages me ''Sweet dreams'' even if we are not talking at that moment. So, does it mean that he likes me?
Why does she suddenly want to start over, and what should I do?
I've been dating a woman for 3 months. Things started fast, but have steadied out over the past month. I feel like we are where we should be. I drive 90 minutes to see her every weekend. Text her every day. Talk to her...
I feel like I can’t talk to guys. ?
i don’t know how to flirt at all, I’m great witg them as friends but once there’s romance involved you can forget about me. i ruin it completely, I stop functioning and act weird. And if I like someone ir think they are...
Can your phone ring when it's off?
this is HUGE I need to know if dis girl was lying when she said her phone died I called and it rand so I did it again she said her phone died and she never saw the calls...died b4 the calls doesn't it go to voice mail?
Can you take steroids and antibiotics together?
I've been prescribed an antibiotics, but I'd like to know if I can take it with a steroid? Please help!! Anyone else just had them together?
Girls, when is the best time to start taking birth control pills?
My boyfriend will be back from military service in the last days of October. I decided to take birth control pills, just to be safe but I have no idea when to start taking them. When is the ideal time? Is it 2 months...
a My friend's 18 years old daughter is going to meet her Dad tomorrow for the first time. Both my friend and her daughter are nervous, how can I help?
My friend is completely heartbroken. She thought she could deal with the rejection, but she couldn't. She didn't know how she had coped when her ex-partner left her, denied paternity, and never even saw a picture of their...
I have a faint line on my pregnancy test! Am I pregnant?
Why is my Clearblue pregnancy test faint? I mean, is a faint line on Clearblue a false positive? Do you have any ideas? Should I repeat the test? Please help me!!!
Why is he still around?
Me and my partner got back together after 6 months of break up He kept wanting me back Thing is.. we got back together last week and found out I was pregnant And few days later, I gave birth The baby is...
How Does ''Facebook Suggested Friends'' Actually Work?
Are suggested friends on Facebook your previous stalkers? I've heard that Facebook suggests you friends that have searched your name before. People claim that they have proof that Facebook friend suggestions come from...
What does it mean when guy looks straight captures me quickly then down to his phone and then quickly looks back up and stares intensely?
I met this guy recently at work. He was staring with a slight smile on me during the work presentation. Later I was shy and completely ignored him the next day but felt that he was staring at me all the time while I was...
He said he loves me 2 weeks in?
I need your thoughts on this cause I’m trying to wrap my feelings around it. My boyfriend said he loves me last night and I said it in return but I’m thinking about it and am getting anxious if I actually feel that way...
What does he want from me?
I'm not close with one of my male coworker and we're not texting everyday. Yet, I realise he always texted me at midnight and act nothing the next day at the office. Talks a lot of random things when others not around and...
Why is she she jealous I’m dating a better woman?
She’s genuinely a wonderful person, she’s very well to do let’s say, and a lot more beautiful then my ex. My ex is harassing me she feels entitled to know everything going on. She wanted to give me another chance. I told...
My son's wedding is coming soon, but we are separated and divorced, how should we print the family part on the invitation?
I am looking forward to seeing if there are people who are separated from each other, or if you have any ideas to save me?
My coworker has a girlfriend but acts flirty towards me?
I just recently started a new job in retail and my coworker is super nice and attractive. I overheard that he has a girlfriend a while ago and it kinda threw me off because he acts kinda flirty around me if I interpret it...
If my crush hold a long period eye contact with me is that mean he is interested?
I was in a room , then he walk in I look at him then he look at me we where facing each other but for a distance we look at each eyes for a long period of time after he walk out the room but I feel his eyes contact was...
Boyfriend has been mad at me for almost 3 weeks, help?
We had a fight almost 3 weeks ago, it wasn’t a major fight. He is still mad and when he gets mad it takes him weeks to get over it. He says we are slowly getting back to normal but still not completely and he needs time....
Should I text him or not?
So I've known this guy (A) for years now. We used to go out when younger every now and then, stopped and started again this summer. He kind of always flirted with me. We met again after 2 years at the end of June, after...
Why would a guy block me if I apologize to him for hurting his feelings? Why wouldn't he accept my apology instead? It's feeling like a lesson to me?
After this situation, I don't feel like apologizing to anyone that I hurt anymore. I'm becoming an emotionless person because I hurted his feelings while he was in love with me but I apologized for my attitude instead and...
Is it a good sign when a guy asks a mutual friend about you?
My crush and I were friends until he started acting strange around me and stopped talking to me. I think he realized how much he really liked me and it scared him. Also we kind of went separate ways for a while because...
Girl said "she was turning her brain off" during a lunch date. Was she being rude?
A young woman I went on a date with said was "turning her brain of while we were on a lunch date". I found this to be pretty rude. Was she being rude or was she just comfortable letting me lead.
Why would a guy sometimes act shy and othertimes arrogant around a girl?
He is usually very down to earth, talkative and sociable with everyone else but with me he is sometimes tense and othertimes he talks to me slightly condesending like I'm a silly little girl that is not worth his time...
My boyfriend said he doesn't like too much praise from me, it irritates him?
I love to call my boy friend gorgeous and beautiful and sexy and incredible and maybe I do this every single time I see him 🤭 even if he's in fat pants and a dirty shirt but I just genuinely find him Soo incredible and...
Does my crush have any romantic interest in me or is he trying to give me signals to leave him alone?
We don’t know each other well and only met recently after I handed him a goofy gift I made. He added me on social media and liked a bunch of my posts. I noticed he doesn’t add many people and hasn’t even liked half of the...
My boyfriend and his ex still texting?
I saw by accident that my boyfriend is still texting with his ex. We have been together for a year and have had lots of drama because of this ex as he kept saying they are platonic but they wanted to have sex a month...
Why is he contradicting himself?
For someone that just says we are friends and says he treats me like everyone else... he does the exact opposite. People notice too! -He flirts with me to the point we forget others are around. I haven't seen him act this...
If my girlfriend loves me but mostly prioritise her friends, Should I do the same?
she's my neighbour but temporary long distance for an year. I put a lot of effort in this. We talk every night for 30mins. But rarely have deep conversations or romantic/flirty talks from her side. She loves me. But,...
I slapped my boyfriend and felt horrible, what can I do moving forward (he wants to stay together)?
Been dating for almost 2 years, never got physical at all up until last night. We were arguing, he started yelling and wouldn't hear me out so I lost control and slapped him, even though it was gentle (not as hard as how...
Why would a girl say she loves me and we have sex, but not want to date me?
There’s this girl at my sports bar that I really love, and after work we have had sex in numerous occasions. We kiss, and we said we love each other. But when ever I ask her on a real date, like dinner and flowers, a real...
Which conditioner should be used for keratin done hair where I don't have to wait for 30 mins?
Hello everyone , it's been 8 months I did keratin smoothing treatment on my hair. Before that my hair was naturally wavy and frizzy. Now my original hair has started to grow back. But I don't want to use the keratin...
What do you think about an apology letter to a boyfriend?
We had a fight and I'm thinking of writing a letter to my boyfriend apologizing and leaving the letter on his doorstep. Do you think it's such an old style or does it make more sense than texting?
Could love come back after breakup.. if there is no more distance anymore?
Me and my boyfriend were in 8 year relationship..5 years we were together in the same countrry and 3 years on ldr.. we were planning to marry this year but he told me that his feelings change due to distance.. and he...
What does it mean when your ex wishes you all the best?
He said while he broke things off.
Why would a girl text me at 6 am but appear cold and disinterested in person?
We're on the same course. She stared and smiled at me in class before. We messaged, she texted with laughing emojis talking about our studies and replied at 6 am animatedly with omgs and hahas. This made me want to talk...
Is he interested in me romantically?
He likes my stories sometimes replies.. we do streaks on snapchat too we had our first date it went good he picked and dropped me back since iwasnt familiar to the city.. we held hands.. he waited till i get home and...
Why would a girl talk to her friends about me as soon as I show up in the area when I’m doing a few things by where she works then hides from me?
Why would a girl get her friends to watch me with what I'm doing?
Why would the guy I was dating last year block me from his IG stories. We never followed each other nor have I watched stories. Why not just block me?
My profile is private and I never shared my handle with him, so for him to go our of his way to block just stories is a bit odd. Why not block me from your entire profile?
Guys, What does it mean if a guy I’ve been texting with for more than a week doesn’t come to meet me?
We’ve known each other for 2 years but started texting for about a week, he said he will try to come to my hometown to see me (we are long distance) but texted me the next day that he has to study and can’t make it to the...
How do you attract someone?
So im trying to attract a guy whose 21 and im looking for some advice, like what are some things that almost all guys are attracted to? something that has a 90% chance of working
He asked me for marriage 3 times and I declined?
I declined and he refuses to take no for an answer as I don't want marriage. He doesn't understand that I don't desire marriage and would rather remain single and focus on my business/ travel. The 3 times has been over...
Girl is mad at me because she thinks I ignored her on purpose, need advice.
This girl (im not sure of our relationship, acquaintance, friend, would be gf) is mad at me because, in her mind, I was ignoring her and giving her "attitude". Truth to be told, she was a bit mad at me and I was trying to...
What does a girl mean when she says "I'm single, but I'm kinda seeing someone"?
How should I interpret it as? Does it mean I have a chance? Does it mean she's single but is not interested me?
