I'll be honest, I met her on Onlyfans. She told me she is closing her account because I am her only sub anymore. She and I have been talking outside the app for about a year now. She started it because of financial reasons only. She is a single mother living in Mexico. She says she loves me, I really like her, she is beautiful and has always been very nice to me. I just don't know if I can and if my family will be accepting of her.
People met their love in so many different ways and to say bluntly "not" is stupid according to me. Your an adult and for the past year you seem to have developed a relationship, even if you have not specifically met her. If you are considering it, don't do it in Mexico but rather invite her and go through all that legal process in the states before moving on to the next step.
First and foremost, you must be honest with yourself and figure out whether or not you can settle with her. Secondly, it is introducing her to your family.
If your family is not accepting her for her current "line of work", then make sure she quits her account and then introduce her to the folks. As parents they want what is best for you, and if she has quit and is focusing attention elsewhere, you can talk about that rather than what she did in the past. No one tells all details about a relationship, nor details of your dating life to their parents and I believe this falls under the same category.
Best wishes with her!
Why not date her, you won’t ever know if it was worth it at the end. If she truly is beautiful & by that I hope you are mentioning that she has a beautiful soul too not just physical. What are you scared about? Is not like you will be marrying her right away, you will date her to still get to know her & yes if she travels from Mexico to you yes it makes a major difference yes- you will be able to get to know her better as the woman that she is. But if you don’t want to take that risk out of fear and you are looking to settle down with someone who doesn’t have a past like that and that would make you more comfortable- don’t pursue her anymore. If you don’t believe that you will feel happy and comfortable being with a woman who had only fans even if her reason is reasonable, don’t date her & don’t pursue her. Don’t waste your time and her time. What if she actually wants to be in a serious relationship? Does she know how to be in one? Has she ever been in one? What are her values? Do you really want to get to know her? If you date her, you will know within a few weeks or months if you would like the relationship to continue. About your family, so what if they don’t accept her. If the woman ends up being a good woman with morals and values, for the relationship to work out you will have to make it clear to your family and let them know what you won’t tolerate if that woman ends up meaning a lot to you. But you decide. My opinion is date her and get to know her. As well as my opinion is don’t date her if you won’t be able to let go of her past.
Oh dear gawd... what are you doing? I'm looking at this from a very red-pilled position. Onlyfans, single mother, financial reasons, Mexico... bro... if you kept talking there would be more red flags and you and I both know that.
Bang her all you want... but I think you're stepping into a big pile of shit if you try to make a long-term thing with this girl.
That brings me to this subject... you even banging her? Why you even thinking about locking down type stuff if she's just some chick online and you're not poking her with the meat salami 3 or 4 times a day? And date? WTF is even that? Dating is for pussies. You fuck and then they cook you food. It's how women thank you for fucking so good.
What are you even talking about bro? I mean... put her in a situation where she would have to pay to see you. What's going to happen? This chick isn't into you dawg... You've just been there orbiting her like some beta bucks orbiter guy. She would cheat on you so quick if you get with her like that and then I would have to say sorry to you, and that I didn't know, because she just really wanted my hawt man meat inside her.
I think you should stop, no, and don't. Like I said bang her if you can, but don't invest it this thirst trap. She's just like the rest and I have a feeling you're blinded in lust right now with her.
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Absolutely not. As a matter of fact, you should not contact her again.
It sounds like a massive red flag but you could give her a chance. Hold her to a very high standard and don't be afraid to leave. Also don't have sex with her, that'll cloud your judgement and she'll be able to manipulate you easily, it'll make it very hard to leave.
what mean "if you can".
are you mexican or American? is she even real... and her husband going to whack you on the head and rob you?
I don't trust what I hear, who knows if she is real. there are scammers.
If she is real, and I've known guys that find wives in other countries, then she's looking for a ticket to a better place and someone to care for her. no shame in that.
So do your due diligence, have a backup plan and have support.
Date her, sure.
Marry her, consider all the things before you get into that. A child not yours, had onlyfans and you were the only one to subscribe why? How much do you know about her? If she had financial problems, why not worked as waitress or any other jobs? Why onlyfans failed? In one year what you two have been talking about?
Hahahahahaah she is looking for a sucker beta man to take care of her and you almost bought it hook line and sinker.
She's going to lure you to Mexico and the cartel is going to hold you hostage until somebody pays them. If nobody pays them, they are going to find your body out in the Mexican desert.
What type of content did she have and is she still in Mexico?
I think deep down you know what’s happening here you just really don’t want to believe it.
If you do date her please make sure she is on contraception.. wouldn't wanna get trapped into anything
Are you moving down to Mexico or is she coming to live near where you are?
Avoid single mothers AT ALMOST ALL COSTS, boyo !!!
You lost me at only fans not gunna read the rest of it. Don’t be a simp.
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Gon head and spoil her. 🙂
Smells very scammy. Has she asked for any money?
No, she will cheat on you.
Is this a joke?
m u shoudnt
save urself lot of pain
Single mother and OF, 😂😂😂😂. Bro, come on.
nah sounds shady
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