When a girls says "I'll let you know" what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

If you ask a girl to go do something with you, like going to a sports game or bowling or whatever, and she says "I'll let you know" is she just letting you down gently? I told this girl to let me know in two days and she repeated "two days" but from her tone and body language, I'm not sure if she's seriously considering it.

Updates:

+1 y

Actually, guys, it turned out that she eventually said "yes" in two days. Maybe she was just old-fashioned and needed to check with her parents or something. Or maybe she really had to think about it.

[itssarahloveee]

She's not interested. If she had been interested, it wouldn't have seemed to you like she wasn't. She'd have made it known to you that she really was considering it, there wouldn't be any room for question. If you're not sure, I wouldn't continue to pursue her. If she's interested, she'll come to you. Don't remind her that she has to tell you soon, just assume she's not going, then if she contacts you and tells you that she does want to go, it'll be a great surprise. But don't even text her until after the day you were going to the sports game/bowling/etc. It'll get her thinking as to why you didn't text her asking for an answer. That could possibly lead her to bring it up.

[confusedgirl22]

Oh no, she's not into you. "I'll let you know" is defo letting you down gently. Its like when a guy says "I'll call you but never does". So just don't mention going to a game/bowlng/whatever to her and don't text/call cos she just ain't into you sorry! But you kinda kno she's not into you anyway so this won't be big shock tya anyway. If she had liked you, she would've asked "oh when do you want to go/what time etc?"

[Mommy95]

It means I don't want to talk to you right now or at all. Or at least that's what it means for me.

[Pandagurl_88]

It usually means "I'll let you know". Good girls don’t play games

[fisher]

If you ask a girl to go do something with you, like going to a sports game or bowling or whatever, and she says "I will let you know," she's probably just letting you down gently.

There could be a number of reasons why she's not interested in going out with you. Maybe she's not into sports, or maybe she's already made plans with her friends. Either way, it's probably best not to take it too personally.

If you're really interested in this girl, you could try asking her what she's up to on the day of the event. If she's free, great! If not, you'll at least know that she's not just blowing you off.

[bobair]

She's not. This is a normal sign that she's just not attracted to you, even if she considers you a good friend.

Romantic relationships require certain "stages" - the first being ATTRACTION, the second being RAPPORT, and the third being INTIMACY.

If you skipped the attraction stage, or have no idea how to create it, then go google it. Or read my blog.

Better luck next time dude, and don't wait around hoping she'll change her mind. Attraction requires you take action, so waiting around doesn't help.

~ Robby

My Blog ( Full of Hate and Ready to Date: link )

[MusicMayhem]

It means she won't let you know lol. Girls are pussies when it comes to confrontation so they deflect and delay an answer hoping you'll move on instead. If a girl likes you she'd say yes asap in case you decide to go out with another one and miss out.

[FilmGuy93]

I'm glad to hear things worked out well! Sometimes "I'll let you know" really does mean that she will let you know. The best way to deal with women is to confidently put a suggestion out there and let her decide what she wants to do without any putting any pressure on her.

[Sour-rose]

Well she let you know this time. But anytime someone says something to that effect, they're escaping the conversation and going to avoid you like a pedo. Forever. :)

[Buffy6412]

"I'll let you know" is the equivelant of a guys "I'll call you". Will she? Probably not.. that saying isn't very convincing or concreate. Now.. if she would of said "Sure! I just gotta make sure I dont have any other plans that day" that seems more sincere.

[rosemilk]

for me it means no and i hope you forget you asked :)

[Twistboy101]

It means don't bother her about it and then you two forget that you even asked her that.

[Bananaman177]

You are her second option.

Her first option fell through, so that's why she said yes.

[bobbyg0313]

just happened to me today , I knew what it meant just had to make sure lol id prefer a straight answer though :)

[Anonymous]

I’d take it as she forgot to reply and can’t meet up.

[msc545]

In most cases it means "no" at worst, and "you have been friend-zoned" at best.

[no_thnx]

Yeah I'm really sorry to say that but I agree with above posters.

Good luck ext time though!

[Anonymous]

In my experience thats a cop out so just go about your day and dont sweat it.

[laurieluvsit]

Usually, that means she is not interested

[Gedaria]

Usually it's a polite No...

[Anonymous]

It means she’s flaky or not interested