Honestly, do you care what other people think about your looks?

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For me it really depends on who it is.

If it was just physically unattractive and angry guy I probably wouldn’t care. If it was just a person who was homeless because they have a heavy criminal record and couldn’t find employment becaus of it no I don’t think I would care about their opinion much either.

If it was a guy who had a face and personality I find attractive I do think I would care about their opinion.

Sirenboobzilla · Accepted Answer

As I've grown older, not as much. I used to when I was on school. I had self esteem issues (what girl didn't), the works. Now? Only people who's opinions I genuinely care about when it comes to my looms are my boyfriend, my family and my close friends.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

I only care if my husband thinks certain ways. We are not gonna be atrractive to everyone out there because looks can be subjective.

laly520 · Answer

I cared as teenager now it doesn't matter anymore

Finchie40 · Answer

Not really , unless it’s someone I really have the hots for and that I am really interested in, but other than that I don’t really care , I rather be with a girl that likes me for me , that accepts me for me. I would never change myself to appease anyone , I use to think that was the only way to attract a girl when I was younger, to realize that isn’t true what so ever. Most girls’ are drawn to a guys’ heart and personality , yes his looks matter somewhat , but not completely , I never considered myself a hot guy , I don’t think I am ugly , I might be to some. but I also don’t think I am hot either , when a girl tells me I am hot or handsome or beautiful, I just laugh and say thanks for the compliment because it’s something I don’t really hear often , even though I am thinking what in the hell is she seeing on me that is attractive? To realize she just likes the way I present myself and the way I am not shy and confident , and I am good at making people laugh , not realizing , I am being that way , I was just being myself I landed more girls’ just being myself , true story lol Once I date a girl for a bit , she will usually open up more to me and tell me what turns her on about me , It’s either my eyes , my voice , my arms , and number 1 , my personality, she will usually confess that I am a nice guy and I actually listen to her , I don’t land every girl , but for some reason I am gifted with the ability to talk to girls’ and have a great chance of getting her in my arms , mainly cuz I am not really shy , I guess I have a positive energy around me that I don’t really see most the time , but when I catch a girl checking me out and looking my way and smiling at me , I assume she must be blind or there is something wrong with her lol cuz what in the hell is she see in me lol The truth is everyone has their own preferences of what they like and don’t like , Some can be super picky and some aren’t that picky. I just treat girls the same way I want to be treated in return , if she isn’t attracted to me? then so be it , we can’t appease everyone. All we can do is try and my advice is? just be yourself and be honest , Honesty attracts people more than most people think. When a girl is honest with me , her chances of getting me in bed increases tremendously, people that lie and hold secrets are only hurting themselves , why be with someone if you have to lie to them to get them to be interested in you? Learn to be honest and I guarantee your chances of getting someone’s interest will sky rocket

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care what people think. I care how I'm treated when I show someone basic courtesy. Most women in the USA fail miserably at this. It doesn't matter if you help seniors, sacrifice to help single parent families, show basic courtesy to people in public, save the lives of homeless pets and put people up when it's freezing outside, work overtime, globally traveled, are drug free, not a felon, don't have kids, haven't been divorced... all of which for me. I have flaws, but physically I'm very athletic. If you're not Zac Efron and driving a new hybrid? You're not deserving of basic human courtesy when asking directions to the nearest Walgreens. That's how it is. THAT'S what I care about. Is it about my looks? I don't know, I don't ask. Does it matter? Lack of basic human courtesy isn't made better because of a specific reason.

Serkee · Answer

I try not to care, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't. Guys are unattractive by default, so we're thrilled whenever anyone thinks differently. So I think the most accurate way to put it for me is that I try bury my insecurity about my looks and to not to let it affect me, but if I ever get a single genuine compliment from anyone about anything, I'll ride that high for the rest of the year.

exitseven · Answer

not so much these days. I am married and middle aged and was never that great looking to begin with.

I workout and try to stay in shape, I keep my hair neat and shave every day. If somebody does not like the way I look, well thats just tough.

Anonymous · Answer

Not anymore, maybe when i was younger. I mean I care about being healthy. But beyond that I don't care. You can't live your life worrying what people think about you. Because the REALITY is, most the time they're not thinking about you. And if they ate it's only in how you pertain to them. It's just the way humans are. Most don't really think 10 feet beyond themselves.

northerngal · Answer

Of course I do... just as I have gotten older and maybe wiser I care less about it. I still put effort into my appearance but its more for me now than others.

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

No, not at all. I don't give a monkeys. I mean I work out a LOT, but to stay fit and healthy, not for cosmetic reasons!

dustybiker2 · Answer

If I did I wouldn't walk around stores with helmet hair. I really enjoy the looks some woman give me. Especially before they catch their mans.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I would want my husband or anybody I'm dating to think I'm good looking but nobody else's opinion would matter.

ToriitheGoblin · Answer

Not really. I've long accepted the fact that there are people who find me attractive and people who think I'm ugly. So I just vibe

supercutebutt · Answer

Yes and no. I try not to look too freakish. But I'll be honest, some gentlemen start squirting cum just by looking at my butt.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

I dress as you see me like a slob most days. Thats how I like it. As long as I don't smell and I am very clean, I like me 💭 to borrow John Candy's line

Cutegirl06 · Answer

Nope! I learned early that just being me is enough. Can't please everyone!

Account · Answer

Well, I tend to worry a lot about stuff I deem important and looks is not among those.

JacobJordan · Answer

No. Only opinions that matter to me are those coming from my wife or my 3 little ones.

sheikalana · Answer

I'm very aware of how I look so what others think is not something I care much.

CriticalCatDad123 · Answer

No, I don’t. I don’t even care if someone finds me attractive.

BeyondBirthday · Answer

No I have never cared about what people thought of me

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

I don't care what anyone thinks about me or my looks or anything else. Mind over matter. I don't mind and they don't matter

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