We have been following each other on IG months ago, we liked each other posts. Then he slipped into my DM’s and we stared DMing for about a week, great intellectual conversations, long paragraphs, it’s obvious we are both compatible and we like each other. He’s 36, NYPD detective and I’m 28 medical student in Hawaii, so there’s a distance issue. We touched base on that and other things, he’s beyond mature and very respectful, nothing was ever awkward because we’ve both been very open and blunt about our expectations etc. Yesterday we hit the topic of religion, we’re both spiritual and was slightly on the same page about things but then the conversation kind of died out. I couldn’t really expand much on the religion topic and it seemed like he couldn’t either. I’m not sure if that’s because we’ve literally been writing novels for the past six days or if he got bored? Lol maybe I got bored? Just felt kinda dead and not much else to say. So he asked me about my weekend plans, I reciprocated, and then he said ‘well gorgeous I’ll let you enjoy your Saturday. We’ll chat soon’ so my question is does he really mean ‘we’ll chat soon’ or was this a polite way of saying I’m over this right now. I think we all know how much you can overthink something so simple and look for hidden meanings when there really isn’t any but I really like this guy and well.. I’m overthinking! So help a girl out? What does this guy mean? Talk soon or this fizzed out?
He said ‘I’ll let you enjoy your Saturday gorgeous. We’ll chat soon’.. did our conversation fizz out?
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