What Do You Think Of Hyper-Feminine Women?

[Secret6620]

Be Honest ✋

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🎀What Is Hyper-Femininity?🎀

👑"Hyper femininity is often characterised as the “girly girl”, the exaggeration of feminine qualities leaving behind very little masculine qualities.💄

✨In society, when anybody showcases an air of hyper-femininity, they are often characterised as weaker, more submissive, sensitive, passive, weak, and dependent. However, femininity is more than just an aesthetic or role. It’s an essence of somebody — inherently within them, that they can’t change.🌸

🙏As women, we often spend years trying to understand the distinction, deciding whether we should embrace who we are or claim more masculine traits to be more accepted.✝️

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⚖️The truth is, hyper-feminine traits like tenderness, compassion, and nurturing qualities are not flaws in our character. Weakness, within reason, is also not a bad quality to have."😇.

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[Flatmanlewis]

What do I think? I love them. I absolutely adore them. It’s all I would ever date (and marry.) What I’ve learned by doing so is this: being feminine IS a strength. On a few levels. Allow me to explain.


As a general rule feminine tends to be the embodiment of more feminine traits and appearances. This is the acceptance that being feminine is the epitome of womanhood. Since this almost always means smaller, and less strong than a man physically, women compensate with a different kind of strength. This inner strength, this willpower, this female talent for human emotion and connection is a power all it’s own. Few men can walk into a room and command all attention merely by presence, not act. A woman who has mastered femininity can grab the attention of every man, woman, and even child.


Secondarily, being feminine requires more work than even being masculine. To truly master all the feminine qualities a woman can have is a list of daily challenges from maintaining physical fitness, tending to the aesthetics of hair, nails, and makeup, to eating right and style. Add to all that the skill of navigating the multiple interactions and reactions Society offers a woman of extreme femininity - both good and bad (because there is as much of one as the other) is a strength and endurance all it’s own.


I’ve known several women who were absolutely stunning creatures on so many levels and their strength was increased by their femininity - not weakened as some may suspect. They ranged from models to gun-toting warriors to doctors to businesswomen. These women were able to hold their own among physically stronger men by not trying to “out-strong” the men but rather by being the strongest women they could be - on a metric other than just physical. This is a far stronger attribute than most women realize.


If a woman can pull all this off it is absolutely biblical in its power and grace. I view classy yet committed femininity one of the most important and essential aspects in a good woman.

[RavVid]

I have always used the term Ultra-femme, which I think is a better descriptive. I am very attracted to them. It isn't that they are wearing lace and embroidered flowers but is more the character they have.

There is a dichotomy between strength and weakness. Strength can make you weak and weakness can give you strength.

You might see a difference between a man being protective & providing and a woman being tender & nurturing but essentially it is the same thing. Versions of the quality of caring that is most suited to our form.

In choosing a mate, it is evolutionary better for a man to choose a woman who displays those attributes you listed. You wouldn't want a woman who gives birth and walks away from the baby. That does happen with mammals, with the mother just not interested in suckling. I have seen a mother dog stand up and shake the puppies off her teats.

In the same way a woman would choose a protective man who is good at providing. We are both selecting for a caring trait which just has different manifestations.

[Secret6620]

Oh wow! I have never heard that term before. It's quite intriguing. Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer!

[RavVid]

It is probably me only but I think better because it implies an innateness of attributes in the woman. I coined it to myself when I noticed some woman were more feminine than others.

Hyper-Feminine could be more cultivated I think as Hyper implies action and in your face such as dressing with a lot cleavage and a tight micro skirt. I would think a lot of skin exposure is actually less feminine.

I'd be more drawn to a girl in a mid thigh full skirt than a tight micro skirt due to the feminine look.

[RavVid]

It is a bit like the difference between sexy and sensual. Sexy just requires liberal skin exposure. Sensual is more to do with the way a woman moves and is far better. A Micro skirt is sexy, a full skirt is sensual because it highlights the movement of her body.

To my mind and maybe only mine.

[Secret6620]

Thank you for explaining your answer!

[DishLady]

Hyper-feminine can have two modes — “Barbie In the Box” and “Barbie Outta the Box”.


BIB is very pretty and prim but seems to be pure innocence — mentally, physically and perhaps also socially preserved, with limited experience.


BOB is also pretty, but ready for all her social “firsts” even if she’s a bit awkward or clumsy about it.


There’s a third category of hyper-feminine that supports more of an “elegant sexpot” criterion than a “girly girl” criterion.


Most women dabble with a combination of one or two of these as they get older. It can be a fun way to explore one’s femininity, but within reason. The extremes are annoying in my opinion.

[Secret6620]

Omg! You're a bloody genius. This is literally such amazing wisdom. I never really thought of it that way. And your words make a lot of sense and have painted a picture that I've never laid my eyes upon.

Just beautiful! You could be a great writer if you aren't already one. You have a voice that can impact change. I just felt I should tell you that. ✍️

~With Love 🌹

[DishLady]

Aww, thanks, that’s really sweet of you to say. Yes, I do write a little for fun. I hope this is helpful. :)

[Secret6620]

This was wonderful! Thank you for such a thoughtful and skillfully written post. Very impressive! ✍️🌹

[handsomelad70]

Haven't met many girl Bobs, but OK, I guess.

[DishLady]

@handsomelad70 They're out there...

[Misscouincouin]

I absolutely love the first picture 🥰🥰 that’s why i love old times like Middle Ages the fashion was incredible with long dresses and long princess sleeves 🥰 my style is inspired from those times but people tell me « I have a special style » and I don’t like to get notice 🤧 so living in thoses times would have been perfect for me😌 I also tend to exaggerate with pink 🫣 thanks for question!💕

[Secret6620]

Absolutely LOVE your post! 🌹

[Dargil]

I like the comportment of the first. Nice dress, nice hair and a pleasant warm tint. But I'm thinking she isn't Hyper-Feminine and will not hesitate to tell you what she thinks. Look at her eyes. Not sleepy. Purposed. She's about to say: You're LATE!

[Secret6620]

Ahahaha 😂🙈!!! This is literally so spot on. You have great attention to detail.

[Simslover92]

A lot of women are losing it and becoming much more masculine which is a turn off for most men. I am happy to be hyper-feminine and hope to never loss that quality.

[Secret6620]

I literally couldn't agree more!!! I have started to notice that women are in all the high status positions, are becoming taller than men, and it's all because we are being forced into our masculine energy.

I hope we can a find a balance soon. The men need to step it up so we don't feel like we need to operate in our masculine energy.

[Simslover92]

Or the women need to take a step back and learn that it's okay to still be feminine

[Simslover92]

Just because you have a high profile job doesn't mean you need to lose that female energy

[Secret6620]

I love the way you stated that! Resonates deeply.

[Simslover92]

Thanks!

[moneymagnet24]

She is one of the intelligent lady on gag 😜

[LadyKitty]

My opinion is if you enjoy it go for it. I have always fell somewhere in the middle. Though I think a man or woman is not bound by their gender so if they want to be more feminine or masculine they can go for it!

[Secret6620]

I really like that you touched on gender for this topic. I totally agree that men are allowed to embrace their feminine side without fear of rejection.✝️✨🌹

[JacobJordan]

"Hyper-feminine" is just feminine. And femininity is very attractive. The term "hyper-feminine" was introduced so that it sounded like a bad thing to be a woman.

[Secret6620]

Interesting!

[Purpleronnie]

They NEED to be feminine but I’m not sure that I’d be able to tell a hyper-feminine woman from one that’s just feminine 🤷‍♂️

[Secret6620]

I couldn't agree more!

[handsomelad70]

The hyper-feminine woman sends all day at the mirror and always buys expensive outfits, plus she behaves as if a man should lift and carry her whenever there's a mud puddle so she doesn't sully her top-line brand shoes.

[Catguy92]

I think nurturing, tenderness and many other things are awesome. I think the key is: Weakness

If a woman is always a damsel who can't do things herself whines about "Breaking a nail". So that's the line I think.

[Secret6620]

OMG yes!!! Nobody wants a Cinderella!!! Watch me save myself!!! 🌹😂❤️🪽😇✝️

[Raaj4you]

Feminine or hyper feminine, I am naturally attracted towards girly girl, real girls, feminine women not macho girls or women. Rude, aggressive and muscular women are repulsive. I don't consider them as feminine women.

[Secret6620]

Well let's see if we can think about this a bit differently... Why would a woman (who is submissive to Alpha by nature) decide to go against her instincts and lean into her masculine energy?

I'll tell you my story. I have been the perfect submissive and dutiful woman. And despite this, my husband STILL broke my heart. He left me for another. He left a pure and innocent woman for a whore. (The type of whore who will take your man just because she can. ~Jolene)

So then my brain told me that if I wanted love from a man, then I would have to take my clothes off more, be less innocent, basically just start embodying masculine traits that makeup the whore spirit just so that we can find our soulmates.

If men only want the whores, then how do God fearing women find our Happily Ever After? 😔

I've operated in masculine energy to survive Marine Corps bootcamp training and to get my BA. But I remember that I am only masculine in my studies. Everything else is submissive.

Sorry for the long message. I enjoy free writing. Just saying whatever honestly comes to my head makes me feel so free.

So I would implore you to reconsider that last statement and try to see things from the perspective of a woman who got her heart broken for no reason.

They make themselves repulsive so that men won't find them interesting. If men aren't interested, they are less likely to cause you harm.

[Raaj4you]

Thanks for being honest about your feelings. I am sorry that your husband left you for a whore. It's fine to lose your innocence and grow stronger than before. You deserve someone better but don't takeoff your clothes to get a man.

[CrabCakes11]

I don’t care how feminine anybody is. It’s a personal choice that doesn’t harm anyone

[Secret6620]

I literally couldn't agree more!

[WhitneySnow]

I have no problem at all with hyperfeminine girls. Some of my friends are like that.

[Secret6620]

Mine too!

[handsomelad70]

OK, if they aren't TOO girly and sob buckets if they break a nail or their outfit isn't perfectly co-ordinated.

[Secret6620]

Ahahaha! This made me giggle 🤭

[handsomelad70]

Thanks, Secret6620 !!!(You're probably quite girly!!!)

[Secret6620]

I am! I'm excited to get dressed up everyday. I really like my garments and I enjoy showing them off when I can. They're such beautiful pieces that deserve to be seen.

[AngryCarl]

Sounds screwy. Just feminine is fine. You still have to be able to climb fences if you lose your keys.

[Secret6620]

This made me giggle so much! You'd be surprised just how mobile these dresses are. I can run, jump, scale a wall, you name it. This is why I have to keep getting new dresses. I am quite adventurous 🤣😂

[Tyler2]

I like country gals. So not very hyper feminine to me. But I don't mind seeing a girl all dressed up. Don't care for make up tho.

[Secret6620]

Nice!

[Likes2drive]

The more feminine the better I feel, I love that about women

[Secret6620]

I literally couldn't agree more!

[Anonymous]

Idc about feminity as long as its not forced on women. People saying women are more masculine now are fucked like we have a choice lmao. Not everyone has to be feminine. I am not feminine or masculine i am somewhere in between and that is okay too.

[Secret6620]

Very spot on! And women are forced to be more masculine because certain types of men refuse to step up to the plate or carry their own weight in relationships.

So we as women are forced into our masculine energy so that we can be superwoman and then men complain that we're too masculine and we STILL don't do enough.

We could give a man our soul and it STILL wouldn't be good enough.

Like why does that sound so weird? They complain we are too masculine but they made us that way through their laziness and trauma.. It's honestly so frustrating.

The patriarchy has screwed the world up by raping anything they come into contact with. Corrupt men rape the land through genocide and colonialism and then they expect a badge of honor for doing so. Then feminists have been given the task to check their asses and to undo all the trauma and oppression they placed upon us as women. It's time for women to rise up. Men want to control our bodies like in the Hand Maidens Tale. We must prevent that from happening.

We have already seen what happens when you give a man complete control and authority over you when he doesn't deserve it.

There is only One God.✝️🌹

[Z1pTD]

I think they have a lot of good qualities that should be sought after :)

[Secret6620]

I really like your answer! Thank you for sharing your thoughts 💭

[Badgirlnatalia]

They are fine as long as they can take care of themselves

[Secret6620]

Exactly! Women should never expect a man to pay for their maintenance. Especially if they are high maintenance because that's selfish. I agree with your post because I know that's the correct attitude to have.

Excellent question feedback! Your response really resonated with me.

[litty736]

I try to be. Works in my favor. Men are willing to help me more.

[Secret6620]

Right!!! 💯

[A_Nihilist]

If they're super timid they can he annoying as hell. I'm talking to a person. Not a doll.

[Secret6620]

Oh no! I'm a timid soul but I have a good heart ✝️💜

[theycallme_jd]

I feel I might know a few of them and personally, I dislike it. I'm just not into it. Never. No.

[theycallme_jd]

Or maybe I understood the term wrong. I am speaking about girls who talk a lot, use excessive emojis, aren't bold, are loud and squeaky... I hope you get the point.

[Secret6620]

Oh yes! It has a stigma attached to it. But if you can look beyond that you'll realize that you can actually enjoy a very feminine woman by your side.

[theycallme_jd]

I do have a friend who's like a sister to me and she's very much feminine. I find her a cutie pie and she makes my day better at times. These type of women I don't prefer as life partners but as you said, yes I can have a good time laughing with them.

[Anonymous]

I'm imaging a self-important gold digger that's overly dressed up. Not a fan

[Secret6620]

That's definitely not nice. Should probably take a nap cranky racist man.