What should I reply to him when he texted me “ you’re my type”?

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Heyy guys,
I have a question, there’s a guy that I got to know him from bumble and then we shared our socials and chatted for a period of time and then i guess he started to lose interest or sth cause he took so long to reply. So i did the same and stopped talking but he saw my stories and then he replied back on one of my stories and while chatting he said “ the problem is that you are so my type” and I don’t know what to say, but I feel like he saying that just to feed his ego and see if i still like him or not. And I don’t know what to say

P. S: yes i still like him but dude no I think you’re toxic😂

SueShe · Accepted Answer

You are aware I hope that those dating sites are actually hookup dates in disguise, right?

When you did not seem to make a move towards meeting him, he simply lost interest in you, knowing he could probably not get into your pants. That is probably the most likely answer. What happens next, he moves to the next victim because this guy is a player, just like most of them on those hookup platforms.

The way I see it, he was not successful with the subsequent victims and then in a desperate move came back and gave you this cringe "you're my type" sentence. It simply means that he hopes to have better luck if he butters you up with such meaningless phrases.

Yes he is toxic because your romance will be short lived. Once he has gotten you where he wants you to be and fornicated a few times, you will just be number 264 on his list. Time for him to make a move onto victim #265.

Wake up before you regret it.

Delle123 · Accepted Answer

Don't respond and block/unblock so you don't follow each other. He's trying to play you. Flatter you just enough to string you along without having any intention of ever being in a relationship with you

spartan55 · Accepted Answer

Respond to him: "Well that's cool, then why haven't you asked me out yet?"

PointlessNonsenseGuy · Accepted Answer

Ask him, "Why is that a problem? And what's your type?"

Avicenna · Answer

I'd ask him why that's a problem...

rachel776 · Answer

O positive...

dustybiker2 · Answer

He thinks you're a problem? Sounds like he's deciding between too many woman. I'd be inclined to tell him to come back when interested. And keep looking.

sheikalana · Answer

Just like his comment and leave him on read LOL. See what happens...

Confucious900 · Answer

I'm going to be blunt. But I recognize this and truth of it is he is a player. That's all I will say.

laly520 · Answer

in my opinion there is no need to even reply to him

LaurenM1997 · Answer

He probably says that to all the girls he’s talking to 😒

Anonymous · Answer

Just flip it back on him and ask what makes you his type. Holy fuck whoever says it's harder for woman can go to hell.

Nikki1989 · Answer

You know men will say whatever they think you want to hear. Don't fall for it.

Olgamasha · Answer

Ask him - why it took so long until he tells you that? And why is it a problem?

moneymagnet24 · Answer

You should reply - Aw thank you for saying I'm your type you made my day 🥰🥰 you have good taste but sorry you're not my type..😂

Anonymous · Answer

Reply back with how fascinated you are with the speech your gender studies professor gave on toxic masculinity at the end of this year.👍

GoGetitGio · Answer

Well it depends how interested are you in this guy?

strateguy632 · Answer

not for ego! say "which part?"

Fireguy17 · Answer

Ask him what makes you his type.

DrPepper12 · Answer

Flip a coin. This could go either way.

In_Trance · Answer

I wouldn't waste the time

SYTHOX · Answer

Ask him "dtf?"

Anonymous · Answer

Female?

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