Coffee Question? Girls I’m confused lol?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been working out at the gym for sometime and I always noticed this pretty girl that works out there. I never really paid attention to her until she made eye contact with me and we were doing that A LOT for sometime throughout weeks. I hate bothering women in the gym so last week I was training a friend and I went up to her and asked if I could use the machine she was using she said yea and smiled (she was a little awkward lol) but after I finished trained him I went outside and there she was, I struck up a semi awkward convo but give her my ig and we asked each other where we lived. The energy I had with her was similar to when I met my ex girlfriend, very weird.

Anyway she always watches my stories and by the next time I saw her, we chatted briefly cause we were done at the gym and i gave her my phone and she put her number in. We agreed to getting coffee and chatting (I don’t consider this a date but more getting to know them) and by the next day I texted her (in a funny and teasing way) to set it up for next weekend because I was busy this week and that I look forward to just chatting. She texts me back laughing and makes a joke about herself then says that she is busy that weekend and the next three/four weekends after that because she won’t be home and she has a ton going on but she’ll let me know if her weekend frees up.

I poked fun of her back and said sounds good :)

Anyway, I’ve dated women for a long time now and I know that when she says she’ll let you know that means she isn’t interested but I’m confused I’m just trying to get to know the girl before I even consider dating her and I thought she was interested lol. She watches all my ig stories still lol but what does that response to the coffee text mean?

[Smashingdoozy]

Sounds like she's busy? I don't know what else to tell you. She told you that she was busy for few weekends. Which is like very specific. It's not just a "oh no I'm busy this weekend sorry" if she didn't want to she wouldn't have said that she would let you know she would have just kept making up excuses. Which it doesn't sound like she is doing.

[Jena-Min]

My friend, I think she's interested in you, despite what you think!
You should definitely follow up with her and do your best to impress her. Be interesting, have interesting conversation topic and qualities that might intrigue her, show her that you have your own world and that she'll want to be part of it. Constatly come up with new topics, initiatives and activities, and she'll be guessing what you are doing next. Be original, and willing to share. Smile and don't be shy, talk with everyone and adapt to situations.
Good luck!

[TommyMountainFigure]

When you first talk to someone new there is either a chemistry there, or there isn't. I get the feeling there is between you, so try and see through the 'busy' remarks as I think there is a real chance of something with this girl.

[Avicenna]

Maybe she's genuinely busy

[Iron_Man]

Just get to it and start dating her in person