Has anyone else had such a frustrating experience?

[Anonymous]

I went on a date with a guy three weeks ago. He was sweet and a real gentleman.
After our date I texted him as soon as I arrived at home, that I had had a very nice evening. He replied to that, writing the same.
Then, he texted me 6 days later just to ask me what I would do next weekend. I told Hum my plans. He replied with an easy "great" I asked him what he was going to do. He send me one single sentence. That he would be studying. I tried to make a conversation by telling him, that I liked cooking and sending him a picture about my recent creation. He just replied that it looked good. No question nothing else. I assumed he might not be interested and moved on. 10 days later on Wednesday he texted me again asking me if I would join him on a party at Wednesday a Week later.. I agreed. After that he didn't text me until Saturday. His texts where barely a sentence. Nothing very deep. On Monday I decided to to drop him canceled.
I feel hurt.
Sorry for the mistakes. English is not my native language.

[SallyTho87]

Maybe this person isn't big on texting? Maybe he values personal in time together, and reaches out only to stay in touch and make plans? He could enjoy your company as a friend, and sounds like he is interested in you enough to make future plans, and reach out to you by his choice.

Does he work? Does he attend school? Is he a busy person overall? These things can have a huge role in his free time too, which could be why the late responses or the days without hearing from him.

I think he is showing interest, but not a LOT of interest. He sounds like he enjoys your company, and maybe isn't sure if he wants to progress with you relationship wise, but still wants to spend time with you and do things together, like the party.
If you are unsure, you can always ask him directly on how he is feeling about your friendship at this time, and if ask what he is looking for.

He could be warming up to you, or actively dating multiple people at once so he can figure out who his best match is and who he sees is relationship material.

[Raaj4you]

He is not serious as you are. Find a guy who is compatible or who is seriously interested in dating you. I understood what kind of guy you are looking for. Some guys are really excited about dating, having a girlfriend and some guys are not.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, that sort of thing happens quite often in dating.

[Anonymous]

He’s not serious. He’s probably dating many women.

[Asker]

Yeah that was my gutfeeling too. That's why I removed him from my contacts

[In_Trance]

So block him and move on. This is part of the dating game