Why am I keep getting rejected as a pretty woman?

[Anonymous]

People always tell me im pretty. When i went out on dates, the guys always tell me im gorgeous and im literally their ideal type. They also said it’s fun to hangout with me. Im also polite and nice.

Somehow ended up im keep getting ghosted from them.

by the way, the guys i went out with all were looking for relationships, so its nothing about them only want sex or something like that.

[Angelo75]

Perhaps there is something in your attitude that scares em away?

Stuff like "I want to just pursue my carreer and don't have for a family or kids" could scare some guys.
Or "I expect the guy to adore me and throw his whole life away for me..." but you don't bring anything to the table except "being polite".
Or "Your family hates the guy" or is too picky.

There is literally a dozen type of things that could scare a guy off even though you have the looks to initially attract guys for the first conversation.

[Asker]

I think maybe im not being affectionate enough. I don’t know how to flirt with guys…they might think it’s hard to get close to me

[Angelo75]

The only thing I can tell you is to not "overthink" stuff.
Try to just be yourself and don't be too harsh on yourself.

Apart from that, well, perhaps you could change environments where you look for guys.
If you're used to looking for them at a dateclub, go to a park.
If you're used to bumping into guys in the park, then try the beach.

What I'm saying is, certain people will hang out in certain places. Maybe the type of guy that has a higher chance of wanting to settle down with you isn't the guy you find at the park. Maybe it's the type of guy that likes to hang out at the beach.

[Finchie40]

Are you selfish? Do you have a selfish mindset? Basically your way or no way mindset? If so, most guys’ will not settle down with a girl , that thinks she is supposed to be catered to at all times , Most guys’ want a girl that is his partner , that works with him , not against him, Basically it’s you and him verse the world. If your expectations is to be catered to? your chances of getting into a relationship will not be easy for you.

[patois]

Well clearly they are interested in whatever you're offering up. Without ever talking to you to judge your interpersonal skills, knowing what sort of conversations you have had on dates, anything about your personality, etc. it would just be a blind guess. So either cough up so details or don't expect to get any real answers.

[DarkLegacy]

That is because you are not a pretty person. You bring nothing to the table do you now. Us men are not just there to please you women, you need to put what we want back into it. Otherwise pump and dump

[Asker]

I don’t know what men want. I grew up in a family without men and always been surrounded by girls…i work hard to be pretty and i have a good heart. But what do y'all want?

[ManInChains]

You probably don't bring anything to the table other than the fact that you're attractive

[Asker]

What do guys expect from a girl other than being attractive and nice?

[ManInChains]

Someone to care for him and his children. Someone to help him through life.

[DarkLegacy]

@maninchains Her reply back shows she is a typical, entitled modern woman

[DryGermanGuy]

You might be boring, have nothing to say, no own opinions, no personality…

[ProbablyClueless]

Tough to say without interacting with you. Could be a personality thing.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Pretty doesn't mean alshit to a man. Are you interesting, responsible, can you take care of children. That's literally all we want.

[jahaims]

They were being nice and don't like your personality

[Nifrayu]

I can definitely relate to this, but I don't know the answer either.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Maybe you come off as high maintenance?

[OddBeMe]

Why do you need their approval?

[DextroShade]

Did they smash?