Does "I'll let you know" mean for sure that she's blowing you off?

[Anonymous]

I know of most of the time it's the case, she's telling you gently that she isn't interested - even though most people would prefer the girl to be a bit more direct.

But take my situation:

Met a girl Friday night and we got along quite well. I'm more used to the slow approach but on this occasion I was in a confident mood and escalated quite rapidly.

At one point I wrapped my arm around her waist and kissed the side of her head a couple of times, and guess what? She wrapped her arm around mine too !

I proceeded to ask her whether we could go on a date sometime and asked her to put her number in my phone. She said yes and gave me her number - her real one.

I sent her a text saying "Hey it's John from Friday night, how's the recovery going :) ?" and this is how the rest of the conversation went:

Her: "Hey, ohh it's been alright haha how about you?"



Me: "Was asleep till 5pm yesterday, felt like my brain was in my stomach hehe :) I got half a day on Wednesday, want to grab a coffee together, say 7?"



Her: "Were you haha! I had to work 11 till 7 yesterday! I'm in work till 9 on Wednesday."

Me: "Hardcore haha you working part time? Does Friday sound better, would really like to get to know you better!"

Her: "I am ye :) Friday might be alright, but I won't know for sure till Wednesday, I get a weekly Rota that runs Friday to Friday, but I don't get given it till Wednesdays."

Me: "Where are you working? I really want to get a part time job as a lifeguard, I've got the licence and all. I see, well let me know whether you can make it will you, don't worry I don't bite :)"

Her: "I work at the cinema :) Ohh that sounds cool. Ye I'll let you know :)"

Me: "Thanks, have a nice night :)"

Her: "You too :)"

Smooth euh? haha.

So, does it sound like she's blowing me off? Or am I seriously over-analysing?

Of course I'll wait till Wednesday/Thursday, but I just want to know whether I have a chance with her - she's just my type, sweet, cute and shy :)

Be bluntly honest I don't mind, I'm not really good with girls to be honest.

[Dannie0613]

I think you have a good chance!

And I don't you are not good with girls.At least,I wouldn't blow you off if I were her.Haha :)

Anyway,you have to wait for a couple days to know how she feels,but don't get worried and good luck!

[Asker]

Yes I know, I will give all the time she needs and I'll go on with my days until she texts me :)

But, do all the signs point out that she is at least a bit interested?

[Dannie0613]

Certainly!

I am quite sure that she would go out with you.So,rest assured.:)

[Asker]

Ok, I'll let you know how it goes :)

[Ariaaa]

It sounds like she's interested :) It doesn't sound like she's going to forget you

[Asker]

What do you mean? Do you think I gave her a good first impression. Admittedly I was a bit drunk when I first met her, but I don't think I came on too strong. I was just overwhelmed by her cuteness :3

[Ariaaa]

I think she wouldn't have replied and kept talking to you if she didn't want to hang out with you again.

[oolala18]

No she seemed genuine. Its not like she was making excuses she was only letting you know if she wouldn't be able to make she has her reasons and she described that to you. Patience young grasshopper. Wait until she contacts you.

[teacup]

yes blowing you off. I alwayyys say ill let you know