Should Women Date Men Who Are Poor/Broke?

[Aphrodite801]

I see why women tell each other all the time to not date a broke/poor man now. My last 2 exes were broke and they were miserable. They ruined it for me, I will never date a broke man again. I would ask why they are so much more miserable than broke/poor women but I feel like I know the answer to that.

Yes women should date men who are broke/poor

No women should not date men who are broke/poor

[Anonymous]

Not having money increases your unhappiness, correct, but money doesn't necessarily equal a good relationship. A guy with tons of cash is glamorized on social media. Still, I don't know if those types of relationships would make you happier in terms of the relationship. Take the Sinaloa Cartel wives, for example. Or maybe a rich guy like Jeffrey Epstein is very unhinged. Elon Musk and Donald Trump have been through plenty of divorces. It takes a particular type of person to make a bunch of money; usually, they are more cold and often lack empathy and that might hurt your relationship with them making you feel miserable. So maybe there is some middle-ground you want to establish? Or I am not sure what exactly you are looking for. It depends on the woman.

My answer is no money at all is going to make you feel shitty, but a guy whose soul focus is his money might not be any better if he's someone like El Chapo or Jefferey Epstein. Rich people are still vulnerable to being just as miserable and psychotic as a poor person. Money doesn't change any of that. To me I think someone who prioritizes a healthy work life and makes a reasonably good salary and still takes of himself both psychologically and physically is the ideal partner. But again, everyone has there taste, so I don't know for sure Maybe El Capo is a math made in heaven for some people.

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[Aphrodite801]

You are right, I am just done being with men who can’t provide basic needs for themselves

[Opinion Owner]

Do you see yourself being in a relationship with a guy like Andrew Tate?

[Aphrodite801]

Of course not, I’d rather be single than be with an ahole like that. He’s a baby father of 10+ kids that I KNOW he isn’t taking care of.

[Aphrodite801]

Are you an Andrew Tate follower? That guy is literally a predator.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly as long as he's working and is motivated it's find. No money will just increase your unhappiness, but money is not the only thing. You still need a good salary to enjoy life. But you shouldn't work more harder and not enjoy life at all. You should work hard and still enjoy life.

[Aphrodite801]

Yeah that’s what I said, but I won’t be with a broke guy. I just really see why women tell other women that now

[RebelinSteel]

People should date who they feel attraction to, have compatibility with, money should be really low down that list. While money helps, people can be boring, miserable even in high paying jobs. Equally you get plenty people happy with their lot and who would be considered poor but brighten up any room they enter.

[Aphrodite801]

🤔 so you would be ok with your daughter dating and having a kid with a poor man?

[Aphrodite801]

Money is low on the list, not being broke is a basic standard for someone who wants to get into a relationship and has plans of starting a family later

[RebelinSteel]

Must be a bugger for those in society who are actually poor. Also define poor? You can have a really good job in South of UK, but you may have 70% of income as mortgage and not much cash to socialise or decent car, clothes etc.

[Aphrodite801]

Broke/poor for me is not being able to buy yourself food or clothes. I’m done dealing with men who can’t provide basic stuff for themselves.

[RebelinSteel]

As I said if you work in a decent job in Kent, average house price £600k, majority of your income is on mortgage, food, energy bills. A friend works for Oracle really good income but not much cash for anything else. It’s that disposable income bit.

[Aphrodite801]

There really is no excuse as a grown man to not be able to buy food and clothes.

[RebelinSteel]

Yes there are always food banks and charity shops. I guess living in a high unemployment area is not an excuse then. They are plenty people living on or just above the poverty line. If you do not want to date one, and need them to have plenty disposable income, then I guess that is your choice.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't look into the wallet but I prefer responsible men who can take care of themselves and pay their bills. I raised my kids and am not interested in babysitting of a man...

[emeraldsaphire]

I'd date a man who is broke or poor! It's about love and compatibility not if you got thought phat stacks of cash X

[LunarEclipse433]

A man should be able to provide at least for himself so he doesn’t bring his mate down. If his mate is broke he should make enough
To help her if he wants to be with her providing she is trying to at least get even. This probably doesn’t make sense reading it

[Dharmabummin]

My husband and I made the same amount of money when we started dating 25 years ago. We struggled financially for years building our life. We just paid off our house, and we are both retiring early. The goal is to grow and evolve together.

[LiamJHayden]

People should date any agreeable adult whom they want to date.

[Alex8736]

As the TLC song goes "I don't want no scrubs" 😇

[FenixG45]

Date whomever you like