If money doesn't matter to a lot of women, would they date a homeless man?

[Anonymous]

a lot of women say that money doesn't matter in a relationship

[kylee2437]

Money does matter to me, because you can’t happily function if you are both struggling to make ends meet. I don’t want to be in a struggleship. I don’t understand why people glorify struggling together.

[Asker]

Honestly bravo. You're realistic about things. There are some things that do keep a relationship moving forward and financial stability is one of them. There's nothing wrong with that but a lot of people aren't being honest with themselves here besides you

[kylee2437]

@asker I grew up with a mother that financially will never have it together and it’s been ruining my family since I was a kid. My father lives a lot more comfortably than my mother does and it’s because he has the means to. Honestly people that say money doesn’t matter come from familys where both parents generationally failed to give their kids a stable life financially and now they are used to that mindset.

[Asker]

Until they're put in that situation then they'll be tested

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Having an excessive amount of money doesn't matter to most women. That's where this topic gets skewed.
But having a life and a roof over your head is important to everyone.

It's not like women expect the man to be the one providing for her, but she doesn't want a guy who can't carry his own weight either.

Although some women still end up with guys who always borrow their car and steal money from them. So it can't be that important to all of them

[WanderingLoveWizard]

One of my girlfriends went back to her ex who did exactly what I said in the last sentence.
She left me, a good looking man with ambition who has his shit together and treated her right, for an actual piece of fucking shit who trashes her car and steals from her to support his heroin habit

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Guess he had a bigger dick or something. I don't know

[BoopBoopBeep]

I think in everything there's an implied minimal standard.

"Would you date someone who was sick?"

Sure.

What if they have AIDS, Leprosy, MRSA, Syphilis and bubonic plague... oh and the Ebola test is inconclusive.

Well let's reconsider things

"You're an ableist!"

[Dinklex3]

I’ve visited a homeless shelter before.

A lot of the men have girlfriends and were already coupled up.

When my sister was 19 she literally followed her boyfriend and slept outside with him because he was homeless and wasn’t allowed in our house, lol.

There are different factors that can play into homelessness. You could not want to date someone who is homeless and still not care about someone’s finances.

[Asker]

Does this generally happen though?

[Dinklex3]

Does what generally happen?

[Asker]

Where women will date homeless men

[Dinklex3]

As I’ve stated the ones I spoke with at the homeless shelter were dating each other. Homeless men were dating homeless women.

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you believe that the only difference between a homeless person and everyone else is money?

[Asker]

Homeless wouldn't be homeless if they had money

[OlderAndWiser]

You are very naive.

[Asker]

Sure i am 👍

[OlderAndWiser]

Good! Admitting the problem is the first step.

[ImHere22]

Such a dumb question. When women say 'money doesn't matter', they're not talking about if the guy had zero money; they're referring to who makes more than whom in the relationship. If your partner makes 1-2-3x more than you, it shouldn't matter in the long-run because you have each other. Or if you're both low in the financial scale together, that means you're in it together. It doesn't mean she's down to live on the streets. That's taking it seriously way too far dude.

[WilmaReportu]

How old are you? Reported.

[richardcory]

Being homeless is about more than money, it usually (not always) means not having real control of your life, and not having full access to necessities.

[Anonymous]

Like attracts like if the woman is fucked up as bad as the man then yes it might work, two fucked up undesirables attracted to each other. If the woman ain't fucked up and homeless , then the fucked up homeless man better have a big bank account and being homeless is only a show. Women are mercenary motherfuckers.

[UniquelyBasic]

I guess up to a point some don't care. I mean if you're able to pay your bills and live comfortably then it's probably not an issue depending on the kind of life the woman wants to live.

[WhitneySnow]

My cousin’s friend did date a homeless man. She was in college and met him through Habitat for Humanity (I think).

[Asker]

Luck is a factor in dating

[WhitneySnow]

True

[Boomchakalaca]

“ a lot of women say that money doesn't matter in a relationship”


Bitch where 🔭

[Asker]

The women's comments should tell you

[Boomchakalaca]

I guess, but there would be no joy in going out to movies, dates, dinner, and carnivals. Yes, people can make it work but it’s difficult. My mans spends a lot of money for the both of us and especially me bc he likes making me feel like a princess

[Nikki1989]

Yes, my husband was unemployed and live in a motor home with no electricity when I first met him. Money is overrated.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean a man should be lazy or not try to make any money

[Nikki1989]

Did I say that?

[Asker]

No but you should always do something beneficial for you just in case

[inhua]

actions speak louder than words. don't listen to what they say. observe what they do

[LiamJHayden]

Saying "money doesn't matter" probably means within reason, like he doesn't need to be pulling $200K+, not that she'll have to support him.

[SolitarySolace]

Money does matter to women. Otherwise there wouldn’t be gold diggers.

[JoshSimmer]

They don't and if they do they are just as broke or homeless. Men look for homemaker and women look for providers.

[DextroShade]

They lie or they hide it by saying "He needs to have ambition"

[Anonymous]

A homeless man is about as attractive to a woman as a single mom is to a man.

[In_Trance]

money matters