Do people bring out different sides of you, or are you always the same? What brings those sides out?

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rtj1211 · Accepted Answer

Of course different things come out depending on how you are treated. If someone treats you with contempt and lack of civility, an ice-cold put down is certainly in order.

If someone praises you publicly, then you are more likely to show gratefulness and to treat them similarly in future.

If someone sees you lacking confidence and knows how to overcome the blocks causing that lack of confidence, then of course you will emerge far more confident as a result of the encounters/relationship.

You are only the same if you are stuck in your ways, not open to future growth.

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

there are no different sides to me... I am all of them at once, but there are levels, angles, layers and all of them are about perspective from the outside

and there's also moments... there's a moment for everything, and everyone as well, lol

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

My personality is made up of many different layers, and I do have a chameleon kind of way about me. Not everyone can bring all of this out and depending on the person usually they bring out one side of me just because it takes a long time to figure me out in my whole entirety. Just when you think that's all there is to me that's when I surprise people. And there are very few, close to none that are willing it seems to put in the work, time and effort to want to see all the sides to me.

tiredpanda · Accepted Answer

Definitely. My core personality is always the same, but I can be more reserved, serious and shy around some people. With people I feel comfortable with, I'm much more relaxed and playful. I think it mostly depends on how comfortable I feel around someone.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

My aim on GAG is to decode messy human behavior with a little charm and a lot of honesty 😏

People 100% bring out different sides of you. A playful flirty side with someone you’re attracted to, a calm nurturing side with family, a guarded side with walking red flags, a confident side with supportive friends.

Energy, safety, attraction and trust flip those switches inside you like crazy.

DishLady · Answer

Some folks bring the sweet side out of you bc you’re marching the energy they’re giving you. Some bring out your aggressive side for the same reason.

ohsheeT · Answer

Im the same no matter what no matter what is happening im calm collected  I think that's because I can see both sides of everything

queenofcardio · Answer

I'm more energetic and hyper around other people who are the same way. Our energies bounce off each other, which is so much fun because then you aren't judged for who you are. A lot of people don't understand how it becomes natural for some of us.

TsundereMatrix · Answer

I have a friend that I’m so comfortable with that I have fear of being my weird self around her and she’s also a bit weird herself so it just works. I’m just naturally a goofy person and so sometimes that weirds people out and they don’t want to be around me.

rose_noire · Answer

Different sides, same core.

I'm always me, but people are different mirrors.

Some people bring out my calm. Some bring out my playful, dorky side.

Some make me more guarded, some make me feel safe enough to be completely honest.

It's not that I'm fake.
It's that we all have many rooms inside us.

Who you feel safe with decides which door you open.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, sometimes the bitch comes out.

Deniz27 · Answer

every person teaches us something in this life.

Some people are bad and some people are good.

We live in this life because we are here to learn something and the important thing is taking the lessons from people who we know.

Meeting people are not a coincidence.

There is no coincidence.

MrChinaski · Answer

Four types.

1. Those that inspire me to be a better person.

2. Those I want to help to be better people.

3. Those whose company I just enjoy being around and learn from.

4. Baby seals who I prove my intellectual and moral superiority over.

4 is pretty dysfunctional behaviour... we all have them, right? 1, 2 and 3 in one package is my perfect relationship.

Med_guy1978 · Answer

The only keeper of your happiness is you. Stop giving people power to control your smile, your worth and your attitude. I believe in this, so I try to stay away from toxic people.

Account · Answer

I am not entirely sure I understand the question. but I will answer it, the core is the same and cannot be changed.  The demeanor can differ though.

Spencer10 · Answer

I think I am a bit like a chameleon... I do tend to adapt to the people around me. If a person is quiet I can be quiet. If a person is spontaneous so can I... I do tend to go with the flow.

Clara4567 · Answer

People bring different parts of me, of course I am always the same but I behave differently depending on the people around me or the situation I am into

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Very rare people can bring out a better side of me.

jazzy34 · Answer

I act accordingly. For example, if someone is rude to me, let's just say I'm not going to waste my kindness on them.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

@ElenaLena sure, so do inspiring movies, tv shows, real news :) everything always inspires me how to improve or lead my life 🧬 😊

andreasderjuengere · Answer

My different sides are with me at all times.  It depends on from where one looks at me to how I am perceived or experienced. So it's up to ''them'' - not me - who sets the scene.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Not different sides but deeper layers of the same one. Not everybody can get everything out of me ;)

Saddlebread · Answer

My answer: Defer to what I read from my Intro to Sociology textbook about people acting differently when alone. Unlike much of the text, this statement was something people on both sides of the political aisle can agree with.

TonyMetal___1986 · Answer

I'm always myself, i don't like it when people brings out the monster in me, they wouldn't like it at all, i'll also become dangerous!

virgo2267 · Answer

My ex brings out the beast… my current girlfriend brings out Prince Charming

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Im the same for the most part but certain people bring out certain things in me some good some bad😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

radiomechanic · Answer

Depends if tjey bring out my docile side or my aggressive side. I must be handled carefully.

Abbycado · Answer

I’m the same all the time

_Jenny_ · Answer

@elenalena I am always the same

Paige2006 · Answer

Usually the same

AgentG111 · Answer

Oh they definitely can.

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