Do you think I should slide in her DMs?

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I've been following this girl for a while. Never met her. So pretty. She sometimes likes my stuff. Looks single.  Should I slide in her insta dm? If so what do I say?

SueShe · Accepted Answer

The question here is: What is your ultimate goal when you want to slide into her direct mail? What are your intentions? What do you hope for?

If it is ultimately to get into her pants, then don't. Girls know very well why a total stranger suddenly finds interest in them. It is not rocket science and in 95% of the cases, a guy will slide into her mail because he ultimately hopes to have something more intimate with her.

If it is solely to exchange views on something that both interest you, such as astronomy, flowers or photography for example but without ever wanting anything else, then yes, you can try your luck.

What you can say is that you share the same hobby as her for example and that you find her posts interesting. Simply keep it platonic at all times and don't start with innuendos or anything similar.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sure, what do you have to lose? Ask her a question about a post she’s done. Don’t be creepy but be interested. And don’t make it about her looks. Good luck!!

Rosexøxø · Answer

I’d say no because it’s too risky of being a scam. It’s better to of. Loses meet people in public or work force, and on social networks like games or so. Just a “picture book” like insta is enough for any shallow person to be a catfish/ cat phish or a fully grown, adult scammer. You can try it, but just be wary/ don’t expect much from it, and try to keep things conversational instead of favor/ transactional. Unless it’s very simple and mutual like nxdes or one night stand or you know, something a bit more wholesome/ long-term. What do you say? Find out if she’s legit by witty questions or some type of pick up line and see if “she” responds like a human lol Best to you. Keep confidential information- confidential. :]

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

"Slide into DMs" Who talks like that? 😂

Anyway you are trying to fly before you crawl.

You don't know her, dating her isn't something that should be your priority.
If it seems like she likes the same stuff as you, make friends with her, and see where it goes.

Anonymous · Answer

She'll probably ignore you. They get a lot of similar attention. Find someone who likes you back upfront.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Really? Life that bad?

Wise4myage · Answer

I say go for it, or at the very lease start liking her comments.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

You miss all the shots you don't take

Daniela1982 · Answer

Where do you see her at? Instagram?

HouseMoat · Answer

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take

VabAmy · Answer

It doesn't hurt to say hi - just don't be cringe

ShadowGirl7 · Answer

don't until you know what to say.

laly520 · Answer

go for it

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