Could you date someone who hates partying and thinks beer is awful?

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I don’t party like I use to , compared to when I was younger, but I still like to party here and there and have fun with friends’ and socializing with people , meeting girls’ and having some beers and having a good time. Now that I am single , I would like to find a girl that enjoys doing the same , but I met a girl that doesn’t really like to party at all and I don’t think she is a good match for me because of it. I dated non party girls’ before and they all bitched and complained when I wanted to have a few beers and hang out with friends’ and mingle with people , so I told myself I will never date a girl like that again that doesn’t enjoy unwinding and having a good time. Could you date someone that didn’t find the enjoyment to party once in awhile? That thinks beer is the worst thing on the planet?

Lliam · Accepted Answer

I couldn't care less if someone hates beer. I don't like it all that much, myself.

It would be a drag to be with someone who didn't like to have fun, but I would be turned off by someone who liked to get wasted and party.

I used to party like a rock star in high school and through the first half of my 20s. I went to rock concerts about once a week. But I never liked bars or dance clubs with laughing, screaming girls and loud people in those kinds of settings.

I've been married for 30 years to a wonderful woman who likes to do fun things and have a good time. She liked dance clubs when she was young.
She enjoys the occasional beer where I prefer wine or cocktails. I quit smoking weed over 20 years ago.

We go to dinners, parties and get togethers where people act like adults.
We go on vacations and do lots of fun things. We even have a few drinks on occasion.
I don't miss partying like a Viking. Been there, done that. I'm glad my wife isn't much of a drinker and doesn't get wild and stupid like she did with her friends when she was young.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

If partying includes becoming drunk or high, I can handle a woman who doesn't want that. I prefer a woman who drinks socially but moderately. I want a woman who can relax and let her guard down, a woman who feels comfortable is social settings, but who is not addicted to social stimulation.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

It just seems like your idea of how you unwind is completely different than the way this girl unwinds.

You're almost 50 years old and are still living the lifestyle from when you were a teenager. You're what we used to call 'A party animal'.

You need to find someone who lives your type of lifestyle. Usually as people grow up and become more mature, they stop living like a teenager.

Having fun now and then with friends is nice, but getting shit faced on beer🍺 🍻 (which you saw a few innocent beers 🙄) and partying isn't exactly an ideal date for a girl or a woman.

TsundereMatrix · Accepted Answer

Definitely. I used to party in my early college years but I have settled down as I got older. I also never liked beer. I’ll have like a rum and coke or a cooler every once in a while.

Last year my neighbor bought me a whole case of Twisted Tea for my birthday. That case lasted me a whole year. I took the last drink of it on my birthday this year and next thing I know the neighbor is back with another case lol

DishLady · Answer

I enjoy a nice party and while I do feel beer is awful for me, it's something guys seem to enjoy.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely!! Beer IS awful and I rarely ever go to parties. Most of them have been QUITE boring, for me!! I have no one to talk to, nothing to do. I spend 3 or 4 hours with my thumbs up my ass growing cobwebs and collecting dust!!
If there's a record collection handy, I'll go through it for a few hours. If there's a pool table, I'll shoot pool the whole time I'm there. All anybody else ever wants to do is bullshit and get drunk!! OH, BOY!! CHEAP THRILLS!
I look at it as a huge waste of my time! It's nice to be invited and to be around other people for a change but, once they start talking, they split up and go into separate rooms together and I'm sat there with nothing to do and no one to talk to! I COULD be home doing things on my various writing and recording projects!!

Jersey2 · Answer

Yes. Alcohol is highly overrated. It’s just fungus (yeast) piss (ethanol) that your body and liver cannot process properly and it becomes an impurity that affects the brain until it is eliminated. It is promoted by amazing marketing to get people to think it is special. I fell for it for a long time. No looking back now.

A lot of women don’t like the taste of beer. At least she can be a designated driver. But she seems to be the smarter one. You can be sober while out partying. Its fun to watch the effects on people and then be glad it is not you being that way.

CuriousTenya · Answer

The Beer/Alcohol part doesn't bother me. Cool.

When it comes to partying: Does she not like any type of dancing event? Does she not dance at all? As someone who's huge passion is dances (I've learned some Latino dance styles, and multiple Swing styles), it would be a big thing if she'll not dance at all. Only if we share some other hobbies would it not be a deal-breaker. Dancing connects people like even sex doesn't.

But if she doesn't like typical hard parties than that's no biggy.

browsingthroughthe · Answer

@Finchie40 Remember I don't drink 🍷🍷🍻 and remember I love to party but not the way most folks do.

All I need is my non drinking wife or girlfriend and a dance floor to ourselves and we're happy campers 😜😈👌🏻 Finchie, those who need an audience or a spectacle are the real F-wits 😤😋

NathanDavis · Answer

my 20's were over long time ago... lmfao

but, even back then... I didn't care, I don't like beer myself but I just had no interest on it... as long as they're not alcoholics I don't mind if people drink or not

some for partying... there's a time and place for everything, lol

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Answer

Might be a good strategy for cutting. You can probably compromise a bit. And maybe she's wonderful and inspires us to stop drinking. Let's cut the beers for our Cinderella. If you find she inspires enough then, in my case at least, I would dump all the alcohol in the world for her. I only started drinking to get a girlfriend, anyway, and because my friends wanted me to (unfortunately a bit of an alcoholic now).

JHNS98 · Answer

I am one such person myself. I can easily get overwhelmed if there's too much noise around me, and I hate the taste of beer. I once went to a club with college classmates, went into the roon where the dancefloor was, and went straight back out again. It was packed... and girls were screaming the lyrics of the songs that were playing.

I've been on two non-alcoholic dates before, as a teenager. None of them went anywhere though – not because of the lack of alcohol, but because we never got a conversation going. I also had a friend with benefits a couple of years back, and she useed to bring me dancing, which felt amazing.

Jackblue · Answer

Depends on what you mean by partying. Going to the bar having a drink or two and talking is fine, but wild rave events is probably something you should stop by your late 20's. If a woman was a huge killjoy I might not want to be around here, but if she is just being sensible then she might not be such a bad choice.

WhiteSteve · Answer

I don’t know, man…you might be leaving some pretty good Uber savings on the table

OneViewpoint · Answer

Sure, I'm not much of a partier either and I don't much care what alcoholic beverage someone chooses.

Micheal6918 · Answer

Yes i can date someone who does not party, but she has to like beer so sometimes we can get high together.

queenofcardio · Answer

That's my preference. I don't drink at all.

loveslongnails · Answer

I can handle that, depending on their position regarding wine and spirits, and small groups. LOL :) Oh, and how attractive and intelligent she is. Almost forgot that.

Staximus · Answer

Yeah, the party is pretty much over for me. I used to do a lot of partying and socializing but now I’m on my own side mission. I guess I’m getting more antisocial as I age. I still like to go hang out with my friends every so often and she would have to be supportive of that if she was not going with me

Just_Ken · Answer

Sounds like my wife but means she's a good designated driver.

robocop666 · Answer

women dump their boyfrieds for going to ibiza. they think they wil cheat on them. unaware you cannot meet women in these tourist traps.

LBD04 · Answer

Definitely, I’m not a beer drinker. I prefer mixed drinks myself.

HighValue · Answer

I never drink alcohol so it would work well for me.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, as long as he doesn't tru to make me become like him.

Kathryn4_ · Answer

Beer, for sure. Partying, not so much. I’m a club woman.

Osborne775 · Answer

Yes absolutely. I used to party a lot when i was younger however nowadays i very rarely party but i do like to grab a few beers sometimes but not partying

AngryCarl3 · Answer

She doesn't have to drink beer herself, so long as she can deal with having it in the fridge.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I’m like that. I don’t drink or party and would never date someone who does. ”Unwind and have a good time” you say. I say if someone can’t unwind or have a good time without alcohol they have a serious alcohol problem.

LiamS95 · Answer

Well if she isn't drinking the beer all the more for you, she probably just wants a glass of wine.

DonaldDarko · Answer

Sure no problem. Better still if she wanted to go live in the remote Mojave desert.

Laulenke · Answer

Party what’s that have t been to one in over 20 years  One word for Beer  Naaaaaaasty give me a good mead or a glass of wine or hard cider and I’m good

exitseven · Answer

My wife was never into the party scene and she does not drink.

Anonymous · Answer

Am a non drinker , I wouldn’t date alcoholics

genericname85 · Answer

absolutely. seems like an adult who's not an alcoholic tbh.

Alexson_stormzy · Answer

Yes of course... Such lifestyle seems or tends to be modest

MrChinaski · Answer

Sure. I would date someone like that.

Paige2006 · Answer

I prefer that type of guy!

832dreamboy · Answer

No. Well, if she can't get on her grub.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

YESSSSSSS! I would prefer it, actually.

WhitneySnow · Answer

Sure

Butterfly2050 · Answer

Sure ! I don’t drink so it’s better

zagor · Answer

As long as she's willing to drive...

Stone_30 · Answer

Yes, because I don't like either

Darkest-Knight · Answer

Sounds like me... so yes I could date her.

JazzieJanna · Answer

Yesofc

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Answer

I prefer it

Cidknee · Answer

Yes.

AgentG111 · Answer

Yes.

radiomechanic · Answer

yes, sure.

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