Polls: Dating

https://www.vice.com/en/article/people-are-reverse-catfishing-on-dating-apps-now/

apparently this is a thing now. so in short this is an online dating trend where someone intentionally downplays their looks or status—using unflattering photos, outdated pictures, or omitting successes—to ensure potential matches like them for their personality rather than superficial traits.

She broke up with me for many reasons. Main reason I think is I didn’t make her feel special enough, she worried it could get messy. This girl was such a rare fine and too beautiful. I just can’t 😭. when we broke up I was hurt and told her not to contact me and unfollowed her off of instagram

I sent her a message 1.5 months after breakup a simple how are you etc.. she did ignore me

Message to send aswell as 100 roses 🥀

looking back on our relationship, I thought the connection we had was special and unique! The memories we made have stayed with me, I thought what we shared was genuinely meaningful. I do find myself thinking about you and wondering how you’re getting on, you meant a great deal to me and I still miss you much!

If you are open to it, I would really like to see you again and catch up it would be nice to hear from you 😊

When I last spoke to my ex she was really rude. She was horrible to me. I was just there taking the shots and saying sorry and I’ll do xyz to make her happy as I didn’t want her to leave.

When I look at the things I could have said about her, I could have said she’s emotionally unstable, insecure, v immature, flakey, selfish and not marriage material.

I should have ripped her apart. She painted me out as a bad partner when I was a good boyfriend to her.

If you reach either awkward silences or any awkwardness at all do you take that as a sign the date isn’t going well?

Neither of you work a traditional job, seek income from different sources, modest/minimal living conditions like a cheap apartment or RV/can, no kids, and having laterality to move around wherever you want?

I dated an incredibly beautiful girl and we had a good connection. She broke it off with me and was a bit dismissive at the end. I went silent and removed her off of instagram. It has been 1.5 months and I sent her a how are you message and had no reply. I am thinking of sending her a longer message like we had a meaningful connection - nothing cringe, but thoughtful.

Send her a big boquete of flowers and then if she doesn’t reply at least I tried my best!

I can’t imagine finding a girl like her

Do the go 100-0 quick too

Like having everything going for you, as opposed to just being ultra good looking.

Like if you can tick many boxes like good looking (maybe not super good looking) and tick all other boxes like tall, fit, successful and a good guy etc…

What makes a guy so rare? As it’s only super hot guys that get all the attention.

Like let’s say the girl left from a short but serious relationship. Years later do they check up on him.

To see what’s he up to.

Let’s say a guy is already doing well generally at 30. If he continues to work on himself and has good habits will his attractiveness continue to rise?