We have been on 3 dates. Have not had sex yet.
Seems a bit overly blunt sexual and painted in horniness where he couldn’t think of masking an intent.
I say this because usually you hear and I’ve heard from my partner that they want to live with you if they consider you important and inseparable from them. Being there at the same place? And for what? How long? Just a year and that’s it? Where does it begin? When does it end?
If he’s not saying “we,” or he wants to do more things with you and spend his time/ life with you then it’s not committed vibes or husband material.
If you want to have sex with him go for it, but considering the timing, I think
[A] he hasn’t gotten any
[B] he thinks you’re easy
[C] he doesn’t respect you
and it could honestly be any of the three even simultaneously.
If you planned to have sex with him, then him thinking you’re easy doesn’t matter, but respect does. You can want sex but make sure he respects your boundaries. Plan ahead if you’re not being a parent any time soon, and if he seems aggressive reconsider or have friends ready to meet up afterwards. Don’t date or hook up with anyone who seems like they have some personal issues, or don’t respect you as a person.
Don’t date anyone who gives hook up vibes and you just want to date first.
No need to rush the sex, but if that’s for you just be you know, aware and responsible- no STDs/ no unwanted bdsm/ etc. make sure his type of sex is like your type, or his outlook on the relationship and its path is similar to yours.
Best to you!
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I think that we can all reach the logical conclusion that he wants you there.
Now for what reasons, fuck if I know, only he knows.
I can only speculate, but those speculations can be wrong since I don't have the data to reach a "safe" conclusion 🤷🏻♀️
Too vauge. It could mean any of the following things:
- He is missing you
- He could mean he wants to take you now (meaning expressing sexual desire)
- He is showing your wanted in an environment where you seem like you might feel unwelcomed
- He could be defying others who have suggested you shouldn't be there
Do you have any reason to believe that he didn't just mean the straight forward interpretation?
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gee I don't know lol
honestly it just sounds like the dating is going well between you two.
He is horny... usually, it is the meaning of "i want you here" since we know telling a girl that we are horny will not get us lucky!
It means you should not wait and post about it after the fact online but ask questions at the time for clarification
It means he wants to trick you into sucking his dick and then he will never call you again
he wants to
I N S E M I N A T E
you💕🤤👉👌💢💦Because he wants you here, not there?
Means he likes being in your presence.
He wants you in his bed?
He is getting tired of masturbating and wants sex!
Need more context.
He likes you
He misses youuuuu.
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he likes u
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