What does he mean by saying he wants me?

[Anonymous]

I asked a man what it is he wants, why he keeps pursuing me and trying to make me jealous. He replied that he wants me. So what does he mean, just sexually, or as a girlfriend?

[D_Bone_Steak]

I lean towards it just being sexual. The man isn't saying shit like "I need you for _____ and _____" that has nothing to do with sex, is he? Yeah... that's what I thought.

Nothing more than wanting to secure mating rights with a female. Now if he hits you with that and also says he needs help with the rent, and someone to do his laundry... you have true love on your hands 😍

[D_Bone_Steak]

Think about this... if some dude was trying to steal my wife, what's he going to hit her with? A bunch of sweet nothing compliments, some teasing, topped with more flattery? Am I right? Because he just wants to fuck.

He's not saying shit like, "Because I'll discipline and financially support your kids better than him, I'll put you to work in the kitchen, cleaning the house, and mopping the floor after you cook for me way better than he ever did." No... I mean would that make your panties drop? Because I don't think that would make your panties drop.

[Asker]

Probably not. Good point. He also made up a fake wife he admitted, to make me jealous.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Damn... He's not even taken by a chick, but he was trying to make you his side chick already? That's a bit ridiculous... but also a cue as to the role he wants you to play for him.

[Asker]

I’m sorry, I don’t pick up on social cues, I’m autistic. What is that a cue for? Me to just exclusively shag him?

[Asker]

I’m not upset. Just trying to understand better?

[D_Bone_Steak]

So some women are attracted to "a taken man" for various reasons. That specifically is the type of woman I would go after because I am taken. Usually, it's because she has a man of her own that she wants to cheat on for various reasons, a career/job, or school... and the thing the woman is trying to avoid is a guy that will "fall in love" and start to get in the way of her goals. Like just trying to have sex and not get caught isn't going to go so well if you want to keep your man and the other man decides he's head over heels in love with you and will expose you to keep you for himself. So, she goes for the taken guy.

You're guy though, pretends to be like me in order to make you jealous you say? or was it to attract you into an agreement for a sex-only sort of situation where feelings won't get in the way of "scratching the itch."

Bottom line he obviously just wants sex without commitment at least not from him to you. Like if he locks you down... mark my words... he will also cheat on you.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Probably not what you want to hear... I'm just calling it how I see it.

[Asker]

No it’s what I need to hear. Thank you 💕💕

[Drew-1990]

You're going to have to ask him. It could be either one of those.

[Asker]

He won’t yet be specific

[Asker]

He did propose two weeks ago but I took that as flirting. Or a joke, since we were friends for years, but lost touch for a few years.

[Drew-1990]

That is obviously a joke. If not that's a little weird. Unfortunately, he's not being specific. I don't know what to tell you. Maybe it's more for a relationship but I don't know for sure

[JayBones]

He wants to have sex with you amd if it's good then he will want you as a girlfriend. He wants a free sample.

[Asker]

What is your advice on what to do?

[JayBones]

I wouldn't give it up. I'm old school though. Value is in rarity. I need more than just a warm body to play inside of.

[laly520]

ask him
it could be any

[Saamee]

If you are also interested in him

[laly520]

@Saamee I think she could be interested since she asked n posted about it

[Saamee]

Never make a guess

[laly520]

@Saamee well yea but it won't harm to make a small guess in this situation

[Saamee]

You are not wrong and I am not right. ok!

[laly520]

@Saamee duh chill
its nth serious

[Saamee]

Wanna be!🤣

[In_Trance]

It means you need to ask for clarification