What does he mean when he says he wants me for more then just sex?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been speaking to this guy long distance. His been very forward with letting me know that he wants to take me seriously. He also mentioned that he wants more than just sex from me. Should I believe him?

[BadApple69]

lol well it means that he definitely does want you for sex, and…. You know… other things…. Washing clothes, cleaning the kitchen (after you cook).

[BarryLiverstone]

You can verify his actions. When will he see you irl?

[Asker]

In 2 weeks

[BarryLiverstone]

So it will be a first date. He doesn’t need to have sex, right?

[Asker]

Yes would be our first date. no I won’t be having sex with him

[BarryLiverstone]

Then what he means is he is setting expectations he would like to pursue a long term relationship. After this date have you discussed meeting again?

[Asker]

Yes we staying together all weekend and I’m going to see him in his city next

[BarryLiverstone]

So he is setting the tone and communicating what he wants. After this weekend be clear with how you feel and what you want with him.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you for the MHO

[Anonymous]

Probably that he's interested in more than just sex.

[spartan55]

Should he believe you?

[Asker]

believe what with what?

[Asker]

meant believe me with what? *

[spartan55]

About anything.