Does he only want me for sex?

[Anonymous]

I have a weird dynamic with a guy I met a month ago. He’s my opposite. He doesn’t believe in God while I do. He more open minded than me. he's been with 10+ women. I’m a virgin on the other hand that want to wait for sex. We are not exclusive but he asked me if guys have tried hitting on me or if I’m on any dating apps meeting guys. I told him no. And he said I like the idea of you being with me only me. But he has a friends with benefits. I told him we’re no good for each other but he said we can work out

[SteveSmith1985]

I mean. This sounds like a super-clear case of "bad idea". Your instincts are right. Whether or not he just wants sex from you or not, I'm not sure. But... common... THIS is not who you've been saving yourself for! I agree. You are no good for each other. 🙂

[WindAtMyBack]

I don't have much to go by here. But my intuition says "player" and liar. I could be totally wrong, but that's what my gut says.

[Ironic_Method]

I mean... the fact that you're asking this with very telling signs scares me. Sounds like he just wants to take your virginity.

[Guy13]

Stay away. Equally yoked…

[Methis]

Yes.