Does he genuinly like me or does he only want me for sex?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy from school who suddenly texted me out of nowhere saying hey! Big fan here. We started texting more late nights and I got attached. In the beginning he was very sweet to me and all. He would compliment me in texts asking you are so nice and all. He would send his selfies in the morning and wish me gm and gn everyday. We would send heart emoticons to each other. After few days he confessed to me he likes me. But sometimes he would flirt with me saying I feel like giving you a hug from behind. In between we had a fight but then I sorted it out. After that he started telling me he is busy again and again. We like wwe so when I talk about it He tells me you are so awesome, Let's marry. Then tells me he is kidding. Then he asked me should he propose I told him I dont feel the same way. Recently he asked me If I am a virgin. I got mad at him confronted saying this was disrespectful he told me sorry and deleted the text and I blocked him on instagram. He whatsapped me saying thought you were mature enough and blocked me there. Now we dont talk should I rekindle things with him.. does he have right intentions?

[Vikkrram]

I think he after doin all sweet things he is now showing his true intentions. Yes i accept the fact that things obviously get sexual in relationships that's of course normal but with mutual consent. If anyone of the partners is not ready to have it now then it should be Respected.

See if this guy again do these kinda stuffs stay away from him.

[Asker]

So he is not a nice guy?

[Asker]

I added him back on social media... and asked him how he was. He said he is fine. Then after days he replied to my story. I sent him a heart. He told me we dont talk now but we still are friends and sent me a heart. I said always.

[Asker]

I did this because I thought I was rude to him.

[Vikkrram]

See he might be a nice guy but if you are not ready for sexual stuffs right now , then he should respect that... It's as simple maam.

And i don't know Him personally maam what you wrote here i just told you mine opinion.

That you have to decide what vibes you getting from him?

[Asker]

I told him I dont like him back he said fine lets be friends. On text he would flirt and all. But on call he would talk like a normal friend only. I know when u like someone you also can think of them sexually but now I dont feel that comfortable with him because he clearly has shown it. If I text too much he can start sexting.

[Vikkrram]

Ok then just have a chat wid him normal one , and when u get comfortable wid him then try you should try sexting him. And tell him that now i am comfortable sexting wid you.

And maam as you said that he now dosen't sexts you right now widout ur permission then he seems to be a nice guy...

[Asker]

Haha see I dont like sexting. I am just trying to say that I want to be friends with this guy and I'm ready to date him If I feel he has right intentions like If he genuinly likes me and not only to get in bed.

[Vikkrram]

How would you decide that his feelings are genuine?

[Asker]

I asked the question to know this only

[Honesttguy]

Again 99% guys want sex, question is does he want sex and extras or just sex. That would put you closer to reality.
You will only know after you have sex with guy thdn he will show his true colors. Before that its all just a game to get laid. Sounds fair enough?

[Asker]

Haha hmm I see

[Honesttguy]

In future when guy approaches you dont think does he wants sex, that answer is default yes.
Does he want something more than that well find out.
This will save you energy and time. Good luck out there

[Asker]

Alright

[Shamalien]

Don’t listen to this guy. He’s basically advising you to fuck every guy you meet to see if they want more than sex. He is very much playing on team man here.

If a man is still interested in you even though you are withholding sex, and he respects your self restraint and wants to earn the sex the proper way, then he is legit

[Honesttguy]

@Shamalien problem is she can spend months witholding but result can be still asshole who wants to get laid, yes he will not be high level playboy, but some guys are very willing to do whatever it takes to get laid.
If you have strategies how to quickly find out if they want more than just sex pls feel free to share

[Shamalien]

Rarely. Most guys who just wanna get laid will not wait months with a single girl to do it. This is the single best strategy and it’s been used for a long time with great success. All it takes is willpower and discipline, and it pays off

[Honesttguy]

@Shamalien i know plenty of guys who atrugle to get laid and are willing to get married to get laid, if give them oportunoty they will cheat, strategy yeah

[Shamalien]

Get married to get laid? What? Dude you must be living in a diff country I’m referring to the west here. No dude is getting married just so he can get some ass, ass is errywhere

[WhitneySnow]

He might really like you but he also wants to have sex with you. If you don’t want that then maybe you guys want different things.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I had no intention of answering this question. But @vikkrram here wanted me to tell you to unblock him.

Would you be kind enough to unblock him?

[Asker]

Unblocked him, thanks for reaching out

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Thank you.👍

[talka20]

I feel like talk to him once he unblocks u cuz rn he gave u clear signal that he dont wana talk to u... so if hed feel like then hed unblock u or text u

[Asker]

Did he genuinly like me?

[Asker]

Or were his intentions just sexual?

[talka20]

It seems like a mix of both... cuz when u got mad bout him asking you if you are virgin, its clear u dont like such topics to be discussed and he didn't like n felt it was immature n blocked u... but before that it seems like he was saying extra good stuff which can be true or just to keep u close so the chat might go in sexual direction after one little question but u were strict bout it so it ended there

[Asker]

We would talk on phone call. He wouldn't talk anything sexual there. He would tell me learn driving. He would send me memes and all.

[talka20]

Let me give u a follow... follow me back so i can discuss some stuff in private messages regarding this that i dont feel like would be great to say it here in public

[Asker]

Sent u a req

[talka20]

That is good sign but again some guts are required to say or ask such things on call