I didn't hear from him until a week later, he had been out of state for his job. He texted me and said "did I do something wrong?" I told him he hadnt and he said that he had been trying to text me. but I never got any. He also said that he thought I didn't like him or that I thought the sex was bad because he came early. I told him that no, I thought it was the other way around, I thought he didn't like me, he said to that, "trust me I do"
Well, this week we have been trying to get together, and I knew we would be having sex, one night that we planned it, he kinda stood me up, but explained himself the next day. Then last night I did end up going to see him, we talked for a little bit and then we had sex. But again, after sex he did the whole its getting late thing. We talked for a few more mins and then he asked me what I was doing the next day. I texted him when I got home like b4 and and told him that we would talk the next day. he replied with "awesome good". We talked a little today, but not a lot. I do understand that he is extremely busy with his job and he also coaches and is a volunteer firefighter, so he can't just text me when he wants. but sometimes it takes him 4 hours b4 he will reply.
also, the second time we had sex, he came early again..I'm kinda thinking that the reason he gets all anti-social and anti-touch is because he's embarrassed because of that fact. It doesn't bother me and I've tried to tell him that. I really like him but I don't know how to tell him that I want more than just sex. I would like to spend more time getting to know him. I want to ask him out on a normal date.
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