Questions: Guy's Behavior

When my man (of 13 yrs) starts rapping, freestyling & just spitting lyrics off the top of his head, it's mostly about hoes, fu*king whores, making whores do this & do that, about him & his "boys" fu*king hoes, B. S. shit like that 😡 I've said something to him a couple times & he tells me it doesn't mean nothing that he's just freestyling. Then why always talk about whores & fu*king whores? Why not talk about your girl? I just don't get it?

I'm in a relationship and a friend of mine is constantly trying to show me how much better choice he would be for me. Yet he never made a move when I was single. I'm not interested but why is he doing this now and what do I tell my boyfriend?

So I just received this text from an ex,

“Question: My friend is putting together a night to see The Princess Bride; wanna go? Feb 14, 7 pm, bring whomever.”

We haven’t really spoken for months until this weekend where we drunkingly hung out two nights in a row. He’s texted me every night since and then this showed up.

It’s weird right?

talk to this guys, we hu a couple times. we were gonna get serious he started talking to another girl. came back to me we were gonna get serious again and when we were he cane with excuses and says he feels neutral about me. he wants to be my friend knowing that i like him a lot. what should i do. keep him as a friend. drop him. what’s going on?

I have been best friends with this guy for 3 years, we see each other almost everyday.
Today we decided to go shopping and took train there.
During the train ride, I sat down in a 5 seater. Only with another girl sat at the far end corner, he stayed stood up.
Me: Aren’t you going to sit down?
Him: There isn’t enough room for me to sit down.
Me: Stop being daft and sit down.
Him: If you get up and let me sit down and you sit on my lap.

Everyone on the train gave us such a look.

So i'd like to know what you would do in this scenario:
You dated a girl (girl #1) online (from another country) for 9 months, and at the time you were very close and liked each other a lot, got along extremelt well.1 Eventually you boke up because at the time, meeting in person was not a possibility, and you didn't want to get too close if it was never going to work out in person. However, there was a vague statement that maybe someday you could meet and maybe things could work out then.
You got over the breakup, and started liking a new girl (girl #2). She lives 3 hours from you, but with the circumstances it would still be hard to meet, but its a possibility. You haven't started dating her or anything, but its a crush you like a lot, and at the time you talk to her much more frequently than girl #1.
Youve known girl #1 for 3 years now, and girl #2 for 1.5 years. You still talk to both of them regularly, but youve been getting close with girl #2. Now you have a chance to meet up with girl #1 in person, and you do (neither you or her mention previous dating or potential to work out once you met in person). You meet with girl #1, and you're long over the breakup and all that but you get along very well, you feel confortable talking to her, and you have a great time with her. While she's still in your country, she tells you that ever since you broke up she has never been able to stop being in love with you.

Would you stay with liking girl #2 in hopes youd be together eventually? Or know that things with girl #1 would be good and ask her out? Something else?

I've seen him jump from one girl to the next pretty much rebounding each girl, but why would a guy do that?

That he likes her. Or is that against guy code?

What if you knew they liked each other would you still spill the beans? Or just let them two find their way to each other?

I've always focused in my studies, building solid friendships and spending quality time with my family and sort of "blocked" guys from my life. During my first years at college some guys approached me and I rejected them, not allowing anything to happen not even the basic number exchange or conversation. So.. maybe time passes and you kind of embrace and life with your choices. I'm in my mid 20's and have never had a relationship with a man.

I try to not let myself be defined with this aspect, and work in my spirituality trying to be intentional choices to construct and be positive with my path while developing professionally.

However some days are a bit grayish, I kind of feel like an outcast or "ugly duck" since all my friends are either in love, getting married or flirting and I just listen and feel invisible.

My family and friends see me with eyes of love and they mentioned all my life that I'm beautiful, etc. Yet really I think they just love me.

This question is for guys, sincerely How can a woman tell is she's considered attractive when she has never had a relationship with a man?

Guys if you had a girl you had amazing sex with very often and you cared for her and trusted her, would you still sleep around with other females?

So there was this boy that I have class with I don't know him I mean we are aquaintances. But we never talked before and he has stared at me before he also mirors my moves a lot but one day I wore this revealing top and he kept staring at my breasts for some reason and I ssa he was looking at my chest does that mean he likes me sexually cause he wouldn't look away

The guy I like kept walking back n forth past me slowly and had his head turned a bit. Is this a good sign he likes me?

Is there something wrong with his face?

Hey Guys,
My boyfriend had before me an other Girl. They have been together 2 years and he went through the hell with her. He cheated on him, took drugs, beat him and just done stupid shit to him. He told me that he never really loved her, but she was ok for sex. So, to me he said I’m the love of his life and he never felt for me like for somebody else. The problem is now.. for his Ex, he got her name tattooed and wrote a song for her, bought her things and done everything. But for me he is doing nothing. I don’t want material things, I’m happy with small things. I am doing everything for him, love him so much so he can forget the pain caused by his Ex. But he is treating me like shit and he is hurting me like hell with his behaviour. He said he is like that because of his ex, but why I have to suffuse because of her faults? Also his tattoo is making me really sad, so I have to see the name because I’m be sad everyday. I wanted to fight, i wanted to be the best girlfriend he ever had ( not that hard xD ) so he can be happy and see that I truly love him. But I don’t get anything back except pain. I don’t want to break up because I love him, but hope is a dangerous thing. I believe he can change, but deep inside i know it’s a lie. I think he can’t love and is spoiled because of his ex. I’m slowly getting into depressions and don’t know what I can do. Talking doesn’t work. He gets mad and left me alone to cry.

I’ve known this guy for a year now and last year in August we started dating after he finally asked my number. He told me he liked me for a long time. But he was really shy to tell me before. We dated for 1,5 month and it was AMAZING! We were giggling (lol like kids) and turning red all the time. Two shy people together smh. Then he lost his job and told me he didn’t want to talk with me. We didn’t talk for a week and suddenly he had a car accident & I was there for him. Helped him a bit with paper stuff. After that we started seeing each other again but he told me he still has feelings but it’s better to be friends, that way we can’t hurt each other (?). He sorta had a very bad experience in love.. BUT! He still wants to see me almost every day, calls me baby, I met his closest friends and he met mine too. He says that if he doesn’t see me he misses me and his day doesn’t feel complete. He works 10hrs a day, even after work he wants to meet. But nothing happens. We flirt all the time but NOTHING happens. What to do?

I’m 22 and currently 280 pounds. I started off at 300 pounds January 1. Honestly, the main reason why I’m asking this is because after my weight loss, I know my body still won’t be perfect. I’ll have loose skin, my boobs won’t be perky, I’ll still have skin discoloration, stretch marks, etc. Basically even though I’ll be smaller, I won’t have an aesthetic body like most girls my age just because I put my body through a lot that I regret. Plus I know my insecurities will still carry on once I’m smaller and I know I will fear intimacy because of my body. I will do everything I can to diminish these flaws, but I know they will still be there. Could you date a former obese girl?

I saw my ex boyfriend the movie theater. We were so close to one another and he looked at me and smiled. I stared at him for a few seconds, sighed and immediately walked away and waited for my friends. At first he seemed to try to ignore me but after a while I caught him staring at me with a hurt look on his face. I know how he is and I know that if we talked, he would eventually say "I miss you." Even if he has a girlfriend now or if he hadn't thought of me since we last spoke, he would have still said it. I didn't know what to say if he told me something like that. I mean it in a very humble way when I feel so certain that he will say he misses me because he always does. This isn't the first time we met back up after not having talked in a while. We went a long time without talking to one another and then just hearing each others voices lead to us meeting up to talk but lead to is having sex. Talking to him on the phone for what was supposed to be a few minutes to invite him to my birthday party turned into me hiding in the bathroom at Chipotle for 35 minutes to talk while my friends waited for me outside. I always miss him when I see or even hear him, and he always misses me in the moment. But when the moment is over he eases away. I want him to always stay gone now. I know I hurt his feelings but I am not his option. I know I wasn't wrong for ignoring him but I still feel bad.

I went on a second dinner date with a man. We had a lovely time both times. He took a Lyft, so I offered to drive him home because he had some drinks. I do not drink alcohol. When we got to his home, he asked if I wanted to come up. I declined. When I got home, I texted him I was home. We chatted for a while until I got sleepy. The next day (Friday) a concert announcement went up for a group we talked about at dinner. Great coincidence. The concert was on Sunday and cool experience to share. I texted him and suggested we go together. My treat! He said ("Aww YES would love to but damn...") he was going out of town for business for a week, but, he wants to see me ("would be great to see you when I get back") when he gets back to town. He is back. I have not heard from him in 12 days. No texts. No calls. Just 'likes' on social media. No comments. Is this odd? I keep telling myself do not chase him. Do not come off as needy or desperate. I like him and I want to see him, again, but it has been 12 days since our last date... and no messages from him. Thoughts?

I've been having mixed feelings about my older brothers best friend. Lets call him K. K has been friends with my brother since college = 10 years. They're both 3 years older than me.

Last year I moved to his city for work. The first month, K took the time to show me around. Then we started having lunch at least 1-2 times a month. We were always texting each other random funny things. We've even had some pretty deep conversations over the phone that have sometimes lasted 3 hours. Spending time with him is always so much fun and I feel we've developed such a good friendship.

2 months ago It dawned on me that I could really fall hard for him. It sort of made me panic because It's so easy to read things or situations as something beyond platonic and ruin everything.

We were in our home town for the weekend. My brother and his finance were driving K and me to our hotel. I was so tired that I fell asleep against the window and I banged my head on the glass. He asked me if I was ok and was checking the sore spot for a bump.

I may have mumbled something sleepily because he laughed, pulled me closer and offered his shoulder. I ended up cuddled against the crook of his neck. I was warmer and comfier and I wanted to say thank you, but I kissed his neck instead and went back to sleep.

When we were in the elevator to our rooms, I realized/remembered what I did , because the side of his neck had my lip tint imprinted on it. I've been so embarrassed ever since. I don't know what to do.

Guys, why do girls' weight matter so much to you?
This is my in my recent picture. (On the right) i have fat, rolls and all and im super self conscious. And when i was 80 thinner i was still getting the negative comments from men i am today. Your fat and too big.
So guys, why is it that weight is so bad? Is only fit attractive nowadays?

"I'm Egyptian, not Arab. I refuse to identify as a cancerous ethnicity that's been forced onto my people."

"If I was Arab, I'd be trans-ethnic too because being Arab is cancerous"

"I would be trans-ethnic if I was Arab, Greek, Italian, Persian, Russian, Turkish, Irish, or Indian."

"I can't stand the smell of Asian food"

"Everyone these days thinks Greeks, Italians and Persians are cool but I don't think any of these people are cool. I usually have so many problems with most of these people"

"I can't think of a single full Irish person that I liked"

"Black guys usually don't want to have anything to do with me. I wonder why."

"U. S. census considers Egyptians white, Brazilians think I'm white, I have green eyes and brown hair, I've been called me a racist and people get nervous when I talk about race, so I guess I must be white."

"Just because I'm Egyptian and you're a person of color that doesn't mean I want to be friends with you"

"Why the fuck are North Africans and middle eastern people are put in the same god damn category when they're all in two different continents. Is it because they're predominantly muslim? No offense, but I don't want to be associated with middle eastern people"