What’s happening or what to do when you like a guy and you know and feel he likes you but won’t tell you but you two continue to keep things going?

[Anonymous]

Like I like this guy and he knows it has asked about it multiple times and hasn’t rejected me but is unsure of me but yet I know he likes me the signs are quite in place…but he won’t come out with it and it’s continuing confusing cycle of us on and off and I’m not sure if he’s scared or what but we’re like those two people you know that like each other or think so and just he won't tell her but everyone knows and sees it and your like his little Epiphany that he just keeps going to and we keep this relationship up WHAT is happening is it all in my head? He must like me and feel this too.

[Anonymous]

He’s just not as into you as you are into him. You’re the one that keeps pouring hope into a situation that he has shown you repeatedly he’s stringing you along in. There’s nothing standing in the way of a relationship but the excuses he makes up. You are too eager for this all to amount to something, you’re negating the signs. You’d rather focus on the flirtation without even considering he just does it out of convenience. Like a work romance that’s never meant to leave the office.

[spartan55]

He likes the free sex.

[Asker]

Hahah no actually we don’t do that he’s a guy at school man

[Asker]

Like we just only see each other at school

[spartan55]

You need to have a discussion with him.

[Asker]

Yeah like how bc he’s like not shut it done but he’s said to be he’s screwed up a bit and that he doesn’t wanna screw someone else’s life up

[spartan55]

Excuse, and a shitty one at that.

[Asker]

Yeah so why does he still like keep me around we don’t screw we have not done a thing he talks about me he’s introduced me to his friends and family so I’m just like here all the time and he’s here and I don’t know LIKE does he like me or what? Bc he’s not gaining anything out of this

[Asker]

Yk by if he was messing with me

[spartan55]

Hence the need for a clarifying discussion.

[slatyb]

Stop wasting time and ask for what you want.