I study with my male coworker several times a week. I’ve met his wife and had the feeling she didn’t like me. I’ve just received a message from her on social media asking me to back off from him- she’s clearly annoyed. What should I do?
I feel she should have talk to her husband about it and asked him, not you. Unless he tried to ignore you and you insisted. Well, just keep it professional and it should avoid further problems. At the end of the day work is for work not to make friends so I don't see her mentality as unreasonable just the way she went about it.
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Tell her you’re not interested in her man and maybe she should communicate with her husband instead of you about her insecurities. You’re just trying to pass class.
Excuse you bitch? How dare she the immature anxious child must be! Tell her to fuck off, you have no interest and if she has a problem to take it up with her husband, not you. Bitch
Well, is staying away from him not an option? If I were her I wouldn't want him hanging around other women either.
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You clearly cause some form of insecurity in her even if you haven't done anything. Is not your fault but how would you feel knowing that your interactions with her Husband may be causing a toll in their marriage? I would back off and stay away from the mess honestly. Talk to your co-worker and distance yourself from him. Tell him his wife sent you a message and keep your relationship strictly professional.
Ok, so just stay away from him. What’s the big deal?
Ignore her. I hate women who do such nasty stuff
Like does she not trust her husband?What do you think you don’t get involved with the married man stay completely away from him. She doesn’t want you to be around him respect her wishes. It’s her husband, not yours find somebody else to study with
She disrespected you. She’s supposed to tell that to her husband not you, block her and tell her husband to put his bitch in her place or you will
If you have any honor (and undoubtedly you do) you will do as she asks.
you should back off... if woman sensed something it is always correct..
Talk to the guy about it. She is insecure or she found out you two are being inappropriate.
Have sex with him! 😈
You do what she says and leave him alone.
Stop harrassing her husband
What should you do? Stay away from him.
Tell her I just gave blowjob to your husband 😂
Tell her to grow up.
Now you should get close to him.
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