Why does a girl ignore your text when you're just asking a simple question and nothing personal or sexual?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know what the question is and ir depends on how long she’s taking. If she’s at work or sleeping. Just let her get back later. If she never gets back… It’s cowardly. Maybe she doesn’t know the answer or doenst wanna give a answer. Bur she can just say that.

Some people ignore people. Sometimes people are better on the outskirts of your inner circle

[ohsheeT]

Because she's trying to be polite and say I'm not interested without saying anything

[bobalife]

Given your history, she probably don’t really have the intention nor interest to respond. Dont wait on it and move forward. But on a normal neutral situation, someone could just forgot and was busy lol.

[jennifer_bloom]

Some people are snobby and do not care about the needs of normal people. Others view all novel gestures by an opposite gender to be an entrance action designed to woo them for something more.

[Asker]

I agree. I know I'm not obligated to get a text back but you shouldn't make assumptions of a simple text. As an adult it's honestly not that serious.

[Little_Bumblebee]

What was the conversation and what did you ask her?

[Asker]

It wasn't really a conversation. We are former coworkers so I texted her a question regarding our term working there

[DrPepper12]

Because this whole fucking society has lost its God damn mind regarding instant gratification and the narcissism that we are so damn important to merit it?

[Anonymous]

You probably already said one of those previously and she's been gone longer than you think.

[Asker]

I don't understand what you're saying

[Opinion Owner]

Did you already say something personal or sexual?

[Asker]

Not at all

[Opinion Owner]

Something has distracted or annoyed her then. I always thought ghosting was cowardly.

[Asker]

It's not really ghosting as we weren't really in contact. I just texted her to ask a question

[Opinion Owner]

Ah see details matter

[Asker]

Your point is still valid

[OddBeMe]

We introverts get into dark chasms sometimes. It’s nothing personal on our side if you can handle it.

We are also secret freaks.

[Kimberly1979]

Sometimes I need to think it over or i don’t know how to react.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Because she doesn’t consider you worth her time

[thisAppIsGarbage]

They have no personality or respect for you. Count your blessings and move on.

[Rhizomorph]

She’s prob just not interested in talking to you

[Jkgordon]

She doesn’t want to answer the question

[Asker]

Even if it's a real simple question?

[Jkgordon]

If it’s not that serious you wouldn’t be on here asking for opinions

[Asker]

It's actually not serious at all. I asked the question here because, like everyone else, I wanted other people's opinions.

[Jkgordon]

Again if it didn’t matter that wouldn’t even be a question take me for example if someone didn’t text or answer back I could careless and wouldn’t be curious to why not via asking in here

[Asker]

Last time I checked I'm a grown man and I could do what I want. I asked a question because I wanted to.

[LordMadara]

bcoz everything to them is all about sex

[egarcia1360]

Alright, I'll bite. What was the question?

[Anonymous]

She must not be interested or she's just busy

[Asker]

What does her not being interested have to do with anything if I just ask a simple question pertaining to something important?

[Opinion Owner]

She may not want to answer it. If it's important it may have been too personal. But I don't know what you said

[Asker]

We are former coworkers and I asked her a question about the job.

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she didn't know how to answer it

[Asker]

Okay, fair enough. We basically started the job at the same time and left at the same time so I asked her what time frame did we work together? I need to know for a new job but I don't know the exact dates so I asked her if she remembers.

[Opinion Owner]

I feel she may have felt like it was a test to where if she answered it she'd know when you guys work together and it could of honestly made her uncomfortable... maybe if you included you needed to know for a new job she may have answered it tbh
But I stick with my answer... it was personal and she felt uncomfortable or didn't want to seem too interested.

[Asker]

Honestly that makes no sense but okay

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry I couldn't help

[Asker]

It's okay I just didn't think that was a personal thing to ask

[Opinion Owner]

Who knows what the broad was thinking

[Asker]

Exactly but I'm not tripping. I don't take it personally. It's crazy because she could respond to a Happy mother's day text but can't respond to a simple text

[Opinion Owner]

She's just not interested in conversation

[Asker]

I understand but that wasn't meant to start a conversation. I just wanted to know the answer to the question I asked and then I was out of there. I just think she doesn't like me at all. We have history and I'm starting to recognize she didn't like me from the jump.

[Opinion Owner]

Damn I'm sorry

[Asker]

Please don't feel sorry for me but I just want to say I allowed this girl to use me for attention, validation and ego boost. It took me a while to see what was happening and by then it was too late. She cut me off because I called her out on it.

[Opinion Owner]

I was going to ask why do you keep talking to her but you said you already fell into that trap... so I hope you break out of that soon cause it's just wasting time you know

[Asker]

I'm very stupid sometimes but I will stop texting her because I'm only hurting myself

[Opinion Owner]

It'll come to a point where you're completely fed up. She's not reciprocating your energy and you deserve someone on the same wave as you. Don't call yourself stupid... you just weren't aware and now that you are you can move forward. You seem like a great guy. I know there's a girl out there that will be lucky to have you

[Asker]

Thank you for the kind words. I'll continue to work on myself and when it's time God will send me someone just for me.

[Opinion Owner]

I wish you the best!!

[LaurenM1997]

Hmm what question was it?