Have you ever dated your co-worker?

Question

No, I’d never

WhiteSteve · Accepted Answer

I met my high school girlfriend at work. But we both worked part time, and she wasn’t there for more than a few months.

In my 20s…. I never dated any of them seriously, but as I’m thinking about it, I did hook up with kind of a lot of them😅 Enough so that I’m actually kind of surprised nothing ever went sideways too badly, haha. I guess, to be fair, these were throwaway jobs, not “career” jobs, so the stakes weren’t that high. One of you could just leave and get a different minimum wage job if things soured, these were just a couple of bar jobs, and folding clothes at Hollister and Abercrombie & Fitch, lmao

FuqUFggt · Accepted Answer

No. I impregnated her

Dinklex3 · Accepted Answer

I used to say the same thing until I was… 26? I told a coworker I don’t have relationships with coworkers… Then we became friends with benefits & best friends. We would’ve dated then if circumstances were right.

I think I used to say no because of the stigma that came with it. Like.. it just didn’t seem like a good idea. But when you have 2 mature adults, it can work… All the younger couples at my workplace though ended in drama.

LittleMelissa9614 · Accepted Answer

Yes, I have. He and I became friends first and then started dating months later, but that relationship didn't last long as I found out his true colors. It was awkward at work for us after the break up, but he ended up getting fired anyway. Would I do it again with a different coworker? I would, as long as the guy knows how to treat me right. I rather it be with a guy from a different department from me.

AviatorTom · Answer

I married her... many years ago. We worked in the same office, dated for about a year, got married, raised 3 kids, and amicably divorced 20 years later.

HawkPerception · Answer

No, but I would. You can find love in any scenario. To close yourself off from the opportunity of finding true love at work just isn't wise. If someone has chemistry with you (similar views, interests, way of thinking, style of communication, goals in life, physical attraction, and sexual compatibility), it would be dumb to pass that up just because you work with them.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I’ve gone out with women who worked for the same company. Nothing long term though. And we never really worked together. Women rarely choose the kinds of work i’ve chosen over my lifetime. The ones who did usually weren’t interested in dating men.

IWILLPLEASEYOU · Answer

Yes it turned into a protective case for me to get her and her little girl from her abusive husband and I didn't want her to get hurt, but it became a sexual thing. She is doing well in her life and she said that her girl is going great too with makes the relationship with me a good thing, but it came at a cost a fucken big one just think hard about how much you can afford to lose!

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

I hooked up with a coworker one time at my old job. That's about it.

SallyTho87 · Answer

No, I keep my personal life outside of the workplace/ I always have preferred not to intertwine the two, to ensure I keep a platonic, professional work relationship with my co-workers and management.

dreamstar72 · Answer

On one condition if you got to know them and were going to be changing jobs soon then yes. If not then no to much drama dating inside a office.

Noodle_fan · Answer

I had crush with married coworkers so many times , but somehow i managed to shut it down , sooner or later , everytime.

Even if they are single , i didn't want do anything that put risk of me and them get fired.

bowenw · Answer

Several. It’s one of the best places to see what people are really like before getting involved with them.

AlexEfron · Answer

No. And I won't ever. I think dating a coworker can lead to unwanted clashes later if things don't work out. So keep your personal life and professional life separate.

skidawgkc22 · Answer

I haven't, but if the circumstances were right, I would.

sheikalana · Answer

No. I like to keep my personal and professional life separate from each other.

Sugar100 · Answer

Yes it’s normal at my job to date each other and allowed

exitseven · Answer

never. I would never date anyone at work. It always ends badly.

CriticalCatDad · Answer

No I wouldn't because dating someone you work with never ends well

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes… no good. Don’t!

Rangers · Answer

I tried a couple of times, but was rejected once, and was too late on the other

DrPepper12 · Answer

Sure. Several when I was a teen. Been hit on by them when married but no TY

jamesgoldman · Answer

In the restaurant, I dated a waitress when I was sous chef

Finchie40 · Answer

No but I had sex with a few

Lessthanaveragr · Answer

Yes and she ended up going around telling every one at the office about my small penis

Darkest-Knight · Answer

Yes I have. Everything went well until she passed away unexpectedly.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have, but never again.

kinkynicci · Answer

Never dated but hooked up with

Anonymous · Answer

No. I tried to a couple times. It never panned out. It's probably for the best it didn't.

avery58 · Answer

Yeah and it wasn't the best decision

Anonymous · Answer

I would neverrrr mixing love and work is a disaster although i am attracted to a coworker and i can tell he is attracted too but its not possible.

itsclearlynicholas · Answer

No I never have either 🫣🫠

Danny_dan92 · Answer

Keep it professional. Don’t shit where you sleep

worldscolide · Answer

Made that mistake once when I was 21, never again.

NetherlandsNar · Answer

Not interested

dudeinohio · Answer

No. That is dangerous

nawtee_me · Answer

No, that can get messy

shortster · Answer

Not until she changed departments.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Noooo! I don't shit where I eat...

eagle1951 · Answer

afew times

Simslover92 · Answer

Nope. Never.

DishLady · Answer

Nope.

fordtruck · Answer

Kind of

Iron_Man · Answer

No way

justabuddy · Answer

I have

LEGENDARY4200 · Answer

I have

bananathunder · Answer

secretly...

DreamLife7 · Answer

Noooo

Krispyz · Answer

Yes 😊

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