I met my high school girlfriend at work. But we both worked part time, and she wasn’t there for more than a few months.
In my 20s…. I never dated any of them seriously, but as I’m thinking about it, I did hook up with kind of a lot of them😅 Enough so that I’m actually kind of surprised nothing ever went sideways too badly, haha. I guess, to be fair, these were throwaway jobs, not “career” jobs, so the stakes weren’t that high. One of you could just leave and get a different minimum wage job if things soured, these were just a couple of bar jobs, and folding clothes at Hollister and Abercrombie & Fitch, lmao
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No. I impregnated her
I used to say the same thing until I was… 26? I told a coworker I don’t have relationships with coworkers… Then we became friends with benefits & best friends. We would’ve dated then if circumstances were right.
I think I used to say no because of the stigma that came with it. Like.. it just didn’t seem like a good idea. But when you have 2 mature adults, it can work… All the younger couples at my workplace though ended in drama.
Yes, I have. He and I became friends first and then started dating months later, but that relationship didn't last long as I found out his true colors. It was awkward at work for us after the break up, but he ended up getting fired anyway. Would I do it again with a different coworker? I would, as long as the guy knows how to treat me right. I rather it be with a guy from a different department from me.
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I married her... many years ago. We worked in the same office, dated for about a year, got married, raised 3 kids, and amicably divorced 20 years later.
No, but I would. You can find love in any scenario. To close yourself off from the opportunity of finding true love at work just isn't wise. If someone has chemistry with you (similar views, interests, way of thinking, style of communication, goals in life, physical attraction, and sexual compatibility), it would be dumb to pass that up just because you work with them.
I’ve gone out with women who worked for the same company. Nothing long term though. And we never really worked together. Women rarely choose the kinds of work i’ve chosen over my lifetime. The ones who did usually weren’t interested in dating men.
I hooked up with a coworker one time at my old job. That's about it.
Yes it turned into a protective case for me to get her and her little girl from her abusive husband and I didn't want her to get hurt, but it became a sexual thing. She is doing well in her life and she said that her girl is going great too with makes the relationship with me a good thing, but it came at a cost a fucken big one just think hard about how much you can afford to lose!
No, I keep my personal life outside of the workplace/ I always have preferred not to intertwine the two, to ensure I keep a platonic, professional work relationship with my co-workers and management.
On one condition if you got to know them and were going to be changing jobs soon then yes. If not then no to much drama dating inside a office.
I had crush with married coworkers so many times , but somehow i managed to shut it down , sooner or later , everytime.
Even if they are single , i didn't want do anything that put risk of me and them get fired.
Several. It’s one of the best places to see what people are really like before getting involved with them.
No. And I won't ever. I think dating a coworker can lead to unwanted clashes later if things don't work out. So keep your personal life and professional life separate.
I haven't, but if the circumstances were right, I would.
No. I like to keep my personal and professional life separate from each other.
Yes it’s normal at my job to date each other and allowed
never. I would never date anyone at work. It always ends badly.
In the restaurant, I dated a waitress when I was sous chef
No I wouldn't because dating someone you work with never ends well
Yes… no good. Don’t!
Sure. Several when I was a teen. Been hit on by them when married but no TY
Yes and she ended up going around telling every one at the office about my small penis
I tried a couple of times, but was rejected once, and was too late on the other
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