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I currently have a 34 year old man at my gym who has a crush on me (24) but he knows I have a boyfriend. In my opinion, I would see no problem with the age difference but I'm still curious as to why he would want to date someone 10 years younger when usually two people these ages are in different places in life.
Depending on who he is how he was brought up how his mind works how he took care of his body or if he's in shape first of all you have to understand women are much more mature than men in a lot of cases.
There are some older men that can feel the energy from a younger person and that he likes because she keeps him young and active you have to understand too that women of today are a lot different than women of yesterday in many different ways they're all good that they bring it a new light to the table we're starting to understand our bodies more who we are what we are made out of and energy we are All made of energy and if you know anything about energy and if you can connect your energy with a person's energy and become one it is the most beautiful feeling you're ever going to feel
And today a lot of younger women are projecting that energy and it kind of pulls you in just like a magnet I mean there's a lot of there's a lot of factors there's a lot of things a lot of reasons and this is where I have always said you have to experience something to understand it to grow with it but the first thing is energy if you learn about energy and you understand energy you will start understanding a lot of things and especially about men and yourself
Something that you’ll come to realize later in life. The younger you are the more age seems to matter. Once you stack some time and life experience on you start to realize anything north of about 25 is just a number.
You will literally meet men who are 35 and still live with their parents and have no career. You may equally meet somebody who is 25 and established in their career. I know 30 year olds in such atrocious physical shape they will shock me to make it to 40. I know 50 year olds who dress better and and are more fit and successful than any 30yr old they will ever meet. I know 25yr old women who own their own homes and are more successful than any man I know.
Point is the substance of the man should be a far greater factor for you than his age. A decade age gap between a man and a younger woman is pretty common and while at 24 that feels significant it’s very mainstream.
I’d focus on his personality, drive, ambition, life choices until now, and so on for long term considerations but for now - just go on a date and see if you even like this guy.
24 year olds are mature enough and not that far in life from 30 year olds
my boyfriend is around that age and we have a great time
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I couldn’t speak for all guys although it’s really common for a guy to date a younger woman , perhaps not 10 years though at your age. I do feel that a 10 yr age gap shortens with age though. I have to agree a bit with you being at different points in your life , I personally don’t think I could pursue a relationship with a 24 year old no matter how sexually attracted I thought I was to her , I just feel the gap between those ages poses too many potential problems however much I’d want to look past them. Guys can be lead with their “dicks” though.
Middle aged or older guys often pursue, and hopefully spoil young women whom they are attracted to for any number of reasons, the most common of which, at least in my case, is knowing she's engaging in physical intimacy with the guy, or guys, upon whom she's bestowed the privilege of such wonderfully enjoyable shared closeness.
I'm 37. Almost 38 and my girlfriend is 23. There is nothing at all wrong with that age difference. It's all about how well your personalities match up. I can't think of something that matters less than "where you are in your lives".
Do you like him as a person? Do you like being around him and being in his company? If you do, then why the fuck should ANYTHING else matter?
That's because young women are superior look-wise and fertility-wise to old women.
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The majority of men that want a serious lasting relationship want someone that has common interests for things to enjoy together. You both being into fitness gives you a common activity/interest that you both enjoy.
However, if he knows you are already in a relationship and continues to pursue you, he would not have good morals for a potential partner.
10 years is actually normal. My cousin (a girl) married a guy 15 years older than her.
When you're younger (especially in your teens) you're usually around immature kids that will say "ewww they're so old", but people are attracted to many different age dynamics.
I am presently hand-fasted married to a divorcee 10 years my junior, who has two grown sons from the previous marriage.
I met & grew to know and appreciate her through one of her college room mates.
Hard to say
When I saw the title of this question, I was worried it was about me.
I'm a 30 year old man, and I could date a woman anywhere from 18 (legal age in my country) to 30. Lol
Youth will always be attractive and desirable. It's in our genes.
She probably flirts with anything in pants.
I am not sure that age difference is a big deal?
Because no woman his age wants him
Why not? Nothing wrong with it
10-15 years is the ideal age gap.
Cuz women his age aren’t as appealing
Ego.
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