If you could press a button and instantly make your partner your perfect soulmate in every way, would you press it?

[HawkPerception]

But you'd know for the rest of your life that they weren't a natural version of themselves... they were a forced version created by you.

I'd press it.

I would not press it.

[ohsheeT]

No i couldn't and wouldn't do that. The best part about people is that they are who they are with there own morals values and ethics their own thoughts their own wisdom their own way of seeing something and that's how we grow by listening and maybe seen a Different Light through them

No I want people to be themselves if they don't like me I want them to tell me why I want them to have their own set of rules I want them to see things in their own way because that's the way I am and it doesn't mean that I'm right but it's means that I can see it and other people and I will change if I think I need to

I like people for who they are I like strong people I like wise people I like people to fuck up I like people that are goofy I just like people that are themselves they follow nobody but themselves and through their own eyes if they need to change they understand that and they do it we do it I do it that's how we keep growing that's how we keep learning there's no way I want everything my way all the time it's just for not be fun

[mothefriendly]

I would. Im reading people saying 'if you did it would be like a love spell' implying that would make it fake love. If they are your sould mate after you press it that means you have a genuine deep connection and that you fit together like a puzzle piece it means they support you in the right ways and see who you are. They would still be able to disagree with you and challange you in ways that makes you grow. In my eyes thats what a soul mate is and i would press it instantly!

[thegreenyogi]

No I wouldn't because I'd want my partner to be imperfectly perfect and surprise me with unexpected traits I wouldn't have ever thought I'd love.

[Crimsyjo]

No. Cos that isn't a soul mate. That's like saying if a love potion makes someone love you would you use it? But you wouldn't feel truly loved.

[Kassandra1994]

Thank you exactly , It can also backfire that person if the effecte spelled person reject it spiritually revoke. You have the best answer.

[Grond21]

If it was something that we were jointly agreeing on, that would be the only way. But never would I press it by myself without her full consent. But if we could both pick what changed then I think that could be a lot of fun.

[HawkPerception]

Respect man. You're clearly a good dude.

[Grond21]

Much appreciated!

[BadApple69]

The reality is we don’t want what we think we want. Some of the flaws in our spouses or what make them most attractive to us. If we could press that button and change our spouses, we would undoubtedly screw it up and end up with something we don’t want.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

If they gonna become perfect soul mate then why not I will do it.

It wouldn't be force at all if they also know they can be perfect soulmate if they would have love and to evolve that love to divine love who wouldn't want that offcourse they would have the same button for me as well then we press both buttons and perfect soul mates are born.

In my view perfect is nothing but being comfortable and compatible with each other and if that could be achieved by press of a button why not.

[RavVid]

Hell yeah. Why would I care they ain't natural?

[Sirenboobzilla]

No. I fell in love with him as he is. Changing that for my benefit wouldn't guarantee it being for the better

[HawkPerception]

Actually the question implies it is for the better. It means they become the ideal partner for you in every way. No flaws.

[Kassandra1994]

You simply can not obligate people to changed just for yourselfish reasons.

Simple just break off the relationship and move on I know what I'm talking about.

[Screenwriter]

Je n e said quot is usually makes someone a good partner and if you removed every aspest of that I don't know what that makes your relationship work, it might not work at all!

[FreyaRed]

Pressing button doesn't mean I need to take him with.

[ThisSiteSux]

I'm married and have three daughters. There is a lot more invested then just soul. I have 4 souls to worry about before hers or mine. She would have never given me these souls.

[LiamJHayden]

No. I tend to enjoy the imperfections of reality, and perfection before I myself am perfect would bore me.

[Jersey2]

Nope. It is great so I am not changing anything.

[WhitneySnow]

No again

[HawkPerception]

Why not?

[WhitneySnow]

Because I wouldn’t want to force them to do anything

[exitseven]

no, she is already perfect for me.

[NathanDavis]

nope... I prefer something real

[Xawyx-2]

I'm single, so what would happen?

[rapfan107]

In a heartbeat

[BadInfluence05]

I already got one.