If given the opportunity, would you ever want to be head-over-heels in love with the right person?

[MCheetah]

I know we live in a cynical world right now with this dystopia of Joe Biden, wokeness, the Chinese Communist Party, and Resident Evil on Netflix right now. I know, I know... But if magic was real and could grant you your most compatible partner currently existing in this world right now; your soulmate of soulmates; would you take it?

I know a lot of people (mainly men, and rightfully so) have grown cynical and jaded of the idea of love and have stopped believing it exists. (Hell, I mostly have, too.) But again, a magical scenario here. You get a chance to get your soulmate in this world; someone currently existing who who matches most of what you want physically in a person and most of what you want personality wise. Probably won't be 100% perfect because they're a currently existing person in the real world. But they'll be close to what you've always wanted, but could never meet before due to limiting circumstances and a lack of communication to know each other's existence.

SO, IF GIVEN THE OPPORTUNITY, WOULD YOU STILL WANT TO BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE IDEAL FOR YOU?

I still believe in the idea, even if it's only a fantasy like this. My new perfect partner would be 6'2" to 6'4", between 25 and 33, would have long dark hair, a full voluptuous figure, and huge breasts and booty. She'd wear black lingerie underwear and be very affectionate, kind, and loving. You can fantasize your ideal partner too. Go nuts.

Yes, I'd still want to be in love with the right person.

No, I've moved beyond all that.

Undecided.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Another interesting question, so thanks for posting, I really admire your creativity on the dating questions you post.

I'd say yeah, I would, because I do think that the chances of my perfect, dream partner existing is slim, whether in my lifetime or anyone else's, lol.

You did say she'd fit most of my physical and mental aspects, so as long as she fits the actual requirements I have, as opposed to the ideal but not mandatory stuff, then yeah, I'd take it.

Physically, I do have an ideal type in terms of face and body, but I like different things too, so if she's a little off my idea of perfect or very different but still attractive, then that's totally fine.

Personality wise, yeah, she'd have to at least have the requirements too.

Due to you saying she'll fit most, I'll assume she'll fit some of the preferred stuff too, on top of the requirements, so I'd probably have to compromise on a few of the preferences, as opposed to the standards, so on a realistic level, she'd still be good enough.

I think you already have some idea of what my ideal partner is like, lol, I feel like seeing your myTake describing yours, changed my tastes a bit too or made me think about it a bit more, because years ago, whenever I'd answer typical questions about my physical type, I'd always say a woman who's the same height, but for a while now, my preferred body on a woman is someone way taller:

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl

[globetrotter22]

I have been let down (roughly) more than once in my lifetime.

To be fair I’ve known I’ve let other people down but I try to be as tactful as possible. Like when I broke up with my last ex. I sat down with her and endure a tormenting 2 hours of her going ballistic, screaming and throwing things. But I knew she would remember how I broke up with her for the rest of her life.

So gave her an opportunity nobody ever gave me: full closure and respect at the end stages. I have never in my life had a woman give me either in the end stages. Never. Once a woman loses interest in a man than anything and everything is justifiable to hurt him in her mind including cheating.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

I'm not sure. There's still a part of me who wants to have a perfect relationship, a good partner and just a good family life in general. I dont know if that possible. Especially since I'm a pain to deal with and not even close to a 10/10. I don't know what's the best I could do but its probably not the best I wish I could.

[Emiliamazing]

I found my amazing man over 20 years ago. Wouldn’t change a thing. I hope you find what you want as well :-)

[hahahmm]

Never worship people. And women don't respect that anyhow so there is no "right" woman to worship. If you do it the relationship will be bad... lacking loyalty, respect and other things.

[RealMarek]

Yes! What you described is what I found: not a perfect woman, but together we’re a nearly perfect match despite our imperfections. Both of us are hard working, similar in personality, enjoy being together, and share unbelievably strong physical attraction and passion. We’ve never fought. Even though we have faced some difficult times we have been able to work handle them together. And she’s not been indoctrinated into feminism.

[FriendlyDrugDealer]

I dont think I’m capable of being infatuated with someone and completely heads over heels for someone. However, I can genuinely love someone and truly do the best by them throughout our time together

[Fuentes]

Nah I just want the money I don't wanna be bugged by a females random emotional outburst and ruining my day I don't got the patients and care for all that. I enjoy waking up with no random attitude issues & coming home without them.

[LazerBean]

I'm married to exactly that person, and it was definitely a good decision.

[msc545]

No. I don't need to be addicted to neurochemicals AGAIN.

[TryMeBee]

Nah I don't want all that drama.

[JesseJayNeak]

What’s the point? Feminism ruined everything

[Libertycityguy]

I am and married her. Resident Evil is overdone.

[Phoenix98]

If course.