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Do you think deep down you could ever fall in love with someone of the SAME sex?
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No. I have absolutely no desire to be with men, or transpeople, or dykes, or "bisexuals." I am what you'd call super-straight. I am only attracted to single, heterosexual, monogamous women, and nothing else.
And if we're being honest, I don't even get why people watch (male) porn. I don't even watch porn cause there's cocks in it. Though I'm not interested in anyone else's bodily fluids that I have nothing to do with, so I wouldn't watch lesbian porn either. Possibly solo porn, I guess. Or "softcore" porn. (No genitals, no bodily fluids, rarely any nudity.)
Love is love my man. No sense in labeling it.
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I'm sure pedophiles and Bill Cosby would agree with that sentence too, but I'm going to have to disagree with you, there.
There's no deep down feeling of potentially falling in love with someone who identifies as the same sex as me because I've already fallen in love with someone else that identifies as a male which was such an eye opening experience for me personally and significantly contributed to gender no longer being a barrier for romance
I mean... I'm bi. So yeah. 😂
I used to be a so-called "radical bi," meaning that I thought everyone was bi to varying to degrees. But no. It's a me thing, and that was just a step along to way to me realizing that I was bi.
I still believe that sexuality is fluid by the way. But that doesn't make everyone bi.
I’m not even sure about that though. I think women are more likely to explore their sexuality. I also think they’re more likely to be bicurious, simply because society sexualizes female bodies so much. But that doesn’t mean they’re bisexual. It means that they’ve been taught to view women’s bodies sexually. But they don’t usually get anything out of it.
You can fall in love with someone without it being sexual. Romantic attraction and sexual attraction aren’t the same thing, and it’s quite common for people to be romantically attracted to people they aren’t sexually attracted to. You see it a lot in cases where people are separated in groups of just men and women, especially for a long period of time. It’s quite common in the prison system, for example, for people to be romantic with other inmates, despite being heterosexual. It’s more common in women’s prisons than men’s prisons, but still. The relationships are often completely asexual. Lots of people are heterosexual and also biromantic, and if they don’t have other options they will enter into relationships with people that they are only romantically attracted to, just for companionship.
100 percent, still straight- damn!
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I've fallen in love with my wonderful girlfriend! So yes, I absolutely could!
Matter how deep down you go, you will not find that a possibility with me, not because of a desire too be straight, but because I am not wired that way.
My biology is receptive to girls touching me in intimate explorations, not guys. I think the agressive attitude I had when playing rough and tumble with other guys was kinda normal for HETERALSEXUAL males too feel at certain times, not necessarily A bad thing for the girls watching, since showing a little attitude among available guys was an amusing indication of a perspective boyfriend among the girls observing mudball or wrestling.
I think falling in love with a physically compatible love interest, is probably indicated in a completely different context than the affection of feeling love for a sibling or platonic close friend of opposite gender.-same gender association of no romantic intimacy.
Even my dear and closest friends have all been male. I had two long female “friendships” which both ended recently, neither would have ended if they each had a male frame-of-mind. So no. I can pretty much say I can live quite happily, much happier, without woman in my life on any personal level.
Absolutely! I have been with my wife for nearly 20 years at this point in one form or another. She is the other half of me and my world doesn't exist without her and my children in it.
just curious are you a trans girl?
@orangecherry Do you need me to be for any reason?
I suppose it is true, but even if I was it is kind of rude to ask someone. Let's put it this way:
If I was, then I'd feel awful because someone looked at my photo and clocked me. I've seen that happen to friends of mine who are transgendered and I always feel awful for them.
If I'm not, then they are just saying I have masculine features, which in all honesty I do and I've never been comfortable with. I can't help my genetics unfortunately. I ended up with some of my grandfather's features. The Mexican side runs strong in me lmao
I didn't think you were at all, I just meant in terms for the logic of the post; it could be a reason to ask.
What made her think to ask was probably just because of the fact that you have kids, not everyone's minds immediately goes to other forms of conception (or adoption) aside from the heterosexual way, within a homosexual relationship. Plus it is still pretty unusual for a homosexual relationship to be 20 years old. Its more common that one of the partners transitioned after a long relationship.
Not saying this was my mentality, but just my interpretation of what could've been her thought process when asking a distasteful question.
Oh, well yeah in that case I guess it makes sense. Lol I'm so used to alternative waves of a woman getting pregnant that sometimes it slips my mind that others DON'T know then too.
The 20 year thing includes being friends, dating and eventually marriage. We haven't been married for that long, but it all counts to me 😊
Sexually no.
but what is it when you have mates you are close with, where you have served together, been shot at, had rockets etc fired at you, both shared the same patch of earth while all this is going on?
You definitely have a mate / brotherly love or whatever it is deeper than simple friendship. Is it love? Fuck knows.
As a result of my bad experience with younger women lash out and being dramatic, I never once felt attracted to anyone. No woman ever tempted me to fall in love. I only fall in love with men. Most of my female friends have ended anyway. By the way, young women have even more trouble with learning disabilities.
No because I don’t need to be around or need to deal with someone else who PMS like I do. On top of that I’ll always love and miss a mans touch. It’s nothing like a mans natural but fresh scent and his strong arms wrapped around me. I don't know I just love everything about being with a man.
Sometimes I wish I could, but no. Physical attraction is a must for me and I just can’t find another man attractive.
what if he is a transgender?
As in a transwoman? I’m not sure, but I wouldn’t rule it out. I guess it really depends on the person, how we click, how attracted I am to them and whether or not I decide on if I want kids.
Good for you
I don’t think so. I think girls are beautiful and I’m sure I can have quality friendship with. But in terms of me actually falling in love and saying I want to be with them, no way.
No no no. I have beautiful, amazing girlfriends since college.. they are like my sisters that we can sleep in the same bed with no sexual or romantic feelings. We help each other and discuss our relationship issues. We love our partners and have great families. None oh that I want to do whatever I want and fuck anyone or anything.
No. I love the opposite sex, and not just for their reproductive organs.
I never thought I would, but, here we are. I had it bad for her. But, I don't always see it as same sex, and you can see the first paragraph of my profile info for that explanation.
Maybe. I've thought about this before. I like man parts tho and I'm not sure if I could have a romantic relationship with someone with girl parts.
Not saying 100% no but it would be a real long shot. Maybe 90% no.
It still will be a no, I definitely would hang out with men though but I ain't romantically interested in them though. But I have zero problems with gay men though I just prefer women that is all. But I do have a gay men fetish though , just straight though.
i guess i could, i mean love is not just about sex it is about the connection you have with someone, you can love a friend of any gender but that is not the same as being in love, but love is about that trust and secure feeling you have with someone.
Yes. If my romantic partner of 2 years were a different gender/sex, it wouldn't matter to me because I have fallen in love with him unconditionally, so at this point my attachment and love is stronger than if he were theoretically not a man.
Of course, it helps with my initial interest, as a heterosexual woman, that he is a guy. But if he were to magically turn into a female or something- doesn't matter.
Women struggle with definitions. It's ok it's because they're smarter
You can post a 4th time. Im Still not gonna go gay. No way…
All the guys I’ve ever been hit on from it was always a fantasy to them. I know my aunt was gay and lived with a woman she loved, but for the most part all I ever hear from guys is that they want to be dominated. They want this. They want it to go in dry. Etc.
One of them was in a support group I was in. I’ve known many that killed themselves too.
Absolutely not. It's just biologically impossible. I'm oriented towards women. That's just how I am. Nothing I can do about it.
I have been in love with a woman. It was a one time thing and I haven’t felt attraction or had feelings for any other woman after her. So I don’t identify as bi or lesbian. But I do believe it can happen to anyone, you can meet someone you have that connection with and fall in love. If you let yourself. I do crush on women from time to time but I have no desire to get to know them or be with them, it’s just a “She’s so cool and pretty” type of thing.
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