SecretsofKB

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• Commented on an opinion:What do men quantify as effort from a woman in relationships?

  Honestly, these are such "basic" things, but they make a world of difference in any... 1 mo

• Shared opinion:Is it a red flag to be close friends with an ex?

  Frankly, this is a personal preference on whether or not you see it as a red flag. I know of... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:A lot of people like to flirt do you like to flirt online or in person?

  I am absolutely awful at flirting lol. My partner will be the first one to tell you that too! I... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Are women’s expectations too high?

  See, a lot of what you are referring to are things that are physical attributes. When I was... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Would you judge someone negatively for being inexperienced?

  I would definitely not judge someone for being inexperienced. My first relationship was as a... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Your first date?

  So for first dates or dates very early in the relationship, I would spend 45 minutes to an hour... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Does making the date fun fall on the guys shoulders?, if a man and a woman go on a date with each other and the date is boring, is it the mans fault?

  Honestly, regardless of genders involved, making a date fun should not fall on one person's... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Do you think a relationship built on traditional values, traditional gender roles, and traditional expectations is "old fashioned" in a bad way?

  Honestly, if both parties want a "traditional" relationship, then no, it is not old fashioned in... 2 mo

• Commented on an opinion:Why do we women take soooo much longer to get dressed than men?

  Luckily, no. I did not have anyone say this crap to me. But yeah, I feel like they are always... 2 mo

• Commented on an opinion:Why do we women take soooo much longer to get dressed than men?

  Yep! They keep trying to make eye contact and always have that stupid half grin on their face 2 mo

• Commented on an opinion:Why do we women take soooo much longer to get dressed than men?

  Yes, the whole "you should smile more" drives me up the wall so fast. Men can walk down the... 2 mo

• Commented on an opinion:Why do we women take soooo much longer to get dressed than men?

  Oh, 1000% lol. I catch other women eyeing me up and down way more regularly than men. 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Why do we women take soooo much longer to get dressed than men?

  Good ol' fashioned societal expectations. Women are judged heavily on our looks by not only men... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Why women are usually the ones to initiate a breakup or divorce in a good relationship?

  So, from the relationships between men and women that I have seen (after college), I see a large... 2 mo

• Shared opinion:Is a 40y old Virgin in 15K debt & bad credit a red flag?

  So, completely disregarding the virgin part, poor financial standing is a bad sign. At this time... 3 mo

• Commented on an opinion:What does it mean when a guy says he wants a mutual not serious relationship but it depends?

  Yep, this was my first thought. Being vague enough that he can dip out whenever he wants to. 3 mo

• Commented on an opinion:How specific are you with your preferences in a relationship partner?

  Yep! 3 mo

• Shared opinion:How specific are you with your preferences in a relationship partner?

  Frankly, it depends on the specific thing. I do have things that I do specifically want in a... 3 mo

• Shared opinion:Would it be inappropriate to ask out my dentist's assistant?

  Yeah, more often than not that’s inappropriate. Especially in a healthcare setting. They are... 8 mo

• Shared opinion:Why are women indecisive when it comes to getting ready for a first date?

  Societal pressure and expectations to look a certain way when in public settings, especially on... 8 mo