It’s been a year and I still think about my old situationship. when will I stop thinking about him?

[Winstah26]

[SecretsofKB]

Honestly, I still occasionally think about my passed relationships. I am currently engaged and very happy, but the brain is the brain.

You'll notice to think about him less and less over time. This process will move faster as you find other priorities, or another partner.

[Winstah26]

It’s been a year tho and I still think about him everyday. Not like for hours but he would pop up in my brain. I guess it’s cause of my job I work in warehousing and he was deliver guy. He no longer comes to my job but I guess I still have this feeling that he’s gonna show up

[SecretsofKB]

So it sounds like you have a physical reminder of him that is present every day. I can definitely see why he hangs around in your mind. That is what is keeping him around more as well.

[Winstah26]

So yea it’s been a year I use to see him everyday. Then their manager decided to leave us and only do deliveries no pick ups. I thought it was quite sad he didn’t let me know they were leaving. Mind you it was getting hard he would flirt with my co worker right in front of me. It wasn’t anything crazy but you know there was definitely a line being crossed of being overly friendly and we were on down low. He was married and I have a partner. I know messed up, our whole actual situationship only lasted a month I slept with him once I couldn’t do it again cause I was falling and it just felt messy cause of work. I ended it for both our sakes, he never really had any deep chats with me just wanted to get in my pants. We’ve moved warehouses and my manager rang up post cause our pick ups weren’t clearing. My ex b must have been told cause he came to my warehouse a couple times but the gate was shut. He rang me for work and I let him know my regular drivers have it covered he just kept saying anytime you need a pick up call me. I haven’t heard from him since. It’s been 2months in this new warehouse I hope now that I really have no contact with him. I’ve just deleted his number and socials. We never really got closure and I wish I did so I could move on but I guess it is what it is

[jahaims]

When you become mature enough to properly process emotions

[wkhan_87]

When you will find a new

[Winstah26]

That’s the messed up thing he was married and I’m still with my partner. It only lasted a month me and him until I called it off

[wkhan_87]

Ohh i see,

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the elusive situationship that keeps lingering like a catchy song you just can't shake! My aim here is to help you navigate these tangled feelings. 🌈 Time is a magic potion, but while you're waiting for its full effect, focus on self-care and new adventures. Life's full of thrilling possibilities, and sometimes letting go makes space for something even better. Who knows, maybe your next chapter holds a dazzling plot twist! ✨

[fish5505_87]

Never! Oh, by the way, What's a "Situationship"?

[Winstah26]

Like it was never a proper relationship but I guess it was more than a one night stand. I guess friends with benefits

[fish5505_87]

Got it, we used to call that, "like seeing each other" You would add the "kind of" if it was less. lol. I like your term better!

[MasterKS]

when you do new one.