Do modern women overrate their own value in dating standards?

[Anonymous]

We need a wave of women looking in the mirror and thinking I’m just a normal girl I should find a normal average guy.

We need a generation of women with accountability. We desperately need this. Where women don’t think because one guy did this for me just because he wanted to pipe me and leave. Doesn’t mean that is her new standard of guy.

I agree

I disagree

[Coercion_Is_Trauma]

Doing the right thing for the wrong reason always worsens things.

A lot of crazy high "standards" like "a millionaire with millions of followers" is a byproduct of coercive childhood brainwashing that when they grow up they should be careful not to be raped by some loser. Which creates losers. Which reinfirces the need to brainwash. And the cycle repeats. ㅤ

[Anonymous]

No. I think women's problems are a little more complicated than that. Women find 10% of men attractive at best. It doesn't mean a guy isn't attractive. It just means he doesn't have the right mix of whatever it is that does it for her. Where a woman's problem lies in is when she finds a man attractive she thinks everything should just fall in line with that. Now fat and homely women are used to rejection. So they know not to dream of guy they're never going to get. But women that are not used to rejection, this doesn't compute when a guy doesn't just fall in line with her desires.

Honestly man, so many women are so toxic today most do not have any concept of what actual love is though. Most are just trying to replace the previous toxic relationship they just had.

[FreyaRed]

Women don't fall for men because of optics but in age of dating app where only 3 second long estimation of appearance matters are men clearly in disadvantage.
We need men who behave like a man and not appearance obsessed male pussies with borderline narcissism.
Believe me or not, most unhappy people on this planet are ugly women and lot of men want to win self victimization Olympics with them.

[SecretsofKB]

See this is where it is blatantly obvious you’re a man. Men’s initial focus is on physical appearance. Women, while appreciating physical appearances, tend to place much higher value on other attributes in a potential partner.


Women are not overrating themselves and their “value.” Women are realizing they can set standards and not put up with the lack of “value” a lot of men provide.

[SaoirseS]

You do realize that when you come here in a feeble attempt to troll/antagonize/insult women that all you end up doing is making a big fool of yourself, don’t you?

[Nikki1989]

Modern women need men that are not big attention seeking, insecure crybabies. Where did the real men go?

[Nikki1989]

And the line about accountability was hilariously ironic coming from a man.

[Asker]

Men have no choice but to be accountable about their lives not like women who live life blindly!! Women have to be accountable as reality slaps us hard in the face

[Levin]

Or is it that men over-rate and value them? The whole simping business.

Because when I look at most women I just look through them. Most are average and flawed, same as men.

[OneViewpoint]

Some don't. The internet addicted ones buy into their own bullshit.

[Vegasrunner]

TBH women always have. The difference is today because of social media they realistically think they have a shot w/ guys much higher than them.

[Abbycado]

Nope. Just in your head