Interesting point. I’ve also thought that it’s kind of in a woman’s biological nature to be more selective than men, because women looking for a potential husband and family want to make good offspring.
I absolutely agree that I think there is a biological component to women being more picky, possibly due to how eggs vs sperm and mating works. Women also do seem to generally care more about companionship.There also seems to be a cultural aspect from what I see. Women are raised to be wary of men wanting sex so they go beyond what their natural behavior would be and are instead more resistant of mens' advances. Since men are more often rejected, they have to put out more interest offers in women. Those stack on each other or perpetuate the dynamic to something unnatural. Men start perceiving getting women as scarce so their desirability increases (think diamond value vs rock value). Women think less of men because of the high amount interested in them.What women sometimes don't realize is mens' interest is not necessarily in a relationship, and even if the man is interested in a relationship, he is messaging 100 other girls so he may not actually like her as much as she may think.
I 100% agree with the cultural aspect you described. However, with today’s hookup culture, it is logical for women to be more wary of men’s advances, especially for women who are looking for potential partners to date and then hopefully marry. I’ve found that with some guys who were interested in me, the higher their interest was, the less I was attracted to them. Yet those who were interested in me, but were also exploring other options, were the ones that made me like them even more.
Sounds about right. Today's women are so stuck up. Not all but almost all of them.
People are only as good as the options they have. I meet a lot of women who are just barely average even with makeup but are of the belief they can score a dude who might as well be a Calvin Klein underwear model. If a woman has a bunch of dudes hitting on her that she deems unattractive, it's probably because that's all she can get. They need to be a little more realistic with their expectations.
I agree 100%
Great question Ms Sarah!
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Not really. Girls initiate break ups quite a bit more. Guys are generally the ones losing there, but they obviously lose more in divorce court too.
It's hard to argue with that lol. "Don't be a bitch" should be under be thin lol but yeah.
@cavmanier That men standards is just a pocket edition. You'll see the "not an asshole" in the full version
Because guys have their x boxes.