Do most women have unrealistic standards when it comes to dating?

[Anonymous]

Be honest

[NewYorkCity]

Of course they do LOL, where do you think term top 15 percenters came from? Most women if not all, want only those top 15 percenters. That is the only reason why most of them turn 30+ and still single and childless, because of unrealistic standards and when that happens, they hate ALL men and wish them slow and painful death, because they couldn't get those 15% out of 85%.

[whirled_up_girl]

There must be a few different stats because I've seen other users here say it's 80 percent want the top 20 percent, or 90 percent want the top 10 percent, someone yesterday said top 14 percent, that number seemed so random.

[Asker]

@whirled_up_girl its 80/20

[NewYorkCity]

@whirled_up_girl 20% or 15% or 14% You see the problem here right. 80%+ of guys are basically useless, they are just slave force that keeps society running, which is insanity if you think about it. That means most girls are unhappy, because they are unable to get those top men and most guys are unhappy, because they are unable to get G. F./Wives. because of their low value.

[whirled_up_girl]

@NewYorkCity I think it must be different in rural areas. I live in a rural area in the upper midwest of the U. S. and where I live it seems like 80 percent of women are married or in relationships with 80 percent of men. It seems a lot of people in rural areas pair off in highschool, church or college. I imagine with large cities the case would be quite different though.

[Asker]

@whirled_up_girl If I've seen some homeless people become millionaires, would it be safe to say that most homeless are just lazy then?

[whirled_up_girl]

@Asker Well, apparently all of us are just going off of personal observations as I I have not seen anyone state statisitics from a factual source, just restating opinions that keep getting touted around on the internet.

[Asker]

@whirled_up_girl There's data supporting it. There's anecdotal and then there's data collected from years of observing human behavior

[whirled_up_girl]

Well, feel free to cite that data, it certainly adds more credibility to an argument.

[LimitedBenefits101]

You won't get honest answers from girls on here.

[jennifer_bloom]

Some women expect too little, like the women who put up with abusers, when they are beautiful and smart and could date a guy who adores them. I've heard of women who put up with guys that will not marry them cause they are less than 20 pounds over weight and assume no guy will be attracted to them because of it. In high school I thought I was disgustingly fat because I was 10 pounds heavier than my friends. Not 11 pounds heavier, but 10 pounds heavier.

[HighValue]

The majority of women I have met irl are not nearly as bad and messed up as the delusional ones you see on those shows. The ones that really value social media are, but others aren't. Lots of the ones that attend in person college are though because they are the group that are fed the most lies and still have greatly exaggerated expectations.

I suggest going to meet normal working people that have experienced the real world/reality and you will find MUCH better options for a potential partner.

[UniquelyBasic]

I wouldn't say most but a lot do. Most average women don't though in my opinion.

[Asker]

I watch a podcast called Fresh and fit and they say that women want men that are above them. They don't want average men

[UniquelyBasic]

The women they bring on the show aren't representative of normal women. Those women on the show are a different breed.

[Asker]

They bring all kinds of women though. Not just thots

[UniquelyBasic]

But the women they bring on are those who are going to Miami. Average women aren't going to Miami or getting flown out to be on a podcast.

[Anonymous]

Most do. But since men are the "prey" and men the "hunters" so to speak. Women can do that.

[Opinion Owner]

Women are they prey*

[Farmerboy2]

You asked it for a reason.

[Anonymous]

I haven't met most women.

[MikeInHawaii]

YES!!!