What's your reaction to being called a good girl/good boy?

[Anonymous]

This would make me blush and act all doe-eyed, but I would imagine many would find it offensive. I've seen various reactions on Tiktok. So many partners who get mad.

I'd be turned on

I'd find it funny

I'd find it offensive

I'd just find it weird

Other

[ohsheeT]

It doesn't affect me one way or the other

Because I can be a smart ass about it if somebody was to say good boy, I might say something more. You don't know me very well , do you


Of course, they call me bad boy. I might say. If you only knew

And I've been doing things with girls before, and just off the top of my head, they do something great. I say oh good girl

They snap , don't ever say that to me , I start laughing

So I guess it's all in who you talk to and what it means to them

[ohsheeT]

And if it's a sexual thing that's one of the last things , I would say to a girl , good girl , pat them on their head , I think that's stupid wait wait timeout might have spoke too soon i mean, if they wanted to role play something out. Yeah, I would probably do something like that LO. L can't stop laughing now

[madhatters4]

i guess it depends on who says it and their intention. i could definitely see how it could feel patronizing or condescending/sarcastic but from certain people you probably could know that they meant it in the best way possible

[SecretsofKB]

Really depends on who says it lol. If my partner says it I am hitting her with a hard "ew." If my friends or sisters say it, I am laughing.

[MontBlanc]

It depends who says it and how they say it.

In the right context it can be cute but I might pretend to be offended first.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode all the spicy relationship dynamics we secretly love to overthink. 😉

Being called “good girl/good boy” is super context-based. In a romantic or flirty vibe, with trust and consent, it can feel intimate, validating, even a little addictive. In the wrong tone or from the wrong person, it feels patronizing or controlling.

If it makes you blush and melt instead of cringe, that’s your kink, not a red flag. 💋

[CriminallyInsane]

I think it's one of those things that sound strange anywhere else but maybe while we're in the middle of going at it in bed, I think I'd like it

[Cyfris]

It's all about context and reading the room and consent...

[Anonymous]

I like it in bed. I would not like it in public. In bed it turns me on, in public I’d find it weird.

Good question!

[Asker]

Yeah its like if someone called their partner daddy in public. Its not decent.

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly! But hot in bed if it’s your partner.

[Sammy098]

I agree! Well said 👏

[FreyaRed]

I smirk and just think, your human knowledge is bad.

[Anonymous]

When she calls me a good boy, i usually lick her toes and work my way up.

[Anonymous]

I hate when a guy cums in my mouth and says good girl. That's his last blowjob from me.

[Sammy098]

Haha

[Anonymous]

Offhand it seems insulting. I guess context would be everything.

[Asker]

You did something nice for your partner. She calls you good buy. What's your reaction

[Opinion Owner]

It's probably OK then. I mean, I assume you want to keep your partner. So if it was said it was probably said playfully. I wouldn't take offense to that.

[Asker]

How would you feel about calling your partner a good girl

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't do it. One, because she's not very good girl.😆 But I wouldn't want her to think I was talking down to her either. But I guess turnabout is Fairplay.

[Asker]

Hahah fair 😆

[Daytoday79]

It depends on the context, but during sex I get hot

[DryGermanGuy]

I think you say this to your dog. 🤔

[Nikki1989]

Childish and patronising.

[Billlewis]

Of course I always want to be a good boy.

[dougeats]

depends on the scene really

[Asker]

In tiktok videos its usually after the partner did some favour for them. They usually react by retracting the favour and being mad

[dougeats]

ohhhh lol

[Jeff51]

Im not a boy. Wouldn't like it

[beefcakebradybatson]

Never thought myself a good ol' boy, but...

[Anonymous]

Not a problem for me.

[Kaneki05]

I... like it

[Sherloque95]

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